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Do you feel in a work driven and individualistic society we have today that marriage is still a possible thing to do.  Do you even have any remote interest in doing this in the future an if you are possibly already married what type of challenges present themselves to you and your partner.   

 

 

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I can't see myself marrying. Well, she'd have to be pretty fucking special,

for me to spend all that money, and put up with all the annoying shit that goes along with arranging it.

 

Women love it for the attention and shit, but I hate having too much attention and fussing around me.

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I want to get married and have kids :) :). I'm in college, btw. 

Also, just because many of us live in individualistic societies doesn't mean we, too, have to partake in living our lives in that way. So yes, I think marriage is still very much possible. 

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I want to get married and have kids :) :). I'm in college, btw. 

Also, just because many of us live in individualistic societies doesn't mean we, too, have to partake in living our lives in that way. So yes, I think marriage is still very much possible.

 

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Marriage is an illusion that is most likely destined to fail, just find someone you are happy with and stay with them. So, to answer your question, no.

I am not sure about other countries but in Canada you dont really have a choice tbh, if you lived with your partner for 5 years your automatically considered a married couple by law and if you decide to break it off you are still judged the same as a married couple in court, its quite an unfair system, so thats why a lot of people are hesitant to even live together here.  

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I can't see myself marrying. Well, she'd have to be pretty fucking special,

for me to spend all that money, and put up with all the annoying shit that goes along with arranging it.

 

Women love it for the attention and shit, but I hate having too much attention and fussing around me.

 

No one's forcing you to have a huge wedding tbh, it can be lowkey

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I am not sure about other countries but in Canada you dont really have a choice tbh, if you lived with your partner for 5 years your automatically considered a married couple by law and if you decide to break it off you are still judged the same as a married couple in court, its quite an unfair system, so thats why a lot of people are hesitant to even live together here.

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I want to get married and have kids :) :). I'm in college, btw. 

Also, just because many of us live in individualistic societies doesn't mean we, too, have to partake in living our lives in that way. So yes, I think marriage is still very much possible. 

You raise a good point and I think its possible for some people, I hope your lucky enough to find a partner who has those same ideals but a lot of people have already been roped in into a me first lifestyle which is tough to break off for the sake of a partner.

 

 

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Except for Quebec most other provinces have this law at least mine does and this is why marriage is such a big risk here, because you literally have to be sure that person is someone who you are committed to or else you could face a heavy loss depending on how much of an investment you put in into both your lifestyles. 

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I am not sure about other countries but in Canada you dont really have a choice tbh, if you lived with your partner for 5 years your automatically considered a married couple by law and if you decide to break it off you are still judged the same as a married couple in court, its quite an unfair system, so thats why a lot of people are hesitant to even live together here.  

I believe the US has this too, but on much longer period of time than 5 years. I can't remember the actual term though. 

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You think a woman would agree to that ?! LMFAOOOOO

 

Yes, not every woman is the same. Some might have the same mentality as you do. I guess if they don't, you have to come to some sort of compromise. Breaking off a relationship for something like this is stupid imo.

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I do think it's possible but I would be lying if I said my POV about it didn't change drastically over the years. Yes, it's a celebration of love and sign of deep committment (or at least I guess it's suppose to be) but it's also a contract, involves a lot of money and it's very emotionally demanding. There are a lot of grey areas about it and at the end of the day it depends of the type of relationship the two people involved share. 

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I am not sure about other countries but in Canada you dont really have a choice tbh, if you lived with your partner for 5 years your automatically considered a married couple by law and if you decide to break it off you are still judged the same as a married couple in court, its quite an unfair system, so thats why a lot of people are hesitant to even live together here.  

 

It's the same in Mexico. Such a strange law, tbh :unsure: :unsure:.

 

You raise a good point and I think its possible for some people, I hope your lucky enough to find a partner who has those same ideals but a lot of people have already been roped in into a me first lifestyle which is tough to break off for the sake of a partner.

 

 

Thank you :) :)!!

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I work at a big public accounting firm and I'm in the tax department. Everyone at my office is either married or engaged. And here I am saying "Fuck that shit, I'm never getting married." I've seen far too many situations in my life where the husband gets fucked over in divorce, so there's no way I'm ever getting married.

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