♡ Minnie ♡ 198 Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 So I have an older female cousin. She's 21 this year but so far she's attracted to this Thai actor who's 15 (Oat Tharathon). She doesn't seem to act 21 though...in responsibilty level she could act her age but when it comes to romance she likes younger male in an attractive way...and she's a bit worried....because No one who is 21 should be attracted to a 15 year old in a romantic way...maybe find him good looking but never have feelings for him. Thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sephiroth 3,892 Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 she sounds like certain OH users Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snowflake🎀 625 Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 does your cousin have an OH account? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
momorinxoxo 1,555 Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 Zehahaha, reminds me of the drama, I Hear Your Voice gahd Imma rewatch the drama . Hmmm, it should be fine, let's say in the future, she really likes younger men, her man should be mature enough, then voila happiness <3 <3 <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Colton 47 Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 Thought it was gonna be about incest i was disappointed she could get in trouble Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vinctus 2,701 Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 As long as she's not hurting anyone or putting herself in trouble (by actively pursuing relationships with minors) I don't see why it's your problem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mogwai 15,203 Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 That's really creepy no lie... He is just a kid. I have no idea how to help though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveusaitama 318 Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 is she watching thai drama call hormone ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BABYGIRL. 287 Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 Thought it was gonna be about incest i was disappointed she could get in trouble o.o Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimin's GF 1,621 Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 If he looks older than his age, I guess it's not as creepy as it sounds. But if he looks like a regular 15-year old boy that's a bit weird. Is she truly attracted to him? Couldn't it be some sort of fascination for him/his character or any other sort of feelings, though? If your cousin was a boy and the Thai actor a girl, I would have found it way less disturbing since girls hit puberty earlier than boys and are therefore more mature at the same age as them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ICETERO 9,070 Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 that's quite a gap maybe she should look out for actors or guys who are youthful looking but are a bit older? I'm sure there would be a guy she'd like and who isn't that young Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) 148 Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 she sounds like certain OH users Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♡ Minnie ♡ 198 Posted November 3, 2015 Author Share Posted November 3, 2015 she sounds like certain OH users Uhm Who? does your cousin have an OH account? No not at all Zehahaha, reminds me of the drama, I Hear Your Voice gahd Imma rewatch the drama . Hmmm, it should be fine, let's say in the future, she really likes younger men, her man should be mature enough, then voila happiness <3 <3 <3 Eh? HAHAHAHA Thought it was gonna be about incest i was disappointed she could get in trouble LOL That's really creepy no lie... He is just a kid. I have no idea how to help though. .... Hmmmm is she watching thai drama call hormone ? Uh...I guess so...but Oat Tharathon is from Love Sick Season2 If he looks older than his age, I guess it's not as creepy as it sounds. But if he looks like a regular 15-year old boy that's a bit weird. Is she truly attracted to him? Couldn't it be some sort of fascination for him/his character or any other sort of feelings, though? If your cousin was a boy and the Thai actor a girl, I would have found it way less disturbing since girls hit puberty earlier than boys and are therefore more mature at the same age as them. uhm... He looks 15/16 *shurgs* I don't know, she has learning disabilitry but that doesn't really count... as aging... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♡ Minnie ♡ 198 Posted November 3, 2015 Author Share Posted November 3, 2015 that's quite a gap maybe she should look out for actors or guys who are youthful looking but are a bit older? I'm sure there would be a guy she'd like and who isn't that young Yeah she understands that and is a hit worried herself...that's why she asked me...but I have no answer. As long as she's not hurting anyone or putting herself in trouble (by actively pursuing relationships with minors) I don't see why it's your problem. She ask me...for advise...but i have no answer so i'm asking people around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimin's GF 1,621 Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 Uhm Who? No not at all Eh? HAHAHAHA LOL .... Hmmmm Uh...I guess so...but Oat Tharathon is from Love Sick Season2 