The Jany 4,154 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 so there's my cousin who moved in my (parents') house. He's from another city and is preparing for college entrance. According to my parents, we used to be very close when we were 4 y.o. Last time I saw him was 14years ago so we're starting again like strangers. The thing is that he's too much talkative. He always sticks to me and follows me everywhere. I'm quiet, shy (I cant even make eye-contact with males when discussing, not even my own father) and introvert so trying to answer all his questions and holding discussion with him feels like doing a 100km marathon. I cant tell him to stfu cuz I already have a bad image in my family's eyes (being quiet is seen as a bad/rude behaviour in my country) and I dont wanna hurt his feeling. My home, my room is like a shelter for me. It's the only place where I can enjoy a quiet life with my cat. But now, it seems like my personal place has been invaded. For how long? Idk but I cant take this anymore. It's been only 3 days.... what should I do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sephiroth 3,892 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 i mean ... if the last time you saw him was 14 years ago he could have changed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KimHeeSung 6,134 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 tell him to fuck off Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mogwai 15,203 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 Does he even follow you to your bedroom? I would hate that too, I like my own space as well /: You should try locking your bedroom so no one can come in and bother you on your own "me time" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dasom's Nose 1,100 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 he even enters your room? if so you might want to lock it? and give reasons such as studying or something. i would avoid him like plague though i can't with talkative people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rich witch 20,592 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 i'm talkative myself but i usually tell them to shut up when i don't feel like being talkative Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Belle. 3,407 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 Put headphones the moment you wake up And make yourself busy with some work If that didn't work... try to be talkative and try to follow him couple of days Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atreyuavenged 162 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 Say something...this one time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PussySlayedByTzuyu 7,430 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 Wear ear piece.. lock yourself in your room.. murder your cousin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kyungri 509 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 talk to him lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lord Bendtner 232 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 stop being such a wimp Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
widwit 1,335 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 If he's new to the city does he not have friends there? Are there people you can introduce him to so he can make some friends and leave you alone? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Jany 4,154 Posted November 1, 2015 Author Share Posted November 1, 2015 i mean ... if the last time you saw him was 14 years ago he could have changed tbh I just remember we played together, that's all tell him to fuck off any more polite way to say it? he even enters your room? if so you might want to lock it? and give reasons such as studying or something. i would avoid him like plague though i can't with talkative people. cant lock myself in my room. My mom would find that suspicious (and would probably call the cops lol) Say something...this one time. like what? sorry, I'm so bad when it comes to communicating with humans irl talk to him lol I'd rather getting reckted. It's not like what he's talking abt is interesting. Plus he's asking abt personal stuffs and want me to agree with everything he believes in Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Jany 4,154 Posted November 1, 2015 Author Share Posted November 1, 2015 If he's new to the city does he not have friends there? Are there people you can introduce him to so he can make some friends and leave you alone? sadly no. I'm not very sociable. He arrived here 3 days ago so he didnt make any friend yet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KimHeeSung 6,134 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 any more polite way to say it? pls leave me alone before i stick my foot up your ass Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lynnie 1,207 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 Tbh? Tell him to chill . He's coming wayyyy too strong for your own liking. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapmon's Ahjussi Husband 2,299 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 Tell him crazy stuff !!!, like how you saw a documentary about ovnis and how they would land in no time soon, be very strong about ur crazyness, tell him religions are an idea of the goberment to impose chaos, that the music industry is dominated by illuminatis; be very passionate about boring movies, research ( at least one) to bore him to death talking to him for hours, he will begin to avoid u in a week Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soojungbae 194 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 Tell him that you're taken Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
widwit 1,335 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 sadly no. I'm not very sociable. He arrived here 3 days ago so he didnt make any friend yet Ah, I understand. I'm not terribly sociable either. If you're worried about being rude, maybe tell him you're not feeling well and you're going to your room to rest? Being an introvert is hard sometimes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Astoral 1,427 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 you should introduce him to some people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Park Hyoshin's vocal coach 4,019 Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 Slip some sleeping pills or cough syrup in his food Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sylar 521 Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 talk to him that you not a talktive person yourself and you enjoy quiet time or help him to spend more time on a hobby or help him making new friends around the neighbourhood Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted November 14, 2015 Share Posted November 14, 2015 Depends on if u want to talk to him.. if u don't want to talk to him.. just give him short answers back... then later on.. he will start realising there is no much point talking to you.... Or either try talking to him without making eye contact.. and later on u will slowly grow to be able to look him in the eyes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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