what is bashing?

[sasha]

and how do you do this?

 

 

[dinolover]

pure hatred.

all criticism isnt bashing.

[Meth Krystal]

Enlighten yourself by visiting the Bashing Thread. 

[abra]

This is bashing:

 

[sasha]

Enlighten yourself by visiting the Bashing Thread. 

already did. and it's too much for me lol. so i'm interested in why ppl do this

[BABOGIRL]

pure hatred.

all criticism isnt bashing.

 

unfortunately some do not know how to differentiate.

[TIM£]

Reading with no credentials

[Temptastic VII]

pure hatred.

all criticism isnt bashing.

 

This. Constructive Criticism isn't bashing if it's well-meant 

[whiteasian]

its treating your negative opinion of something as completely accurate and then telling everynoe who likes that thing that they're wrong and not listening to any form of debate around your opinion

[~ PD Hercule Poirot ~]

Being rude and lovin' it

[Green Teaa]

Pure hatred, cruel bitchiness, and I think mockery can become bashing too.

[Midna]

Homin stans think making fun of Changmin's hair is bashing. they also think saying that their music as of late is boring, saying that TIME is a terrible album is bashing etc.

 

especially when the people who say this are fans too lmao

 

bashing is just pure hatred with no reasonable justification for their words ofc.

[Meth Krystal]

Being rude and lovin' it

 

yus

[sasha]

Homin stans think making fun of Changmin's hair is bashing. they also think saying that their music as of late is boring, saying that TIME is a terrible album is bashing etc.

 

especially when the people who say this are fans too lmao

 

bashing is just pure hatred with no reasonable justification for their words ofc.

very nice of you to mention homin stan? is it for me?

[Midna]

very nice of you to mention homin stan? is it for me?

 

no, its the majority of you all in general that i encountered. it always made me question if you guys knew what bashing was tbh. cuz the ones i met acted exactly liked old kpop fans.

[Teru]

there's a difference between saying "this album is terrible" and "I don't like this album" as with everything.

 

I don't mind if someone doesn't like something I like. nothing to do with me. I'll only respond if I think they're making an objective statement about something that's totally subjective

[krystalized]

idk... im so nice and that word is not in my dictionary :3

 

LOL

[Midna]

there's a difference between saying "this album is terrible" and "I don't like this album" as with everything.

 

I don't mind if someone doesn't like something I like. nothing to do with me. I'll only respond if I think they're making an objective statement about something that's totally subjective

 

okay

 

in my opinion, this album is terrible and I don't like this album (theyre both the same to me)

 

you forget, when people say this it's not a fact, but an opinion. and this is wht i don't understand. and since it's a forum, everything is pretty much an opinion.

 

tho maybe people get pressed easily? idk i jus never cared.

[sasha]

no, its the majority of you all in general that i encountered. it always made me question if you guys knew what bashing was tbh. cuz the ones i met acted exactly liked old kpop fans.

lol whatever~

tbh i think you need to put the chill on homin stan. it's like every time i see your posts it's you telling homin stan that homin stan are stupid cause they think homin still has a good music. and most of the times you are being rude about it. though i suspect you enjoy this too much to stop

[Teru]

okay

 

in my opinion, this album is terrible and I don't like this album (theyre both the same to me)

 

you forget, when people say this it's not a fact, but an opinion. and this is wht i don't understand. and since it's a forum, everything is pretty much an opinion.

 

tho maybe people get pressed easily? idk i jus never cared.

 

that's cool if you don't like it, I don't mind. having an opinion is fine and you can say whatever you want if you have one. the thing about opinions is they don't have a forcefield around them.. you have to be prepared for people to vocally disagree. if you don't want people to argue with you, keep controversial opinions to yourself. if you like a bit of arguing, go nuts. sometimes I'm in the mood for a back-and-forth and sometimes I'm not, same for most I imagine

[hinakimichan]

Depends on how you take the comment. :O

 

Sometimes, people just likes so much the singers that they deny the fact that their releases are terrible.

[Gloupsidou]

Crashing/running into a lamppost is "Bashing". 

 

[Midna]

lol whatever~

tbh i think you need to put the chill on homin stan. it's like every time i see your posts it's you telling homin stan that homin stan are stupid cause they think homin still has a good music. and most of the times you are being rude about it. though i suspect you enjoy this too much to stop

 

Stop.

 

I have never once thought you guys were stupid for liking their music. I am also ngl and say that arguing with you guys is fun sometimes because you guys get defensive way too easily. Which brings me to the next point: you guys are WAY too defensive when someone says something bad about them. Now, I am also not an angel and I will do the same sometimes (only to correct their ignorance and inaccuracy), but I generally don't care because their opinion doesn't matter. I just find it weird how you guys cant take it when someone criticizes HoMin. I mean I criticize Ayu as well, but that doesnt make me less of a fan. I can't like everything she does.

 

You forget that I am also a fan as well. I liked Catch Me and Tone. What I don't like is electropop. which is pretty much everything they are doing now. :| like, I DONT LIKE electropop. The Jpop peeps are very aware of this lol. it has to be a really good song in the genre for me to like it. Unfortunately a lot of TVXQ's music is this genre now.

 

Why the hell would I find someone stupid if they liked HoMin's music? LOL their music's not bad, i Just don't like their new sound lol.

 

that's cool if you don't like it, I don't mind. having an opinion is fine and you can say whatever you want if you have one. the thing about opinions is they don't have a forcefield around them.. you have to be prepared for people to vocally disagree. if you don't want people to argue with you, keep controversial opinions to yourself. if you like a bit of arguing, go nuts. sometimes I'm in the mood for a back-and-forth and sometimes I'm not, same for most I imagine

 

Oh, I know about that. But I assumed it would be okay and we would all be mature about it. The Jpop side is pretty cool in this regard tbh. We can argue and argue, but at the end of the day, we know it's just a debate and there's no hard feelings ( i hope). I just don't get riled up easily when someone criticizes my faves. idk.

[Teru]

Stop.

 

I have never once thought you guys were stupid for liking their music. I am also ngl and say that arguing with you guys is fun sometimes because you guys get defensive way too easily. Which brings me to the next point: you guys are WAY too defensive when someone says something bad about them. Now, I am also not an angel and I will do the same sometimes (only to correct their ignorance and inaccuracy), but I generally don't care because their opinion doesn't matter. I just find it weird how you guys cant take it when someone criticizes HoMin. I mean I criticize Ayu as well, but that doesnt make me less of a fan. I can't like everything she does.

 

You forget that I am also a fan as well. I liked Catch Me and Tone. What I don't like is electropop. which is pretty much everything they are doing now. :| like, I DONT LIKE electropop. The Jpop peeps are very aware of this lol. it has to be a really good song in the genre for me to like it. Unfortunately a lot of TVXQ's music is this genre now.

 

 

Oh, I know about that. But I assumed it would be okay and we would all be mature about it. The Jpop side is pretty cool in this regard tbh. We can argue and argue, but at the end of the day, we know it's just a debate and there's no hard feelings ( i hope). I just don't get riled up easily when someone criticizes my faves. idk.

 

me neither really, unless it's a very vicious or harmful rumour they're spouting. but even then... I brush most things off. I think it just comes with age, I definitely care less about other people's opinions over time, lol.

[Midna]

me neither really, unless it's a very vicious or harmful rumour they're spouting. but even then... I brush most things off. I think it just comes with age, I definitely care less about other people's opinions over time, lol.

 

i think i did too much defending as a young kpop fan that now im just w/e to everything. now it's just not worth my time and I guess I learned (over time) that it's okay to not like everything your fave puts out lol.