Sana Muñequita Linda 2,566 Posted October 27, 2015 Share Posted October 27, 2015 Have you ever found out that you were hit on after you missed their (in their words, "obvious") signals? Which are your concepts of that thing humans call "love" (the romantic one)? Do you think being oblivious to love protects you or do you feel it's a bad thing? Maybe you're on the other side (ie A person hitting on somebody who, alas, is oblivious to your displays of romantic affection?) Do you have priceless advice to offer to the OneHallyu community in this regard? Discuss! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cloud Of Perception 12,466 Posted October 27, 2015 Share Posted October 27, 2015 Never trust anyone who thinks the Erogon book series had an interesting plot. Made that mistake once never again Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stepkdramafan226 6,734 Posted October 27, 2015 Share Posted October 27, 2015 Yes, i was oblivious that my friend liked me and I liked him, I was so naive. I didn't take time to ask why he hung out with me a lot instead of the other guys and he tried not to get angry in-front of me. He had a broken family and he was an only child, all they did was send him money without visiting him for years or caring. He was really nice but his anger is something that made me feel sad for him. I remember the time I saw him angry and he felt ashamed and It made me angry that he was angry. I still remember him and sometimes I wonder if I knew what love felt like, maybe I would have kept in touch. My sister told me He has a girlfriend now and he now lives in the the U.S. as I do. I wonder how I will feel if I were to meet him again Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
denizen mars 5,911 Posted October 27, 2015 Share Posted October 27, 2015 Never trust anyone who thinks the Erogon book series had an interesting plot. Made that mistake once never again what, the one by Christopher Paolini? OP I think this is me. Maybe. (or mebbe truly no one is interested) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cloud Of Perception 12,466 Posted October 27, 2015 Share Posted October 27, 2015 what, the one by Christopher Paolini? OP I think this is me. Maybe. (or mebbe truly no one is interested) Yep that's the one Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs.Galaxy 2,475 Posted October 27, 2015 Share Posted October 27, 2015 When grade 8 started I was seated with a group of three guys, and boy did that get bad. One of the guys was my friend from grade 7 and the only one I knew so I only talked to him in the beginning, the other guy started off by literally swearing at me and poking me, and the thrid guy was just friendly. Basically long story short,I was teased for months for liking my friend and him liking me back, the friendly guy become one of our close friends but turned out to be the shit head spreading all the rumors. To make matters worse my friend cofessed to me that he did like me (I felt so bad considering how many times I had easily without thought rejected him to his face), after that he avoided me.and out friendship was over. and the shit head friend just made life at school hell for me cuz he thought he knew more about my feelings than I did. and the guy who swore at me? God was I ever more wrong. he and I got off to a rough start, and I didn't think we'd even be friends. We used to fight mad, but by the end of the year we were crushing on each other hardcore, and I didn't even realize how much I really liked him until school was finished and we left for highschool. Moral of the story: -if someone jokes about their friend liking you-it's not a joke. -if you meet a friendly person and think theyre cute and you could probably date someday think again: they could be a shit head -if you constantly fight and argue with someone just for the sake of arguing/talking with them, then your friends telling you that you're actually flirting with him are right and you like him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aeromancy 1,186 Posted October 27, 2015 Share Posted October 27, 2015 Story of my life tbfh Just last week I apparently went on a date without knowing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coffeencherry 56 Posted October 27, 2015 Share Posted October 27, 2015 Never trust anyone who thinks the Erogon book series had an interesting plot. Made that mistake once never again lmao Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 27, 2015 Share Posted October 27, 2015 Yes. I have always been shocked to find out that someone actually liked me.. It's a good thing I am oblivious... Because relationships are bothersome and draining. I don't like the idea of someone constantly clinging to me 24/7. I'm not here for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Park Hyoshin's vocal coach 4,019 Posted October 28, 2015 Share Posted October 28, 2015 Trying to discreetly send me signals is like flirting with a wall Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lloris 15 Posted October 28, 2015 Share Posted October 28, 2015 Trying to discreetly send me signals is like flirting with a wall Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aeolian 31 Posted October 29, 2015 Share Posted October 29, 2015 Have you ever found out that you were hit on after you missed their (in their words, "obvious") signals? More than once. Which are your concepts of that thing humans call "love" (the romantic one)? Almost impossible and completely over-fantasized, however it can actually happen, but only if the people involved have faith in it. Do you think being oblivious to love protects you or do you feel it's a bad thing? Bad thing. Maybe you're on the other side (ie A person hitting on somebody who, alas, is oblivious to your displays of romantic affection?) Once, explain my previous answer lmao Do you have priceless advice to offer to the OneHallyu community in this regard? Looking for "true" love? Read some books... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sana Muñequita Linda 2,566 Posted October 29, 2015 Author Share Posted October 29, 2015 Yes. I have always been shocked to find out that someone actually liked me.. It's a good thing I am oblivious... Because relationships are bothersome and draining. I don't like the idea of someone constantly clinging to me 24/7. I'm not here for it. If I were in a relationship, I want my space, and that person theirs. There are a lot of toxic ideas about "romantic love" we have to get rid of. Trying to discreetly send me signals is like flirting with a wall Same xDD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 30, 2015 Share Posted October 30, 2015 If I were in a relationship, I want my space, and that person theirs. There are a lot of toxic ideas about "romantic love" we have to get rid of. Same xDD Agreed. So many have the idea that you have to be all up in each other's space 24/7. I wonder how people do it to be honest. It must get tiresome after a while. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mouse 530 Posted October 31, 2015 Share Posted October 31, 2015 Yes its happened Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 Have you ever found out that you were hit on after you missed their (in their words, "obvious") signals? Yes. Which are your concepts of that thing humans call "love" (the romantic one)? I think it's something that revolves around affection. Do you think being oblivious to love protects you or do you feel it's a bad thing? I believe being oblivious has more disadvantages than advantages but it depends on your conception of love to begin with. Maybe you're on the other side (ie A person hitting on somebody who, alas, is oblivious to your displays of romantic affection?) Nah, I've never been on that situation. Do you have priceless advice to offer to the OneHallyu community in this regard? Not really, this thing are always complicated and it's just a matter of experience. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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