Chicken Popcorn 2 Posted October 23, 2015 Share Posted October 23, 2015 Me and my friend has known each other for almost 10 years. Several years ago, we both got into kpop... Yes we acted like newbies that time (as how newbies act) but after several months, i started cooling down and stayed within my fandom only. However, my friend, she gets worse and becoming more and more like a newbie. Everytime someone mentions "Kpop" or "korea" she goes crazy. If someone mentions a kpop group, she will start singing and dancing to the group's song. She also says korean phrases even though she cant speak fluent korean. She says things like "eodi?" "nugu?" and such. It's kinda annoying tbh, especially that she acts like she knows and likes every kpop group. She steals people's bias and act like she knows more about them (when she doesnt). She's kinda like those not loyal fans that only like the group when they're famous and unstans when they are going downhill. She once told me she wants to like rookie A around their debut time. But then, their debut kinda fails and she removes rookie A's name from her twitter bio and starts stanning rookie B. I'm so annoyed by this fact because I'm also a fan of rookie A and it hurts honestly. She's the type of fan that likes a group for the credit. Like "OMG YOURE A FAN OF THIS GROUP?! YOURE SO AWESOME" kinda thing.... Right now, she's using kpop to make friends with people. She acts like she knows everything about korea and kpop when she dont. like let's be real, being a kpop fan does not make us know everything about korea.... help me what should i do?? i tried telling her several times but she gets mad at me and keeps doing it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ToujoursSistar 7,681 Posted October 23, 2015 Share Posted October 23, 2015 Damn . I know some girl like this . I hate it too . I don't really know how to help tho :(. Edit : I think you should be harsh with her and tell her kpop isn't life If she can't change then stop hanging out with her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
liya18 995 Posted October 23, 2015 Share Posted October 23, 2015 ditch her nothing you can do... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
huskiro 56 Posted October 23, 2015 Share Posted October 23, 2015 I have a friend like this also and honestly it's very difficult to change them. Don't let her bother you and be like you always are which is awesome and supportive whilst being loyal to groups despite what they go through. She'll either soon grow out of it or just continue spiralling into that path. Remind her a few times, sit down with her and explain how it's affecting you and your friendship. If she doesn't understand, you're just going to have to be less closer to her. People will change for the worst or for the better, you can stick around if you want but in the end it's their decision whether to continue acting like that or not. Just don't force yourself to tolerate them or change them. Good luck <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barbie nana 690 Posted October 23, 2015 Share Posted October 23, 2015 use your fatality against her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kw_ 8,023 Posted October 23, 2015 Share Posted October 23, 2015 Lol that sucks When my close friend became a koreaboo, I told her that she was embarrassing herself and she got a little mad at me but after a day of thinking about it she realized I was right. If you guys know each other for so long I think she can handle the truth from someone close to her. I remember when I was in like 3rd grade in my anime phase I almost turned to the weeaboo side but my sister was like "stfu you're annoying af" and that helped. Honesty is key Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ommo 170 Posted October 23, 2015 Share Posted October 23, 2015 Bestfriend? Lol ur backstabbing her.... Anyway, ur bestfriend is annoying af Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PiedPiper 315 Posted October 23, 2015 Share Posted October 23, 2015 Me and my friend has known each other for almost 10 years. Several years ago, we both got into kpop... Yes we acted like newbies that time (as how newbies act) but after several months, i started cooling down and stayed within my fandom only. However, my friend, she gets worse and becoming more and more like a newbie. Everytime someone mentions "Kpop" or "korea" she goes crazy. If someone mentions a kpop group, she will start singing and dancing to the group's song. She also says korean phrases even though she cant speak fluent korean. She says things like "eodi?" "nugu?" and such. It's kinda annoying tbh, especially that she acts like she knows and likes every kpop group. She steals people's bias and act like she knows more about them (when she doesnt). She's kinda like those not loyal fans that only like the group when they're famous and unstans when they are going downhill. She once told me she wants to like rookie A around their debut time. But then, their debut kinda fails and she removes rookie A's name from her twitter bio and starts stanning rookie B. I'm so annoyed by this