Kim Seolhyun 7,303 Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 Can somebody tell me why my 18 year old friend who has lost her virginity at 15, has slept with over 12 people, one time 3 in the same month, and still feels like she needs to slut shame her other friend who do the exact same? How does she not realize that she changes boyfriends more often than she changes underwear? What makes her believe she has the right to slut shame anybody? Can someone please enlighten a bitch?! Cause a bitch is lost and confused. And this goes out to like 60% of my female friends. Like what the actual fuck. New boyfriend, or should I say, fuck buddy, every single goddamn month. Still wanna talk about who is sleeping around and who isn't. Rushing into relationships like they actually have hope that something is going to last after all those three week long dick centered relationships they've had in the past. And have the nerve to look down upon others who live the same lifestyle. Like if your going to sleep around, just own that shit. I've been friends with prostitutes that never put down another female. And then we have girls selling pussy FOR THE FREE. And want to run their traps. GIRL BYE. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deâ„“phina 14,904 Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 3 in the same month, and still feels like she needs to slut shame her other friend who do the exact same? How does she not realize that she changes boyfriends more often than she changes underwear? They must be in that whole "female scent" kink then.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
feat. you 1,103 Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 but, you're slutshaming your own friends. it doesn't make it ok to slutshame them just because they slutshame others all yall wrong Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ElleMae 3,519 Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 Your friends don't have the right to judge anybody but neither do you. There is nothing wrong with having multiple partners (as long as you're safe). The only wrong your friends are doing is being judgemental, but it sounds like you're doing the same thing to them you're calling them out for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimin's GF 1,621 Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 Having sex is never wrong unless one of the people didn't give their contentment, or it's not done safely. So yeah, nothing wrong with having multiple fuck buddies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Puremystic 3,078 Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 They must be in that whole "female scent" kink then.... I soley came here to point out the same thing.....\ -- also what I'm (jokingly) getting from evaluating the OP from a friend's perspective Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Susu 2,329 Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 They must be in that whole "female scent" kink then.... what does that mean? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sane 16,342 Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 Two mentalities are at play. 1: People judge themselves by their intentions and others by their actions. A views herself as having good intentions, so her behavior is excused in her mind. B, C, D and etc. are judged by their behavior alone, and thus deemed to be bad by A, who doesn't know or care what the thought process behind their behavior is. 2: A "slut" in the first place is somebody who you view as more sexual than you. Maybe B had 4 boyfriends in one month, and A "only" had 3, so to A, B is a slut... But then maybe A has more casual sex outside of relationships than B, so to B, A is the slut. It's all about perspective. If you don't even have one new boyfriend every month then both A and B probably view you as a prude. So it's not that they don't see their own slutty behavior, it's just that they're being extremely biased in their judgment of people, which is how most people are in the world Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PiedPiper 315 Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 Can somebody tell me why my 18 year old friend who has lost her virginity at 15, has slept with over 12 people, one time 3 in the same month, and still feels like she needs to slut shame her other friend who do the exact same? How does she not realize that she changes boyfriends more often than she changes underwear? What makes her believe she has the right to slut shame anybody? Can someone please enlighten a bitch?! Cause a bitch is lost and confused. And this goes out to like 60% of my female friends. Like what the actual fuck. New boyfriend, or should I say, fuck buddy, every single goddamn month. Still wanna talk about who is sleeping around and who isn't. Rushing into relationships like they actually have hope that something is going to last after all those three week long dick centered relationships they've had in the past. And have the nerve to look down upon others who live the same lifestyle. Like if your going to sleep around, just own that shit. I've been friends with prostitutes that never put down another female. And then we have girls selling pussy FOR THE FREE. And want to run their traps. GIRL BYE. you are friends with sluts. but no seriously, you guys are too young still and your friend started young as well. give them a few more years and they;d stop acting immature. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deâ„“phina 14,904 Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 what does that mean? Ohhh an innocent mind, forgot those still existed I shan't taint your soul, fot it is rare and precious Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kyrie 6,251 Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 ...and still feels like she needs to slut shame her other friend who do the exact same? You're doing the same thing she is. And you're both wrong for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burkhardt 2,587 Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 lol, she's your friend and you can't tell her all this to her face? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
odd-eyed 5,564 Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 Like if your going to sleep around, just own that shit. I've been friends with prostitutes that never put down another female. And then we have girls selling pussy FOR THE FREE. And want to run their traps. GIRL BYE. So you're asking why your friend is slut-shaming her friend, while you're here slut-shaming about her, but you also want girls to not put down other girls? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kim Seolhyun 7,303 Posted September 22, 2015 Author Share Posted September 22, 2015 lol, she's your friend and you can't tell her all this to her face? This is true~ someone needs to tell her besides outsiders Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kim Seolhyun 7,303 Posted September 22, 2015 Author Share Posted September 22, 2015 Two mentalities are at play. 1: People judge themselves by their intentions and others by their actions. A views herself as having good intentions, so her behavior is excused in her mind. B, C, D and etc. are judged by their behavior alone, and thus deemed to be bad by A, who doesn't know or care what the thought process behind their behavior is. 2: A "slut" in the first place is somebody who you view as more sexual than you. Maybe B had 4 boyfriends in one month, and A "only" had 3, so to A, B is a slut... But then maybe A has more casual sex outside of relationships than B, so to B, A is the slut. It's all about perspective. If you don't even have one new boyfriend every month then both A and B probably view you as a prude. So it's not that they don't see their own slutty behavior, it's just that they're being extremely biased in their judgment of people, which is how most people are in the world I see what you mean, thank you. Never thought of it that way Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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