Candykiss 2,124 Posted September 17, 2013 Share Posted September 17, 2013 So my ex and I are still close friends But he still likes me and its really awkward because he has a girlfriend now So I thought he moved on but apparently not In all the classes we have he sits by me all the time He still likes me but I don't like him back He's liked me for 4 almost 5 years and its like redididuckiuss How so you deal with this?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PALEMOCHI 3,696 Posted September 17, 2013 Share Posted September 17, 2013 GURL I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM i ended up moving schools lmao then he found out i got a new boyfriend and he got all mad and jealous i think most girls will deal with this problem in their life tbh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tokki the Awkward Potato 5,878 Posted September 17, 2013 Share Posted September 17, 2013 Tell him you already have Boyfriend. u get it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mog 5,083 Posted September 17, 2013 Share Posted September 17, 2013 Just make sure he understands there's a clear line in your relationship and that you are just friends and that you don't feel the same way as him. There's nothing else you can really do. If you feel that he doesn't understand that then simply give the friendship some space until he's ready to handle it otherwise, especially since he's in a relationship with someone else who probably wouldn't feel comfortable knowing he still has feelings for another girl while with her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Girls'Generation 88 Posted September 17, 2013 Share Posted September 17, 2013 doesn't make sense why he has a new girlfriend. poor girl, probably thinking she has a devoted boyfriend meanwhile he has feelings for his ex. and srsly he needs to move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Candykiss 2,124 Posted September 17, 2013 Author Share Posted September 17, 2013 GURL I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM i ended up moving schools lmao then he found out i got a new boyfriend and he got all mad and jealous i think most girls will deal with this problem in their life tbh Aww haha Honestly he is really nice He is like that close guy friend that's always there for you When I told him I didn't like him anymore he didn't really care he still treated me the same D: It's so funny he pats my head or pokes me It's like puppy love u can't get rid off Just make sure he understands there's a clear line in your relationship and that you are just friends and that you don't feel the same way as him. There's nothing else you can really do. If you feel that he doesn't understand that then simply give the friendship some space until he's ready to handle it otherwise, especially since he's in a relationship with someone else who probably wouldn't feel comfortable knowing he still has feelings for another girl while with her.Yup I've made it clear but he still treats me the same Honesty I'm so confused because I don't like him that way but I DONT think I can live without him Because we known each other since middle school and we hang out a lot But I feel so bad because he is treats mess nicely and yet I'm confused whether I like him or not There was a period where I was infatuated with him but now idk >< Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A Boy Like Troy 3,333 Posted September 17, 2013 Share Posted September 17, 2013 Don't talk to him for a couple months. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Candykiss 2,124 Posted September 17, 2013 Author Share Posted September 17, 2013 Don't talk to him for a couple months. I see him everyday though That'd be totally awk and mean D: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dandelion Wine 1,540 Posted September 17, 2013 Share Posted September 17, 2013 Set the record straight. Keep reminding him of that boundary. If you don't like him that way, AND he has a girlfriend, there's really no reason for you to accept such behavior...if need be, take a break from him for awhile so he gets the message. Basically what Mog said, in fact. Remember to be stern. This happened to me once too...a guy I was friends with (and we're not even that good of friends tbh) started liking me and STILL likes me, asking me flirtatious questions even when he was in a relationship. He's not even joking and it makes me legit uncomfortable. I've started ignoring him and I think MAYBE he's starting to get the picture now but ugh... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A Boy Like Troy 3,333 Posted September 17, 2013 Share Posted September 17, 2013 I see him everyday though That'd be totally awk and mean D: Tell him beforehand. He'll understand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mglsts 960 Posted September 17, 2013 Share Posted September 17, 2013 Well, if you really care about him, you've got to cut the cord for good. It's not healthy for him or for you. He will never move on if you keep treating him like that, because he will keep thinking he has a chance. I'm not saying you should be abrasive or aggressive, just be with him like you would treat any other regular friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ohsogrey 474 Posted September 17, 2013 Share Posted September 17, 2013 It sounds like even though you broke it off you're keeping him around as a back up option. Cut the chord gurl, it's the kindest way to handle him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Jany 4,154 Posted September 17, 2013 Share Posted September 17, 2013 Tell him beforehand. He'll understand. The BIG solution Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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