Gloupsidou 2,047 Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 So my friend and I both have had crushes on 2 guys since the beginning of uni. Turns out she asked her crush if he was into her and he said not at all, then turned out to be into me. And apparently my crush is flirting with other ppl (le ouch) I've never been the person liked, but I've been the person that likes a guy who likes my friend twice before (since I am the loud, talkative, confident and awkward type) wtf am I supposed to do? This situation not only hurts me, but also my friend, and eventually the guy. What would you do? My relationship expertise is close to none, since I fucking suck at them and usually just "see" guys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Instigate 315 Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 His feelings have nothing to do with yours. It'd only be troublesome if you also liked him, which I assume you don't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shavon Jovi 219 Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 oh boy can you believe this situation? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iljin Prince 904 Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 Yeah, you better keep this a secret. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delincious 5,654 Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 don't go out with your friend's crush you have no reason to and one reason not to, so definitely don't as for your own crush ... that sucks but there's not much you can do. if you can accept his ways then go for it, if you can't then don't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SunnyHill's Comeback 2,080 Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 Yeah... fucking combo breaker above me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupsidou 2,047 Posted October 10, 2013 Author Share Posted October 10, 2013 His feelings have nothing to do with yours. It'd only be troublesome if you also liked him, which I assume you don't. He is the very opposite of "my type" you better keep this a secret. fuck no If he comes to me I'll just tell him I'm into someone else. btw I also forgot to mention he used to go out with my ex bff now archnemesis before so there's no fucking way I'm picking up the remainings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KinkySanta 1,073 Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 Just ignore it. If he means nothing to you he should be relatively easy to turn down. Try your best to have your friend never find out though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whiteasian 732 Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 i think just say exactly that you are not interested in ur friends crush so that they both know too bad about the one you like tho ._. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupsidou 2,047 Posted October 10, 2013 Author Share Posted October 10, 2013 Just ignore it. If he means nothing to you he should be relatively easy to turn down. Try your best to have your friend never find out though. He told my friend directly at a bar lol so #oops #toolate and #shemad i think just say exactly that you are not interested in ur friends crush so that they both know too bad about the one you like tho ._. I keep telling her but the more I tell her the more I feel like I insult her like as if I'm putting down her crush and it's not going well (the convincing) so... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ogre Shrek 8,980 Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 oh boy can you believe this situation? Yeah, you better keep this a secret. OP didn't get it... Lines in Galaxy Supernova Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupsidou 2,047 Posted October 10, 2013 Author Share Posted October 10, 2013 OP didn't get it... I did get the reference to Galaxy Supernova but cbf with it atm. Assuming is fucking bad, didn't your parents at least teach you that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whiteasian 732 Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 He told my friend directly at a bar lol so #oops #toolate and #shemad I keep telling her but the more I tell her the more I feel like I insult her like as if I'm putting down her crush and it's not going well (the convincing) so... oh man idk... i'd say sometimes you can act as though the issue is resolved and through that your friend will feel more comfortable, but it depends on your relationship with them ._. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Temptastic VII 6,473 Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 OP didn't get it... Lines in Galaxy Supernova /fucking dead at it though. OP, don't go near that guy. You should be breaking hearts like Suzy and Yoona. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KinkySanta 1,073 Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 He told my friend directly at a bar lol so #oops #toolate and #shemad I keep telling her but the more I tell her the more I feel like I insult her like as if I'm putting down her crush and it's not going well (the convincing) so... The part about him being into you? Yikes. That sucks that she's mad though. I mean it's not like you deliberately tried to take him or anything Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupsidou 2,047 Posted October 10, 2013 Author Share Posted October 10, 2013 oh man idk... i'd say sometimes you can act as though the issue is resolved and through that your friend will feel more comfortable, but it depends on your relationship with them ._. I got to know both dudes and my friend at the beginning of college but the girl and I bonded very quickly. The part about him being into you? Yikes. That sucks that she's mad though. I mean it's not like you deliberately tried to take him or anything I guess but I think my crush is mostly into her so I guess that's even... lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupsidou 2,047 Posted October 10, 2013 Author Share Posted October 10, 2013 Update: My friend just told me "I don't know if he likes me, but I'm sorry cuz I might like him back if he does." I'm all wtf wtf wtf I am a chick before dick type of person. And all of my friends tend to not abide to that rule. I'm fucking tired of this shit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupsidou 2,047 Posted October 11, 2013 Author Share Posted October 11, 2013 Update 2.0: My crush invited me to go for coffee and turns out all three guys (my other friend's crush) are kinda into me so I'm all Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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