KinkySanta 1,073 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 I've never said it, but then again my longest relationship was a year and I feel like that's a little early to say it. Guy I'm dating now said it after 6 months and I was a little bit shocked because I think that's insanely early. When does the rest of OH generally say it? I think I'd probably say it after 2 years maybe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bunny 5,676 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 just when you feel it's right, i think it's not about waiting a certain amount of time but saying it when you feel you love that person sincerely in your heart and you want to let them know Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ErikaEGO 8,626 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 I mean you say it when you mean it I don't think I've ever told anyone that I love them (outside of my family and cats) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Envied 5,831 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 I've never said it, but then again my longest relationship was a year and I feel like that's a little early to say it. Guy I'm dating now said it after 6 months and I was a little bit shocked because I think that's insanely early. When does the rest of OH generally say it? I think I'd probably say it after 2 years maybe. Do you feel the same? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bella 7,052 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 just when you feel it's right, i think it's not about waiting a certain amount of time but saying it when you feel you love that person sincerely in your heart and you want to let them know Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ImNumber9_9999 1,812 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 I just say it when it feels like it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DRIP DROP 4,741 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 When you mean it.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
93605 1,232 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 when i think it's the right time... but i've never been in a proper monogamous relationship where i actually loved that person so idk. 2 years seems like a long time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Almondandlime 6,854 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 I mean I say that even to all of my (close) friends so I can't say I'm really reluctant to say I love you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Lipstick 510 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 i used to say I love you when I didn't even mean it, honestly it's so overrated and overused so I just say it whenever I want irrespective of sincerity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KinkySanta 1,073 Posted November 1, 2015 Author Share Posted November 1, 2015 Do you feel the same? I mean it's only been 6 months. How could anyone "love" someone that quickly? I like him in a romantic way, but I wouldn't say love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sane 16,342 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 Quietly to myself as soon as I see dat ass and then never again because I'm socially inept. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
palechibi 2,748 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 just when you feel it's right, i think it's not about waiting a certain amount of time but saying it when you feel you love that person sincerely in your heart and you want to let them know Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Envied 5,831 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 I mean it's only been 6 months. How could anyone "love" someone that quickly? I like him in a romantic way, but I wouldn't say love. Then you don't love him, which is fine. I don't think love is something you can really put a time limit on, you either do or you don't. Some people fall in love instantly, and others take time to build everything that goes into love (trust, reliability) before they can it. It comes when it comes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 Made the mistake once just cuz he said it first and when we broke up it was messy cuz I said I did when I didn't. So now I say it when I mean it, never said it again Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Almondandlime 6,854 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 I mean honestly it would take me longer than 6 months to love a 4chan user too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Serendipity 11,102 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 You say it when you start to honestly feel it. Often when you sense your partner feels the same. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Jesus Jin~ 130 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 Say it when you feel it. I said it 10 months into my current relationship, but I felt it about 7 months in. I was waiting to make sure I truly felt it before saying something so [in my opinion] deep & emotional. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aitso 407 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 I personally wait until my partner says it then I say it if I feel the same way. If I don't then oh well. That's not a good way to go about it either. I don't like to put a timeframe on the word love because sometimes you're with a person for ages and you're waiting until you suddenly love them which doesn't always happen. Or you're in love with someone but you don't want to say it because it's "too soon". Some people need the word love to validate a relationship, many don't. Say what you feel - and if it happens to be love, be unapologetic about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kpopiscool_101 3,003 Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 When you mean it.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hiraishrimp 5,413 Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 i said it after 3 months, but that relationship flopped after 1.5 years. just say it when it feels right Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Astoral 1,427 Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 When you mean it.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SUPERultramegaTIGHTPUSSY 541 Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 When you feel it you say it. 2 years is a long time that's like asking to be in the friend zone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
∙��� × 天使。 701 Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 just when you feel it's right and you mean it, i think it's not about waiting a certain amount of time but saying it when you feel you love that person sincerely in your heart and you want to let them know Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ripiaoppa 15,307 Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 After 6 months. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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