Guest Posted October 22, 2015 Share Posted October 22, 2015 I know I'm 14/15 and I know I'll probably sound like a sappy and hormonal teen or whatever but I'm genuinely curious what the hell these feelings mean?? I feel so empty but at the same time I crave for love or a significant oher so much I don't even know why because I know for sure I wouldn't want to actually have a boyfriend or girlfriend. I thought it was because all my friends have boyfriends and look happy but I honestly really don't care about that. I'm asking because I'm quite sure it's a normal thing, I just want to understand what's up with it. Is this even the right place to ask something like this lol I'm sorry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acclaim 3,513 Posted October 22, 2015 Share Posted October 22, 2015 sistars physical sales puberty Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jcey 7,752 Posted October 22, 2015 Share Posted October 22, 2015 Do fun things. Don't stay up doing nothing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ethereal 20,923 Posted October 22, 2015 Share Posted October 22, 2015 The first stages of the depression that comes with getting older Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saturn Girl 2,292 Posted October 22, 2015 Share Posted October 22, 2015 Honestly you sound like you're craving attention (and going through puberty). Nothing wrong with either of those things, wanting to feel loved by another/others is a completely normal thing and I would say try to surround yourself with people who make you feel loved and if you want go and get a boyfriend/ girlfriend/ significant other whatever. But yeah the feeling are normal, the empty thing though...idk abut that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 22, 2015 Share Posted October 22, 2015 The first stages of the depression that comes with getting older You're scaring me a little, I don't want to go through depression-- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mouse 530 Posted October 23, 2015 Share Posted October 23, 2015 U get used to it :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lynnie 1,207 Posted October 23, 2015 Share Posted October 23, 2015 You want to be "alone" but don't want to have someone, correct? Honestly, it's probably just a craving for attention, not necessarily from a bf/gf but just people in general? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice_ 1,328 Posted October 23, 2015 Share Posted October 23, 2015 Erm..do you have siblings? Brothers or sisters? Maybe you just feel being left by your friends because their attentions goes to their boyfriends. You just feel ...idk what to say...lonely? That's why i ask if you have any bro or sis. Dont worry that's not depression symptoms Maybe waste some time with your family can help or....find something to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 23, 2015 Share Posted October 23, 2015 Erm..do you have siblings? Brothers or sisters? Maybe you just feel being left by your friends because their attentions goes to their boyfriends. You just feel ...idk what to say...lonely? That's why i ask if you have any bro or sis. Dont worry that's not depression symptoms Maybe waste some time with your family can help or....find something to do. I have an older brother who's 20, I get along with him well. Tbh now that you mention it, I do think it's because of my friends, we grew apart in the summer vacation when I was in another country and they went on double, triple, quartet dates I guess I feel out of place, maybe I do crave for their attention /sighs. Thank you for replying Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 23, 2015 Share Posted October 23, 2015 You want to be "alone" but don't want to have someone, correct? Honestly, it's probably just a craving for attention, not necessarily from a bf/gf but just people in general? If it's put like that, I think it's more that I want the attention of those who are, or were, close to me. I don't really enjoy being in the spotlight it makes me feel uncomfortable when one's attention is put on me. But it does seem logical, thank you for replying Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keline 518 Posted October 26, 2015 Share Posted October 26, 2015 I have an older brother who's 20, I get along with him well. Tbh now that you mention it, I do think it's because of my friends, we grew apart in the summer vacation when I was in another country and they went on double, triple, quartet dates I guess I feel out of place, maybe I do crave for their attention /sighs. Thank you for replying If it's put like that, I think it's more that I want the attention of those who are, or were, close to me. I don't really enjoy being in the spotlight it makes me feel uncomfortable when one's attention is put on me. But it does seem logical, thank you for replying I think you've found your answers there. So take some time to become closer with some other friends? Of course it's easier said than done, but once you spend some more time with people, it'll get better. Although speaking from experience, there will be times in life when you will feel lonely even when you have close friends or a significant other. So it's important to reach out to other people when you feel that way. It's also important to learn to be okay with being alone but not feel lonely because of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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