fact because I'm also a fan of rookie A and it hurts honestly. She's the type of fan that likes a group for the credit. Like "OMG YOURE A FAN OF THIS GROUP?! YOURE SO AWESOME" kinda thing.... Right now, she's using kpop to make friends with people. She acts like she knows everything about korea and kpop when she dont. like let's be real, being a kpop fan does not make us know everything about korea.... help me what should i do?? i tried telling her several times but she gets mad at me and keeps doing it. break up with her. you don't like her as a friend anymore. it seems like she's more of a nuisance to you. she can find better friends don't worry. friends that would accept her as her and would tolerate and make fun of her at the same time. that's the friend that she needs and you don't want to get sucked into her world so might aswell gtfo. friends drift apart and you have to accept that and thats part of life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PiedPiper 315 Posted October 23, 2015 Share Posted October 23, 2015 Bestfriend? Lol ur backstabbing her.... Anyway, ur bestfriend is annoying af but her bestfriend doesn't know that she's being annoying since she's supposed to be safe with her "bestfriend" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gyujin 1,545 Posted October 23, 2015 Share Posted October 23, 2015 She'd drive me insane. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baechulgi 974 Posted October 23, 2015 Share Posted October 23, 2015 Ooooh reminds me of this Koreaboo/Weaboo I knew from school. I used to spazz and fangirl with her about kpop but then she became the delulu koreaboo/weaboo she is now. She claims she's fluent in Korean and Japanese but bitch I know you're struggling in that Japanese 3 class. Also she's got a bad case of yellow fever and will only date Asians. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kyum 2,459 Posted October 23, 2015 Share Posted October 23, 2015 I'd be annoyed as hell if I were you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blinket 2,355 Posted October 23, 2015 Share Posted October 23, 2015 To both u & ur friend: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hanguk Saram 198 Posted October 23, 2015 Share Posted October 23, 2015 I feel bad for u but it's just a phase it will pass,i had my days too :-D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mouse 530 Posted October 23, 2015 Share Posted October 23, 2015 Is it really a crime to like many groups tho? >~< But yesh i see why it can be annoying Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nev Schulman 7,948 Posted October 24, 2015 Share Posted October 24, 2015 Unfriend her if you cant stand her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lucky Blue 108 Posted October 24, 2015 Share Posted October 24, 2015 Poor you, i'm glad all the people i know don't like nor know what Kpop is Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ruppi 9,190 Posted October 24, 2015 Share Posted October 24, 2015 If you are really best friends then you should be able to tell her what is bothering you .. I mean what's holding you from telling her? Her reaction? Are you afraid she will stop being your friend? Well if that's your reason you might need to sit down and really think about how close you two are. Because best friends should be able to tell eachother anything ..espcially when the other is acting like an idiot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toastie 112 Posted October 26, 2015 Share Posted October 26, 2015 I have a friend who's kind of getting there. They usually grow out of it after a while. If not, then RUN. Just run. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Stupid Jellyfish 1,913 Posted October 26, 2015 Share Posted October 26, 2015 She'd drive me insane. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lumingi 47 Posted January 22, 2016 Share Posted January 22, 2016 I'd hate to have a friend like that. Just reading this made me cringe. I feel bad for you, i'd ignore her forever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Your Bae 3,001 Posted January 22, 2016 Share Posted January 22, 2016 I used to be in that exact same phase when I was an anime fan, and luckily I grew out, but it was very embarrassing. Like another user has said though, honesty and communication is key; if you guys are truly friends, then you guys would probably be able to sit down and have a talk about it. Also, she'll grow out of it, I can tell you that. Give it some time, but at least tell her your feelings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D a n t e 1,723 Posted January 22, 2016 Share Posted January 22, 2016 Already sounds to me like you can't stand her so just ditch her. Problem solved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KnottyBalloon 5,101 Posted February 1, 2016 Share Posted February 1, 2016 well that sucks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarlosA 1,935 Posted February 1, 2016 Share Posted February 1, 2016 She have this but kpop ver Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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