S0YA 1,256 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 I saw a negative Joy thread earlier talking about her personality. From that, I want to actually explain how to build confidence which I think is a much more valid thing to speak about. I want to talk about how Joy, who is seen as this "bright and upbeat" person wasn't like that before. She was really quiet, didn't know her place at all. As someone who watches Red Velvet, what I LOVE most about Joy the most is that she isn't fussy or pretentious. Everything Joy feels, it shows on her face. She doesn't take herself too seriously, laughs loudly. And to get to that point of self-acknowledgment she had to build up her self worth because at the beginning she never thought she was good enough. Mind you, this is a girl who didn't want to be part of SM Rookies because she herself felt she wasn't ready. This is how Joy replied to a fan who was always quiet. Joy said that she was like that too but had to learn to have an open heart in everything she does + Elle magazine interview I remember something else she said. If there's no door in front of you, make it yourself.... Stated by her members early this year "She is Red Velvet’s maknae but she is the oldest in her family. Maybe that is why she has a mature side and she also likes to listen to her unnies’ problems." She is seen as a young person but she has a very expressive personality. The members choose her as the most sensible member and when asked what quality they are most jealous of that Joy has, its when Joy communicates her words, people can see how articulate and expressive she is. (Sorry i forgot the radio show) Honestly, I was a very quiet person too. For that, it took me longer to find a job, to express myself to friends, etc. I had a horrible speaking problem and I couldn't even function during speaking presentations for college. To actually find true self confidence is a loooong road for some (especially me) and it is something really amazing to have. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ICETERO 9,070 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 She's such a sweet heart Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sailor Mars 1,981 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 She seems like a sweet girl and I like her personality. I just thought her VIBE was a bit off!!!! Vibe doesn't equal personality bc I don't know her! But I'm sure that one negative aspect I had about her will go away Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysunandmoon 2,266 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 she gives off a really genuine aura imho Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimchi-nyoen 11,038 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 She seems like a sweet girl and I like her personality. I just thought her VIBE was a bit off!!!! Vibe doesn't equal personality bc I don't know her! But I'm sure that one negative aspect I had about her will go away i feel the same for Yeri Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kyrie 6,251 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 I love Joy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acclaim 3,513 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 delete it fat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
S0YA 1,256 Posted November 1, 2015 Author Share Posted November 1, 2015 delete it fat Are you twelve? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnonSone 30,138 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 Yes, that is Joy for you. Red Velvet is lucky to have both maknae that are the oldest sibling in their family. Both Joy and Yeri really manage to give a mature aura to the group. All Red Velvet members compliment each other well. For you, I hope you can slowly build the confidence and get what you want to in the future. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
queenyeoja 222 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 I liked her the least in Red Velvet but this puts her in a new perspective. I like people who can overcome difficult times like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WonderJoyous 10,634 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 I actually didnt knew about this (im a flop fan that dont like reading interviews), reading this make me love her even more, im really shy and introvert aswell and i have a hard time approaching people and being confident in myself, knowing Joy, who is my ultimate bias, was lile this too and overcame it and turned into such a confident person really makes me want to look up to her. It feels good to know i can truly relate with her now and now i see her more as a role model than just an idol i obsess over. The love i have for Joy was already unexplainable but now it growed even bigger than that <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
!HeArTyou 1 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 That's the way it will always be. Because being shy makes people think that she is stuck up…she's so pretty, talented and charming, so she should have a full right to go on..just show them what she got. . she must be willing to be uncomfortable at times even if she's not used to it… Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Witch Nose 6,905 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 Joy has struggled a lot, I love my babie. People who never met her in person shouldn't jump to conclusions and decide what kind of vibe she has. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazy4KPOP 4,581 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 This is what Joy wrote on RV's website. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blackpinkinyourarea 306 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 Are you twelve? you don't get the joke do you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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