Kei-chan 2 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 I did not and still have not figured out what I want to do in life.. how does one succeed in doing this? I feel left behind. I still like kpop/jpop/ dramas and variety shows more than showing interest in finding a career. I feel stumped. Can't even find a proper job with the bad economy.. Any advice? I don't even know where this thread is supposed to go Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
æ©ã�„ã�¦ã�„ã�“ã�† 2,996 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 i'm about to graduate from uni but still haven't found my what my passion is if you are interested with fashion and beauty related you should try to become a blogger or youtuber lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PussySlayedByTzuyu 7,430 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 I am 19 and giving up.. life is hard sigh.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
denizen mars 5,911 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 kind of. I have an idea of what I want to do but not specifically and it's worrisome Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashelin 2,418 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 I'm turning 26 and I'm still just going through life like: I went back to school, so that's a start. I think the problem is the things I'm passionate about are hard to find success in. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
�ри 389 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 I'm 19 and graduating university this year. Still have no idea what I wanna do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mog 5,083 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 I never know what to do and basically make it up as I go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
æ©ã�„ã�¦ã�„ã�“ã�† 2,996 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 I'm 19 and graduating university this year. Still have no idea what I wanna do WHAT? 19 AND ALREADY GRADUATING? woah! i'm impressed! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kiddo 1,285 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♡SEOLO♡ 2,773 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 SAME i'm about to gradute from college but i also don't know what will i do, i realized that i don't even like my major that much anymore and the jobs availables are so shitty i'd rather be jobless, i do have other few things i would like to try but i'm so lazy i just want to skip this part and go to the part when i'm my 30's with a stable job lmao i actually regret choosing my major, at first i wanted to try a different career, like a interesting one and not cliche but i'm so dumb, i literally don't care about the job anymore i just want to do a repetitive, easy, boring work, like whatever just give me my money, but in my major i have to think, be creative, find good oportunities, work very hard to get results....... ain't nobody got time for that, and my personality doesn't help either, i'm not very good with words, it just sucks :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katt 6,307 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 Yes, I'm 23 and still dont know what to do with myself It's tough, I wish I were one of those people that can make decisions like this I'm trying to find what I'm interested in other than kpop, video games, sleeping and food Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twinky 15,878 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 idk i'm just living my life day to day, following the flow i still live with my family when i'm capable of buying my own place.( basically i don't want to live on my own) i have a job with really good salary so i don't bother to find any better jobs ( it's been almost four years since i graduated from university and i'm still working at the same place). people asked why don't i open my own law firm but it's too complicated for me atm i also don't want to move forward relationship wise too, like the idea of being in serious relationship/marriage/settling down scare me off. honestly my life is too comfortable and safe i'm not a risk taker my advice is that don't be like me. go out and explore things? you'll eventually find your course of life i should do the same as well Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Idahoe 265 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 I think there's a lot of fun in not knowing what to do. I'm still not really sure where my life is going despite getting older but I'm enjoying trying to work out where everything is going. I guess there's more and more obstacles and consequences as we get older but I don't see it as a reason to stop looking. To be honest I never really understood how twelve year old me was meant to have planned and set out a life-course for twenty/thirty/forty/fifty year old me. My main advice would be to make sure you're continuing to try and find what interests you. Don't just stand still. Not knowing can be great! It gives you something to pursue, even if you're doing so blindly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LetMeLive 252 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 I feel ya. Right now im jobless. I quit my first job and been staying at home for more like 3 months. I know i need to get my shit together again coz im going insane seeing all my friends doing good while im here feeling useless and shit, being distracted coz of kpop,social media etc. I want to do a lot of things but i always end up not doing anything.lol.its fckin frustrating.ANYWAY.nuff about my boring ass life. Just explore i guess...sometimes we need to get lost to find ourselves.(something like that) Go apply for a job that you find exciting. It's all about determination. If you really want to succeed then change your mindset. Let go of the things that is pulling you down....everything that is distracting you to focus about your future LET GO of it. That's basically my advice to myself. its fuckin hard but im trying...small progress is better than no progress at all... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M O L A 1,082 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 I have too many plans for life including learning japanese and working in japan but rn the probability of that happening is 1% When I entered college, I didn't know what career path I should take but I kind of just googled a degree that sounds interesting and with great pay so I ended up majoring in CS Now in my second year of college, but I just started the preparatory course for my major so Idek if I can even finish it within 4 yrs idk. I'm turning 20 but my knowledge and experience with life is equal to that of middle schooler or even with lower It's sad that I allowed myself to be in this state, but no matter how much I try to change my life, I still can't. Idek. I envy people with joyous life but Idk how to change mine. Idek if I want to change it. I only know I'm miserable rn. I only go to school 2 days a week, and for 5 days, I stay at home 24/7. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hiraishrimp 5,413 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 Idk if I want to teach overseas or teach in Australia when I graduate Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rich witch 20,592 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 what would you consider old? I'm 22 and I think for now I'm quite sure about what I want to do, but there's nothing wrong about feeling a little clueless or lost, as long as you find something that makes you happy enough to settle for. just don't do something you hate, it's only going to make you miserable. there's nothing bad about enjoying your hobbies (be it k-pop or whatever) at any age as long as it doesn't harm you in any way. for me, it even helps me to get through the day. I think it's a matter of time and that eventually everything falls into place, because I'm optimistic like that. Maybe you need some more time with yourself, thinking things through, traveling a bit. Just make sure you don't stand still in your place and do nothing about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
�ри 389 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 WHAT? 19 AND ALREADY GRADUATING? woah! i'm impressed! really? it's actually quite common in my country some of my friends are barely 19 I'll be 20 when I get my diploma in june though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ICETERO 9,070 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 really? it's actually quite common in my country some of my friends are barely 19 I'll be 20 when I get my diploma in june though Wow really? Here in England u go to uni when u are 18-19 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dasom's Nose 1,100 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 i already gave up long time ago. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
æ©ã�„ã�¦ã�„ã�“ã�† 2,996 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 Wow really? Here in England u go to uni when u are 18-19 yeah true, lol i went to uni when i was 18 lol T_T really? it's actually quite common in my country some of my friends are barely 19 I'll be 20 when I get my diploma in june though woah, thats great! good luck for you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
h0neanias 13,516 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 I know what I want to do in life. Problem is I need a job on top of reading books and playing videogames. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deea 6,754 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 Idk either :( theres too many things rn in my life lol Trimis de pe al meu GT-I9301I folosind Tapatalk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nev Schulman 7,948 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 I wanna relax for the rest of my life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarahh 2,288 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 I was going through this same thing a couple years ago. I took multiple classes at community college of things I thought I was interested in and I ended up hating all the classes I took so I felt really lost. I knew I didn't want to be stuck in an office or some other standard job but I also knew I didn't want to be in school for years and years. I've luckily found a career that fits what I was looking for (and I literally decided to do it on whim which I wouldn't totally recommend but hey it worked for me) but I definitely remember the struggle of seeing all my friends knowing exactly where they wanted to go in life while I was clueless. However I've discovered people don't really have it all together like we think they do, so don't feel so bad about yourself. Just take your time and maybe find a part time job doing whatever while you try to find out what you want to do so at least you'll feel like you're making some progress. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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