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I GOT HIM TO AGREE TO AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP!


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I don't know if any of you remember the topic I posted last night about spending the night at the guy I'm dating's house and him being just super annoying. http://onehallyu.com/topic/233661-found-out-a-terrible-truth-about-the-guy-im-dating-please-comfort-me/

Basically he was obnoxious started twerking, being super loud, saying memes in real life, stuff like that. I didn't want to leave though because the sex was really good.

We had a talk about it last night and apparently he thought I wasn't romantic or silly enough for him long term and I thought he was too much of the opposite. He said he still wanted to stay with me because there are moments he thinks we're really good and I was just like, "dude lets do an open relationship."

HE WAS DOWN! YESSSSS! I STILL GET THE GOOD SEX, BUT STILL GET TO LOOK FOR SOMEONE ELSE THAT'S BETTER FOR ME AND SO DOES HE! MY NIGHT HAD A HAPPY ENDING!  IT WAS A MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING!

I'm not a terrible person though, so I will tell future people I date about the open relationship thing. Just thought I'd add that in before people were like "what a douche bag. she just wants to lead people on."

So my experience that I kinda bitched about on OH last night turned out really well. Yaaay!

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Just read ur original thread and lol, sounds like my type. MOBA player, extensive knowledge on memes and cute ;3 I say it again: aish u lucky bish.

I should set you up with him hahah jk.

He's definitely perfect for someone. He's a fantastic person, just really not for me

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no shade

but what is the difference between open relationship and being a super smash buddy (fqk buddy)

where im from yall are super smash bros.

To be honest I don't see the difference at all. It's like the nice way of putting it haha. We actually talk everyday and usually spend the whole day together, so I didn't want to give it a label that made it seem like the sex is the only reason why I spend time with him

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you're ruining your pair bonding instinct and decreasing the chance you'll be able to maintain a long term relationship in the future

 

when your looks start to decline, no one will want to marry you if they know about your past

If they know that in the past I dated someone I didn't want to 100% commit to? The open relationship decision isn't about me wanting to have sex with a bunch of people, nor do I even hook up with a lot of people . It's more so about finding someone that I really connect to while still seeing someone that I don't entirely want to let go of. I mean it's not traditional, but why lose something that still kinda works

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To be honest I don't see the difference at all. It's like the nice way of putting it haha. We actually talk everyday and usually spend the whole day together, so I didn't want to give it a label that made it seem like the sex is the only reason why I spend time with him

gotcha!

lol

plus when you have to explain "what" yall are you wont have to get the sideye for having a super smash bro.

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