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Abortion by coat hanger, how?


Dr. Kim (PhD)

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So, some woman is up for murder for trying to abort her baby by coat hanger and I'm just sitting here thinking "does that mean what I think it means? do you actually stick a coat hanger up your privates and just jiggle it all about?" In what world would any sane person do that? 

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Undo the twist in the coat hanger, so on and so forth and it does it through physical trauma.

 

Women have done it because they're in truly desperate situations and may not have access to safe abortions. It not only kills the fetus but is EXTREMELY dangerous to the woman.

 

Like women don't just shove coat hangers into their uterus cause they want an abortion there are a shit ton of other factors that contribute to disgusting methods of terminating a pregnancy like that. It doesn't mean you're insane. Read about it instead of trivializing it.

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Undo the twist in the coat hanger, so on and so forth and it does it through physical trauma.

 

Women have done it because they're in truly desperate situations and may not have access to safe abortions. It not only kills the fetus but is EXTREMELY dangerous to the woman.

 

Like women don't just shove coat hangers into their uterus cause they want an abortion there are a shit ton of other factors that contribute to disgusting methods of terminating a pregnancy like that. It doesn't mean you're insane. Read about it instead of trivializing it.

 

Thank you a lot for saying this!

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"why would any sane person do this"

 

if they use extreme methods like this it's because they can't stay sane under the pressure of knowing they have unwanted pregnancy, societal judgment, family abandonment, etc.

 

having something unwanted growing inside you is a horrific thing.. just think of someone being raped and having to carry a rapist's child, that's disgusting.

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Undo the twist in the coat hanger, so on and so forth and it does it through physical trauma.

 

Women have done it because they're in truly desperate situations and may not have access to safe abortions. It not only kills the fetus but is EXTREMELY dangerous to the woman.

 

Like women don't just shove coat hangers into their uterus cause they want an abortion there are a shit ton of other factors that contribute to disgusting methods of terminating a pregnancy like that. It doesn't mean you're insane. Read about it instead of trivializing it.

 

This is so important. Thank you for making this point.

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why would any sane person murder a baby period? there are many people who have unplanned pregnancies and go to extreme measures to kill the baby. murdering it after it's born even. it's really disgusting to think about.

 

if you have to ask this question then you know nothing of the desperation women feel before they will resort to this.

 

I have a 16 year old patient try to give herself an abortion because her parents said they would kick her out if she got pregnant. She did so much damage to herself that they had to perform a hysterectomy (remove her uterus) at 16 years old.

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if you have to ask this question then you know nothing of the desperation women feel before they will resort to this.

 

I have a 16 year old patient try to give herself an abortion because her parents said they would kick her out if she got pregnant. She did so much damage to herself that they had to perform a hysterectomy (remove her uterus) at 16 years old.

k, but that just proves my point. people going through that immense amount of desperation and stress are just not in their right state of mind.  they're not thinking of all the consequences ect and are therefore not completely sane. that's my opinion. 

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k, but that just proves my point. people going through that immense amount of desperation and stress are just not in their right state of mind.  they're not thinking of all the consequences ect and are therefore not completely sane. that's my opinion.

 

people have done all sort of extreme things throughout history in times of desperation - it doesn't mean they were insane to begin with. Is someone who murders a burgalar who broke into their home at night insane? No. They were acting out of desperation. My 16 year old patient was far from insane: she got good grades, was popular at school, and went to church regularly. But to avoid familial abandonment and abuse, she did a desperate thing.

 

It's easy to say these things when you have never been in this situation. If you are a pregnant woman who has been raped, or become pregnant in a society with extreme consequences, what would you find yourself doing? You can't really say unless you've been there.

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people have done all sort of extreme things throughout history in times of desperation - it doesn't mean they were insane to begin with. Is someone who murders a burgalar who broke into their home at night insane? No. They were acting out of desperation. My 16 year old patient was far from insane: she got good grades, was popular at school, and went to church regularly. But to avoid familial abandonment and abuse, she did a desperate thing.

 

It's easy to say these things when you have never been in this situation. If you are a pregnant woman who has been raped, or become pregnant in a society with extreme consequences, what would you find yourself doing? You can't really say unless you've been there.

i have formed my own opinion based on my own experiences, my own life, and my own values just as you have. you aren't going to change that opinion so it's really not even worth arguing about. 

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easy, give birth and adopt!!

if a woman is in such a difficult situation that she is already considering a self abortion, how easily do you think she can obtain adequate medical care throughout the pregnancy and a safe place to give birth?

 

I not sure about where you live but in my country adoption is an extremely complicated and difficult process for everyone involved... Nothing about it is easy. I say this as someone who was adopted. Most children in the system will never be adopted, and their chances are even slimmer if they are of color or disabled, and then those chances grow even slimmer with every year because few people are willing to adopt children that aren't infants.

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