uhm... He looks 15/16 *shurgs* I don't know, she has learning disabilitry but that doesn't really count... as aging... Well, idk lol I hope that she won't keep on liking 15-year old boys as she grows older You can't decide who you're attracted to. It does sound weird to me, but I mean it's not super extreme so if it's for this one person and not every 15-year olds, it's okay. (I hope that makes sense ) Btw who's that in your sig? They're cute Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♡ Minnie ♡ 198 Posted November 3, 2015 Author Share Posted November 3, 2015 Well, idk lol I hope that she won't keep on liking 15-year old boys as she grows older You can't decide who you're attracted to. It does sound weird to me, but I mean it's not super extreme so if it's for this one person and not every 15-year olds, it's okay. (I hope that makes sense ) Btw who's that in your sig? They're cute She never have been attracted to anyone under 17 before it's either 17 or older...but after meeting this certain celebritiy...he changed her life...but of course she is not attracted to anyone else...it's just him. Also they are OhmMcik from Love Sick season 2 A Thai BL Series based on the popular web novel Love Sick The Series. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimin's GF 1,621 Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 She never have been attracted to anyone under 17 before it's either 17 or older...but after meeting this certain celebritiy...he changed her life...but of course she is not attracted to anyone else...it's just him. Also they are OhmMcik from Love Sick season 2 A Thai BL Series based on the popular web novel Love Sick The Series. If it's only him, then it's okay. I mean, there's also the fact that he's a celebrity. Maybe she likes him, unconsciously, for that as well. She got to meet a celebrity. A good-looking celebrity, that was probably nice to her etc And thanks! Looks like there's a gay couple? lol It makes me think of Hormones a bit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveusaitama 318 Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 Uhm Who? No not at all Eh? HAHAHAHA LOL .... Hmmmm Uh...I guess so...but Oat Tharathon is from Love Sick Season2 uhm... He looks 15/16 *shurgs* I don't know, she has learning disabilitry but that doesn't really count... as aging... if she turn 30 and there a 24 years old guy like her and she like him back ,will this still be a problem to you ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapmon's Ahjussi Husband 2,299 Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 My sister married her husband who's 8 years younger, and me (37) stalk seventeen and other fetus now and then, I see no wrong Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♡ Minnie ♡ 198 Posted November 3, 2015 Author Share Posted November 3, 2015 If it's only him, then it's okay. I mean, there's also the fact that he's a celebrity. Maybe she likes him, unconsciously, for that as well. She got to meet a celebrity. A good-looking celebrity, that was probably nice to her etc And thanks! Looks like there's a gay couple? lol It makes me think of Hormones a bit Yeah it's only him....When she looks at other 15 years old...she can only think oh he's goodling...I wish he was my younger brother xD But yeah...when it comes to him...her inner-15 year old reelase...I think from her parents...she seems to have autism problem too but hers doesn't show that much...her physical experience is normal and she also acts mature sometimes when it comes to responsibity but idk... she doesn't act her age....a lot of her friends think so too. Yeah...there is a lot of gay couples in this series...it's gay novel after all...but the author said to her it's just romance and not gay romance and yes...it's just a regular romance book. if she turn 30 and there a 24 years old guy like her and she like him back ,will this still be a problem to you ? I have no problem with her liking anubody but she is worried so she asked me... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveusaitama 318 Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 Yeah it's only him....When she looks at other 15 years old...she can only think oh he's goodling...I wish he was my younger brother xD But yeah...when it comes to him...her inner-15 year old reelase...I think from her parents...she seems to have autism problem too but hers doesn't show that much...her physical experience is normal and she also acts mature sometimes when it comes to responsibity but idk... she doesn't act her age....a lot of her friends think so too. Yeah...there is a lot of gay couples in this series...it's gay novel after all...but the author said to her it's just romance and not gay romance and yes...it's just a regular romance book. I have no problem with her liking anubody but she is worried so she asked me... Yeah it's only him....When she looks at other 15 years old...she can only think oh he's goodling...I wish he was my younger brother xD But yeah...when it comes to him...her inner-15 year old reelase...I think from her parents...she seems to have autism problem too but hers doesn't show that much...her physical experience is normal and she also acts mature sometimes when it comes to responsibity but idk... she doesn't act her age....a lot of her friends think so too. Yeah...there is a lot of gay couples in this series...it's gay novel after all...but the author said to her it's just romance and not gay romance and yes...it's just a regular romance book. I have no problem with her liking anubody but she is worried so she asked me... does she like other 15 years old boy ? example some 15 years old boy walk pass by her and she was like looking at you and start spazing like fangirl cuz that 15 year old boy was good looking and her type of guy ? or she just like that child actor only? