Ellin 269 Posted October 28, 2015 Share Posted October 28, 2015 So met this girl for the first time at a volunteering club the other day. We connected, I got her number, and we texted a 'lil bit back and forth. I get the feeling that she is interested in me. Was thinking about asking her to meet up sometime, but problem is I'm going to be really busy for the rest of this week so it's going to have to be next week. 1. In the meantime, best to keep texting her or stop? Don't want her to forget about me, but also don't want to kill the attraction by over-texting. Advice? 2. Would it be weird for me to ask her out even though we've only met once? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NORIKIYO 5,087 Posted October 28, 2015 Share Posted October 28, 2015 just ask her if she'd like to hang out next week Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamayam 1,081 Posted October 28, 2015 Share Posted October 28, 2015 just ask her if she'd like to hang out next week Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice_ 1,328 Posted October 28, 2015 Share Posted October 28, 2015 I agree with above comments. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sylar 521 Posted October 29, 2015 Share Posted October 29, 2015 keep talking or else she will think you lost interest etc And its certainly ok to ask her if she wants to hang out next week Perhaps not a real official date but just hanging, getting to know her more After that, i say ask her out to the movies or so if it went well But...there is nothing wrong with rushing it a little and already ask her out for next week evening or so Just hope she will appreciate it and not take it as going too fast Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ripiaoppa 15,307 Posted October 29, 2015 Share Posted October 29, 2015 Just ask her out, girls don't like to muck around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delincious 5,654 Posted October 29, 2015 Share Posted October 29, 2015 just dont text her everyday and ask her out when you're free it's ok if you feel she's interested as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
echu2012 308 Posted October 29, 2015 Share Posted October 29, 2015 just ask her if she'd like to hang out next week ^ Same thought Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil 139 Posted October 29, 2015 Share Posted October 29, 2015 Don't message her 24/7 and if you do have spare time sure hang out with her but while you are hanging out with her mennntionnn that you will be busy so she'll know whats up as time progress see if you two still feel the same about each another then you can make a move Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mouse 530 Posted October 29, 2015 Share Posted October 29, 2015 Yeh do it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted October 31, 2015 Share Posted October 31, 2015 keep talking or else she will think you lost interest etc And its certainly ok to ask her if she wants to hang out next week Perhaps not a real official date but just hanging, getting to know her more After that, i say ask her out to the movies or so if it went well But...there is nothing wrong with rushing it a little and already ask her out for next week evening or so Just hope she will appreciate it and not take it as going too fast Thats what a guy did, and asked me if i was free for a hangout and then would later on ask when i was free... E.g. i said not free this Tuesday.. he would text me again next Tuesday and the Tuesday after that... etc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted October 31, 2015 Share Posted October 31, 2015 just dont text her everyday and ask her out when you're free it's ok if you feel she's interested as well. There was a guy that i chatted to every single day until late night... and would ask me to hangout etc... then later on... the messages died down to none :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Astoral 1,427 Posted October 31, 2015 Share Posted October 31, 2015 just ask her if she'd like to hang out next week Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 I would just ask out by now in advance, as for the chatting since you say you're going to be busy then I don't think you're gonna over do it. You can chat with her if you feel like it but don't force the conversations and that's all I can say, you just need to get to know each other better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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