fuckJohnny 14,775 Posted September 24, 2013 Share Posted September 24, 2013 For some reason when I find out that someone likes me I start feeling disgusted/scared/idek and I don't want to be around that person anymore. It happens when I like that person back too so it kinda messes up my relationships or lack of xD I also feel trapped. Too close for comfort maybe? I have issues. I think I should seek professional help but I have no courage to tell my mom I want to. Be nice to me btw. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarkDawn 1,330 Posted September 24, 2013 Share Posted September 24, 2013 Do you have a fear of commitment, then? Or stepping outside your comfort zone? You may not need professional help. Just baby steps. I'm not one to help with advice though...lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fuckJohnny 14,775 Posted September 24, 2013 Author Share Posted September 24, 2013 Do you have a fear of commitment, then? Or stepping outside your comfort zone? I wonder if that's it... It's not so bad anymore but I would literally feel nauseous :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sane 16,342 Posted September 24, 2013 Share Posted September 24, 2013 You should be old enough to seek professional help without parental consent... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krystal Meth 11,336 Posted September 24, 2013 Share Posted September 24, 2013 It happens when I like that person back too so it kinda messes up my relationships or lack of xD That's pretty weird Maybe you should tell the person that you want to be friends for a while, try to get close with them perhaps and then take it to the next stage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nev Schulman 7,948 Posted September 24, 2013 Share Posted September 24, 2013 I had that at one point but it was because of my lack of confidence and my self esteem problems.... it went away at some point. But I can't say it's same for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
h0neanias 13,516 Posted September 24, 2013 Share Posted September 24, 2013 For some reason when I find out that someone likes me I start feeling disgusted/scared/idek and I don't want to be around that person anymore. It happens when I like that person back too so it kinda messes up my relationships or lack of xD I also feel trapped. Too close for comfort maybe? I have issues. I think I should seek professional help but I have no courage to tell my mom I want to. Be nice to me btw. If it is what I think it is, I don't think therapy is anything to be ashamed of. Honestly, your mother would have to be morally deficient not to agree, so gather courage and tell her. I'm sure she'll understand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Temptastic VII 6,473 Posted September 24, 2013 Share Posted September 24, 2013 I guess I had the same sort of thing, and I still do. I think it's a high need for solitude, but I don't mind being with someone so long as they understand my need to be alone. I used to get scared when I found people liked me, but not so much anymore, because I just learnt to control my reactions and be reasonable. Took me a while though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fuckception 695 Posted September 24, 2013 Share Posted September 24, 2013 whoops same I think you're afraid of commitment or at least I am Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fuckJohnny 14,775 Posted September 24, 2013 Author Share Posted September 24, 2013 That's pretty weird Maybe you should tell the person that you want to be friends for a while, try to get close with them perhaps and then take it to the next stage. Yeah but the thing is I literally can't stay friends with that person anymore :/ I had that at one point but it was because of my lack of confidence and my self esteem problems.... it went away at some point. But I can't say it's same for you. I think the problem is that I like the idea of being in love, meeting someone wonderful but when it becomes a reality I'm like I'm out. Idek. If it is what I think it is, I don't think therapy is anything to be ashamed of. Honestly, your mother would have to be morally deficient not to agree, so gather courage and tell her. I'm sure she'll understand. Thanks. I'm seriously considering it. I guess I had the same sort of thing, and I still do. I think it's a high need for solitude, but I don't mind being with someone so long as they understand my need to be alone. I used to get scared when I found people liked me, but not so much anymore, because I just learnt to control my reactions and be reasonable. Took me a while though. I'm super okay with people liking me as a friend but when they tell me they like me as more than a friend I get really scared. In my messed up head I think there is no reason for someone to like me. I did have a boyfriend but after that it got harder to just trust someone and give them all you got. whoops same I think you're afraid of commitment or at least I am I also have intimacy issues. That probably doesn't help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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