KinkySanta 1,073 Posted November 20, 2015 Share Posted November 20, 2015 because he talked me into being exclusive, and I actually kinda have been loving it so far? We've been exclusive for like 2 weeks or so now and I actually am having no problems with it. I thought the only type of relationship I'd be happy in is an open relationship. Guess I was wrong. I have had no problems saying no to going out with my ex (even though he is beyond cute oh my gosh). Plus I'm really starting to like this guy. I feel like initially we were a little too different in our vibes, but we've seemed to find this happy medium between my super chill and his energetic ways. I find it so much easier to pay attention to just one guy instead of the two I was juggling before. Just thought I'd share since I made that topic about me being excited about him agreeing to an open relationship and all. Just an update. What do you guys prefer? Dating multiple people or just having one person? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cabbage.Boi 530 Posted November 20, 2015 Share Posted November 20, 2015 da fuck? have you been dating all those little helpers again? bad santa! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarah ☆ 4,630 Posted November 20, 2015 Share Posted November 20, 2015 glad you're happy and it seems to be working out i've only ever dated one person at a time but i wouldn't be against an open relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clover. 10,048 Posted November 20, 2015 Share Posted November 20, 2015 My ex wanted to go open in the beggining. I've agreed until I saw him flirting with someone else. I guess I'm too jelly to go open. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
...... 3,962 Posted November 20, 2015 Share Posted November 20, 2015 i prefer not dating... period. like... i like beneficial friendships... i like no strings attached fun stuff... i don't like "dating" "boyfriend" "girlfriend" stuff... it's just not where i'm at right now... i guess by default that makes things polyamorous though... to sort of answer op question. Glad things are working out with you though! I think great real relationships can come from originally open ones. Open relationships foster more honesty imo... you have a stronger foundation now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ripiaoppa 15,307 Posted November 20, 2015 Share Posted November 20, 2015 aww cuute ~ and I actually read your other threads so I know what you're talking about Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abra 40,910 Posted November 20, 2015 Share Posted November 20, 2015 I'm happy that things are working out for you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Erii 3,227 Posted November 20, 2015 Share Posted November 20, 2015 I love open relationship~ but all my exes hate it lol~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs.Galaxy 2,475 Posted November 20, 2015 Share Posted November 20, 2015 Yay, glad everything worked out for you ^_^ At the moment I want no relationship lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hiraishrimp 5,413 Posted November 20, 2015 Share Posted November 20, 2015 prefer one person because i'm not overly social, so i wouldn't know how to handle 2 or more people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nev Schulman 7,948 Posted November 22, 2015 Share Posted November 22, 2015 I prefer no dating. I mean I just dont see myself with a partner. But even then I prefer to have one person Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sylar 521 Posted November 22, 2015 Share Posted November 22, 2015 one person only definitely for several reasons Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toastie 112 Posted November 23, 2015 Share Posted November 23, 2015 I have poly friends, some of whom are currently in long-term relationships with multiple people, and I admire them for that. I prefer having one partner though, being poly is something that requires a lot more communication and I'm not able to handle that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted November 23, 2015 Share Posted November 23, 2015 Congrats on you I guess As for your question I'm a bit lazy so dating one person at a time would be more than enough for me and although I don't think there's nothing wrong in having an open relationship that wouldn't work for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delincious 5,654 Posted November 23, 2015 Share Posted November 23, 2015 i thought it had ended a while ago already Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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