____shawnee 4,118 Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 i once had a friend who tried to leave the kpop fandom for a while because it was causing low self-esteem and anxiety and stuff. i also know a friend who is so sexually attracted to some idols, that it leaves them very frustrated and unsatisfied with life, knowing they will never get a taste. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fruit 8,880 Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 it's not that serious Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinnamon buns 4,642 Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 it's not that serious Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Only 1 U Need Connoisseur 6,671 Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
____shawnee 4,118 Posted December 27, 2015 Author Share Posted December 27, 2015 it's not that serious low self esteem isn't serious? that's not very nice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baby Don't Cry 5,451 Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 Uhm, no. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Only 1 U Need Connoisseur 6,671 Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 low self esteem isn't serious? that's not very nice. They mean't their love for idols should not effect that lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Serenee 3,730 Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 Actually the negativity saddens me sometimes, but I have never had low-self esteem or any type of anxiety because of Kpop. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nancy mcflurry 2,385 Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 it's not that serious Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starlight 1,108 Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 I mean, there are moments where something in Kpop may make me feel sad/upset, but it's not like a serious, longterm effect on my emotions or something. My overall mood is fairly consistent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sailor Mars 1,981 Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 no? if it affected you self-esteem, you already had low self esteem tbh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
____shawnee 4,118 Posted December 27, 2015 Author Share Posted December 27, 2015 They mean't their love for idols should not effect that lol. its not something so easily controlled Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stepkdramafan226 6,734 Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 it's not that serious You are in for a surprise then Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
westrocket 415 Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 no, it actually had the opposite effect on me. my self-esteem got a lot better after getting into kpop. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mischo 7,462 Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 It's not that deep fam Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wonder. 4,181 Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 no kpop doesnt affect me that much tbh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ErikaEGO 8,626 Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 I just wanted some damn ice cream Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OREKI 213 Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 no. but it makes me sad when I look at my friend who is obsessed with kpop. like he'd kill himself for an idol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaehyun 1,909 Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 No for me, but I have already seen some young fans being very very VERY obsessed with idols, to the point of only thinking about them. It was 5 years ago and I hope they stopped that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
____shawnee 4,118 Posted December 27, 2015 Author Share Posted December 27, 2015 no, it actually had the opposite effect on me. my self-esteem got a lot better after getting into kpop. thats pretty interesting Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hadda 82 Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 Nope, or at last not with Kpop, the only people who in fact do make me feel like that are models on Instagram Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Only 1 U Need Connoisseur 6,671 Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 its not something so easily controlled how old were they? assuming young af.. no offense. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
widwit 1,335 Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 no kpop doesnt affect me that much tbh Same. If someone has other hobbies and outside interests it shouldn't affect them so deeply. Maybe they're just extra emotional or sensitive though, IDK. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
biscuit 100 Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 My friend was exactly like that with Rain so when the dating news hit, well she became depressed and it really effected her. So yes, on SOME people it does. From crushes/attractions to the body standards, anything could have an effect. But just as it has negative, theres also positive. Nothing beats the feeling when your favs drop albums, etc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trollalah 137 Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 no, it actually had the opposite effect on me. my self-esteem got a lot better after getting into kpop. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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