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♡ Minnie ♡ 198 Posted November 3, 2015 Author Share Posted November 3, 2015 does she like other 15 years old boy ? example some 15 years old boy walk pass by her and she was like looking at you and start spazing like fangirl cuz that 15 year old boy was good looking and her type of guy ? or she just like that child actor only? ....She just like the actor...everyone is else is just whatever to her LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimin's GF 1,621 Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 if she turn 30 and there a 24 years old guy like her and she like him back ,will this still be a problem to you ? Imo 30/24 is way less extreme than 15/21 as they are closer in maturity. Both are adults/young adults whereas in the second case, one is a young adult when the other is still in their teenage years. ^^ This wasn't addressed to me but I just wanted to answer, sorry Yeah it's only him....When she looks at other 15 years old...she can only think oh he's goodling...I wish he was my younger brother xD But yeah...when it comes to him...her inner-15 year old reelase...I think from her parents...she seems to have autism problem too but hers doesn't show that much...her physical experience is normal and she also acts mature sometimes when it comes to responsibity but idk... she doesn't act her age....a lot of her friends think so too. Yeah...there is a lot of gay couples in this series...it's gay novel after all...but the author said to her it's just romance and not gay romance and yes...it's just a regular romance book. I have no problem with her liking anubody but she is worried so she asked me... Having autism doesn't necessarily mean being immature. There are several types of autism, and also several degrees. Like, my aunt found out very recently she had slight Asperger, but that didn't keep her from leading a quite ordinary life. ^^ Tbh I think the fact that he's a celebrity could be the main reason... It seems from what you said that she feels very attracted to him since she met him, right? So before she didn't feel it that much? So yeah... To me it seems like it's a mix of feelings; finding him cute/attractive in a not necessarily sexual way + he's a celebrity so she's "proud" to have met him + he is nice so she likes him as a person. All in all, he's a kind celebrity that is attractive. Age was probably not taken into account when she got to feel all this. I don't think she should worry about it. To me it seems temporary, as the emotions of having met him will diminish as time goes by. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveusaitama 318 Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 ....She just like the actor...everyone is else is just whatever to her LOL nah ,then i dont think there a problem ,it just a phase where she think that child actor is cool and he really good looking,to me the problem start when she saw some 15 years old kid around her and she planning to have some CHAT with that kidz,the time she planning and willing to make action! and that really a problem to her for sure ,beside i doubt she willing to buy a plane ticket to thailand and meet that child actor by the time her hype with that drama are over ,this phase will gone,hopefully Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♡ Minnie ♡ 198 Posted November 3, 2015 Author Share Posted November 3, 2015 Imo 30/24 is way less extreme than 15/21 as they are closer in maturity. Both are adults/young adults whereas in the second case, one is a young adult when the other is still in their teenage years. ^^ This wasn't addressed to me but I just wanted to answer, sorry Having autism doesn't necessarily mean being immature. There are several types of autism, and also several degrees. Like, my aunt found out very recently she had slight Asperger, but that didn't keep her from leading a quite ordinary life. ^^ Tbh I think the fact that he's a celebrity could be the main reason... It seems from what you said that she feels very attracted to him since she met him, right? So before she didn't feel it that much? So yeah... To me it seems like it's a mix of feelings; finding him cute/attractive in a not necessarily sexual way + he's a celebrity so she's "proud" to have met him + he is nice so she likes him as a person. All in all, he's a kind celebrity that is attractive. Age was probably not taken into account when she got to feel all this. I don't think she should worry about it. To me it seems temporary, as the emotions of having met him will diminish as time goes by. Thanks...I hope so...she got a boyfriend LOL Who's Also 21 xD IDK...People around her says she grows slowly...She's not the type of person to think sexualy to any guy...she only see guy in a romantic way...like hold hands or just pecking each other around lips and cheeks...but nothing extreme... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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