Lema 1,765 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 ? Do you? Im not asking this for myself, i lost my v card quite a while ago and i have a bf. Im asking this cause my friend is in this situation. She spent her 20s studying and she is an excellent expert in her area, but the fact that she spent her nights studying while others had partners and relationships is affecting her. She recently met a guy and it was all nice until he found out she is a virgin and told her she is weird because who else is a virgin in these years. She didnt want to have anything else with him but it affected her self esteem. Whats your opinion? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delphine 20,871 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 No. Everybody do whatever they want with their body. There's no shame in losing your virginity early, no shame in losing it later. Social pressure is a bitch, people should do whatever they want, whenever they feel it is the right time/right person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mogwai 15,203 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 My opinion is that the guy is a bit of a tactless dick and your friend deserves better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
llamaswag 8,571 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 It is still normal in Asian country for women has sex after marriage only (but alot married in young age atleast in my country), so NO to me. That guy is stupid for not appreciating that she is V and pretty much save from those virus if they decided to do it. He is a lucky dude but he doesn't know it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soko 6,454 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 no. people do whatever and lost their virginity when they are ready and want to do it and not because they have to do like the others or because they're scared to be "late" or uncool or some stupid reason like this. that guy was stupid, your friend should be with someone who respect her and not judge her. tell her she shouldn't worry about this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
liya18 995 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 but guys love taking girls virginity... he's the one who's weird! and in some countries, having sex before marriage in not good Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ash Ketchum 4,333 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 No, people are such judgmental fucking cunts tho so I can see why someone would feel it is. Honestly if she cares so much about other people's opinions on it she should just lie. It ain't like they're going to be asking for proof. And if they are....lol you know to run the other way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jcey 7,752 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 Its normal in my culture. Many (esp older generation) even think that it's better to have sex after marriage. Personally I don't think its weird to have sex late. She probably just hasn't found the one she wants to loose her V card to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jongin88 219 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 No. Everybody do whatever they want with their body. There's no shame in losing your virginity early, no shame in losing it later. Social pressure is a bitch, people should do whatever they want, whenever they feel it is the right time/right person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gay porn 780 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 nope, not at all. i have a really beautiful teacher who is 27 and still a virgin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shady 1,340 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 seems normal people in asia had a thing for 'still virgin until married' regardless age. but idk about western people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ash Ketchum 4,333 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 nope, not at all. i have a really beautiful teacher who is 27 and still a virgin. How do you know your teacher is a virgin? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Belle. 3,407 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 No .. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Derppppp 129 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 To hell with what others think. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kyuliss 84 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 It's probably not common, but not weird. That's a really rude thing for him to say tbh :\ Losing your virginity is something you do when the time is right. Clearly, her time hasn't come yet, and that's her business and no one else's to judge. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rich witch 20,592 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 No. Everybody do whatever they want with their body. There's no shame in losing your virginity early, no shame in losing it later. Social pressure is a bitch, people should do whatever they want, whenever they feel it is the right time/right person. My opinion is that the guy is a bit of a tactless dick and your friend deserves better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SugaJam 3,634 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 im glad to see your friend has enough self respect to ditch that guy. it's not common but it's not weird as "weird" has a negative connotation. Everybody has their own priority list, she has hers. She should be proud she stick to her own conviction. Your girl-friend is fine and tell her not to let it get to her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aitso 407 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 Virginity is just a stupid concept. In western societies you're damned if you're a woman and haven't had sex and damned if you have. It's a personal decision and she hasn't missed out on much of anything. The guy that told her that is trash. It may not be common but she shouldn't feel bad about it. It means nothing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hilmanelric 1,123 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 it's normal for me and where i live Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamayam 1,081 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 4 more years and she'll became a wizard/witch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
terrifiedwolves 571 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 No. That will probably be me in the future same tbh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hqnnik 1,528 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 I'd prefer to be virgin. And it's not weird. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sully 4,318 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 That guy's a dick. Her virginity did her a favor in getting rid of his ass. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Habitual Irony 913 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 That guy is an arse. It's not weird. She does what she thinks is right and don't give in to pressure Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Jany 4,154 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 tell your friend to drop the guy. she deserves better Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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