blank_stare 2,217 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 An adult say 18 y/o and up is dating a 13 y/o and up can't be a pedophile. Hebephile yes, pedophile no. Definition of Hebephile: A hebephile is a person who is primarily attracted to adolescents, or children who have at least started puberty and have signs of adult sexual maturation, but are still young and developing both mentally and physically. Generally, this means teenagers and preteens between 11 and 14 years old. Age of Consent by State State Age of Consent Acceptable Differences Between Ages Alabama 16 2 Alaska 16 3 Arizona 18 2 Arkansas 16 3 California 18 0 Colorado 17 4 Connecticut 16 2 Delaware 18 0 Florida 18 0 Georgia 16 0 Hawaii 16 5 Idaho 18 0 Illinois 17 0 Indiana 16 0 Iowa 16 4 Kansas 16 0 Kentucky 16 0 Louisiana 17 3 Maine 16 5 Maryland 16 4 Massachusetts 16 0 Michigan 16 0 Minnesota 16 2 Mississippi 16 2 Missouri 17 0 Montana 16 0 Nebraska 16 0 Nevada 16 0 New Hampshire 16 0 New Jersey 16 4 New Mexico 16 4 New York 17 0 North Carolina 16 4 North Dakota 18 0 Ohio 16 0 Oklahoma 16 0 Oregon 18 3 Pennsylvania 16 4 Rhode Island 16 0 South Carolina 16 0 South Dakota 16 3 Tennessee 18 4 Texas 17 3 Utah 18 10 Vermont 16 0 Virginia 18 0 Washington 16 2 West Virginia 16 4 Wisconsin 18 0 Wyoming 16 4 - See more at: http://www.legalmatch.com/law-library/article/age-of-consent-by-state.html#sthash.Mm4Eueb4.dpuf Now a 16 year old can date or have sexual relations but the age of consent differ by each states. Now what are your thoughts in these information? Source: http://www.legalmatch.com/law-library/article/age-of-consent-by-state.html Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Affinity 1,304 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 And here I thought a Hebephile was someone who's obsessed with Hebe Tien. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Lipstick 510 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 So what are you suggesting? That it is fine that an 18 year old is dating and attracted to a 13 year old? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bunny 5,676 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 no matter what you call it it's gross though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeesus 681 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 both are disgusting tho Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delincious 5,654 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 Looking at these, a hebephile generally targets teens between 11-14 ... and states dont allow before 16. So what's your question exactly? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Athena 21,718 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 I knew this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blank_stare 2,217 Posted November 8, 2015 Author Share Posted November 8, 2015 So what are you suggesting? That it is fine that an 18 year old is dating and attracted to a 13 year old? no matter what you call it it's gross though Nah, it's still gross no matter what. I'm just tired of people throwing pedophilia around. At least if you say something about the topic, that person should at least know what they're saying... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Astoral 1,427 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 both are disgusting tho Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Mad King 618 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 Utah 18 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ツウィ 409 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 both are disgusting tho Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blank_stare 2,217 Posted November 8, 2015 Author Share Posted November 8, 2015 Looking at these, a hebephile generally targets teens between 11-14 ... and states dont allow before 16. So what's your question exactly? There was a Japanese girl who was dating a teacher (sounds like PLL to me, which that show is a bad example for teens) and some were throwing the word pedophile. And the age of consent there is 13. That 16 year old girl can even marry that teacher but I shudder at that thought. (Compensating dating among teenage girls with older guys are rampant in Japan.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blank_stare 2,217 Posted November 8, 2015 Author Share Posted November 8, 2015 It's completely fine to be attracted because attraction is not something that you can have control over. But dating is a different story because that's an action. I agree on this but what happens when thoughts become obsession? And here I thought a Hebephile was someone who's obsessed with Hebe Tien. Girl.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Athena 21,718 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 The second number is the maximum age difference allowed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blank_stare 2,217 Posted November 8, 2015 Author Share Posted November 8, 2015 The second number is the maximum age difference allowed. That's why there's a doge emoji.... At least with Texas it's 3 years difference. Utah's like 18 y/o dating a 8 y/0 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nowhere Boy 2,431 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 no matter what you call it it's gross though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delincious 5,654 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 There was a Japanese girl who was dating a teacher (sounds like PLL to me, which that show is a bad example for teens) and some were throwing the word pedophile. And the age of consent there is 13. That 16 year old girl can even marry that teacher but I shudder at that thought. (Compensating dating among teenage girls with older guys are rampant in Japan.) Pedophile is too often considered to mean the exact same thing as an old man sexually assaulting underage people. Pedophile strictly means an adult being sexually attracted to prepubescent children. That guy might be a predator, but he's not a pedophile. Hebephile at best. Also I've heard the age of consent in japan is not the same everywhere, in Tokyo it's apparently 18 so this teacher could be prosecuted. Marrying at 16 is common but it's usually required to have the underaged one/s 's parents' consent. edit: you misinterpreted those numbers btw, 18 yo with 10 years gap doesnt mean a 18 yo can have sex with a >8yo, it means a 18-28 yo only can have sex with a 18yo in Utah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Lipstick 510 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 It's completely fine to be attracted because attraction is not something that you can have control over. But dating is a different story because that's an action. No, it's not completely fine, that is sick. You may as well say that its alright for adults to be attracted to be babies because they can't control their attraction, that is sick. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Belle. 3,407 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 Idk .. this thing is different from country to country. ... it is hard to discuss Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Lipstick 510 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 Nah, it's still gross no matter what. I'm just tired of people throwing pedophilia around. At least if you say something about the topic, that person should at least know what they're saying... it's not that deep tbh, if you're attracted to what society considers children you are pedophile Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blank_stare 2,217 Posted November 8, 2015 Author Share Posted November 8, 2015 it's not that deep tbh, if you're attracted to what society considers children you are pedophile So society deems teenagers children? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Lipstick 510 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 So society deems teenagers children? Darling, society deemed 13 year old teenagers in the 80s, do we look like we live in those ages? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blank_stare 2,217 Posted November 8, 2015 Author Share Posted November 8, 2015 Pedophile is too often considered to mean the exact same thing as an old man sexually assaulting underage people. Pedophile strictly means an adult being sexually attracted to prepubescent children. That guy might be a predator, but he's not a pedophile. Hebephile at best. Also I've heard the age of consent in japan is not the same everywhere, in Tokyo it's apparently 18 so this teacher could be prosecuted. Marrying at 16 is common but it's usually required to have the underaged one/s 's parents' consent. edit: you misinterpreted those numbers btw, 18 yo with 10 years gap doesnt mean a 18 yo can have sex with a >8yo, it means a 18-28 yo only can have sex with a 18yo in Utah Did I say it's ok to have sex? I only said dating. Does dating also means you are having sex with that person? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cabbage.Boi 530 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 No sane 18 y/o should be interested in a 13 year old. Messed up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaehyun 1,909 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 no matter what you call it it's gross though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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