KaniPi 2,626 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 I find it annoying when people listen and react to other peoples conversations, which has nothing to do with them, especially couples (they must find each other so boring) I was eating with my friends, and this couple sat next to us. We started talking about video games and anime (which we do), and when I started talking, they just turned to look at me for a few seconds (that judge stare) (not quite like this, but close enough...in my mind) I'm not sure but the woman called me childish (well somebody has to be boring grown up) Some guy also turned around to look (also a couple) This is why I don't like talking in restaurants... *maybe I should carry a couple of eggs in my hand bag, may come in handy* We're still quite young so I thought it was a bit strange for them to react like that. (then again that's British people for you, we find anything even remotely a "little different" judge worthy) I just think that whatever age you are, whether you're younger or older. You should like anything you want. You don't have to have the same interests as everyone. Do what you feel most comfortable with. Its still annoying as heck when people judge you for it though, but what are you going to do. Life. So yeah, feel free to share your pains of the nosy people (if you have any) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BubbleGumPop 14 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 I'd tell them "you need something" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kxjay 3,543 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 True and I get shit all the time from people when I watch anime...like are you srs? A lot of anime shows go in so much deeper and tackle touchy subjects than most of the shit aimed at adults But yeah enjoy what you love, why care what people think? The only ones being childish are the ones judging you for doing what you love to do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ピンク�クマ 4,739 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 Your Sig is flawless. God bless ur flat soul True and I get shit all the time from people when I watch anime...like are you srs? A lot of anime shows go in so much deeper and tackle touchy subjects than most of the shit aimed at adults But yeah enjoy what you love, why care what people think? The only ones being childish are the ones judging you for doing what you love to do Weeb Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kxjay 3,543 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 Weeb I'm weeb and I'm proud! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krizzza 156 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 sometimes, I like it when I make people laugh but when I am talking about serious stuff I prefer them to not listen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jcey 7,752 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 I would probably secretly listen or stare too but for a different reason. I love animes.♡♡. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D a n t e 1,723 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 I'm not that bothered by it tbh unless it's something private. I mean if they're alone they don't have anyone to talk with to distract them from other people's conversations and it's not like you can close your ears. But if they turn their heads to judge who cares I don't know them and probably won't see them ever again. If they start talking about it I'd tell them to get a life and find something better to do than to listen to other people's conversation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted December 15, 2015 Author Share Posted December 15, 2015 True and I get shit all the time from people when I watch anime...like are you srs? A lot of anime shows go in so much deeper and tackle touchy subjects than most of the shit aimed at adults But yeah enjoy what you love, why care what people think? The only ones being childish are the ones judging you for doing what you love to do One girl actually told me anime is just "cartoons" I cringed so hard at that and she called me childish. I was like "yeah... you have no idea what you're talking about. So I'll just pretend you're actually intelligent". I'm glad my family doesn't judge me though, in a serious sense. They know what I like, and it makes me happy. Some anime have really amazing stories and I admire the art work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arietta 789 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 I always have a feeling that people around me are listening to whatever conversation I'm having and it makes me really anxious Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sylar 521 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 i do not mind it at all infact, i do that sometimes if it is nothing rude/mean or anything then why would i mind, i actually like it if people are random like that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Meets Requirements 973 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 My younger brother does this to me and my twin brother all the time. I just want to ask him "why do you even exist?", but "nobody likes you" usually suffices. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sky☆ 1,115 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 yeah, sometimes it's so freaking annoying. When my friend and I were talking about kpop one day, this jerky guy in my class overheard and then told the whole entire class, "Kpop sucks. No one even likes kpop. Well, except for -my name- and -my friend's name-. Whoever likes kpop are morons" I just wanted to punch him in the face right there, because he was being so goddamn… stupid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
S0YA 1,256 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 I dont really mind unless my conversation is something really private. Last week I was on the train with my friend we were talking about milk(?) and some nice looking guy next to us told us a related story. Lol it was random/interesting. Though I cant take a call when I'm in one quiet place with a lot of people. Most of the time those are serious and I get anxious if someone hears so I never do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Kim (PhD) 540 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 just tell them to fuck off Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kxjay 3,543 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 One girl actually told me anime is just "cartoons" I cringed so hard at that and she called me childish. I was like "yeah... you have no idea what you're talking about. So I'll just pretend you're actually intelligent". I'm glad my family doesn't judge me though, in a serious sense. They know what I like, and it makes me happy. Some anime have really amazing stories and I admire the art work. Some people just don't get it tbh And then you turn around and see those same people judging you for watching anime watch Frozen like 10 times lmao And true. The vast amount of different art styles and stories in anime and some cartoons (A:TLA or LOK) have such vast amount of detail placed into them. And if you think about it, they're really just one big art piece Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Only 1 U Need Connoisseur 6,671 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 Can you feed me more Roy Harper? Thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted December 15, 2015 Author Share Posted December 15, 2015 Can you feed me more Roy Harper? Thanks. I don't know why but sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Only 1 U Need Connoisseur 6,671 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 I don't know why but sure. Cuz he is my fav from arrow. =3 I hate all the women but felicity cuz they are annoying as shit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
90liner 1,904 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 I don't mind if people interject to ask a question or because they are also interested in the topic, because I love talking to new people, but I'd probably get annoyed if a random stranger was being judgmental and interjected to tell me how to live my life like the person in the OP. I've never had that happen though luckily! I don't have a particular interest in anime, but I think it's stupid to judge people for liking it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shownu 954 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 If i know those people then i don't mind Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
widwit 1,335 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 I find it annoying when people listen and react to other peoples conversations, which has nothing to do with them, especially couples (they must find each other so boring) I was eating with my friends, and this couple sat next to us. We started talking about video games and anime (which we do), and when I started talking, they just turned to look at me for a few seconds (that judge stare) (not quite like this, but close enough...in my mind) I'm not sure but the woman called me childish (well somebody has to be boring grown up) I hate that too. I usually just stare back at them until they look away. I just think that whatever age you are, whether you're younger or older. You should like anything you want. You don't have to have the same interests as everyone. Do what you feel most comfortable with. Its still annoying as heck when people judge you for it though, but what are you going to do. Life. Right? If something like anime or video games or kpop or WHATEVER brings someone happiness and makes their lives more enjoyable, why would you want to put them down for it? It doesn't make any sense to me. They're not hurting you or affecting your life in any way, so let people enjoy the things they love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted December 16, 2015 Author Share Posted December 16, 2015 I hate that too. I usually just stare back at them until they look away. Right? If something like anime or video games or kpop or WHATEVER brings someone happiness and makes their lives more enjoyable, why would you want to put them down for it? It doesn't make any sense to me. They're not hurting you or affecting your life in any way, so let people enjoy the things they love. I can assume those types of people dislike that a person can be comfortable with themselves. They're probably very conscious about what others think. When they see someone that doesn't fit their stereotype, that's why they either try to label them or try to bring them down, so they can be insecure. They need therapy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lipslocked 3,780 Posted December 16, 2015 Share Posted December 16, 2015 I think I would slightly narrow my eyes a little at the person who intruded our conversation but I won't take it to heart Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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