maidoan97 743 Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 We were classmates in elementary. He had been my deskmate for three years. After graduation, we attended the same junior high school but we were in different classes I saw him a few times in school but I was too shy to approach him (and sadly, he didn't see me). We had very few interactions. During my last year of junior high school, I moved to Japan with my family and had zero contact with him until I had the courage to add him on Facebook. However, he suddenly unfriended me. We never even chatted on Facebook or elsewhere. I was very sad but I still stalk him (like, visiting his Wall and stuffs) sometimes, and found out that he was accepted into a uni in the US. He just went there a few weeks ago. I most likely will stay in Japan until I graduate from uni (which means in 4 or 5 years). I never told him that I liked him, and we will never meet each other again for 4 years at least. So, should I move on? This is my first and only crush (sorry for this long post xD) The thing is, I've been single for 18 years so the only "romantic " experiences I have are novels and K-drama, so I kinda believe in fate and shit lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pessego 2,194 Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 Awwwwww this is sad let me hug you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lynnie 1,207 Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 Sorry to say but move on. People will come and go....best wishes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oh-gumdrop 348 Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 It seems like a mean thing to just randomly unfriend a person though...tbh i would let it go if i were you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Habitual Irony 913 Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 It's gonna be so long til you two meet again.... I would advice you to move on. I DEMAND AN EXPLANATION FROM HIM FOR UNFRIENDING YOU Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jcey 7,752 Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 Let go dear. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zerozoro 576 Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 I'm sure you'll meet someone new at uni Cheer up! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SulIi 1,540 Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 So, should I move on? This is my first and only crush *until now. You'll have many D in the future. Just move on, find a D D stand for dude Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
succhun 1,010 Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 i fEEL YOU TBFH https://vine.co/v/evWWpja5gLp Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twisted 1,236 Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 We were classmates in elementary. He had been my deskmate for three years. After graduation, we attended the same junior high school but we were in different classes I saw him a few times in school but I was too shy to approach him (and sadly, he didn't see me). We had very few interactions. During my last year of junior high school, I moved to Japan with my family and had zero contact with him until I had the courage to add him on Facebook. However, he suddenly unfriended me. We never even chatted on Facebook or elsewhere. I was very sad but I still stalk him (like, visiting his Wall and stuffs) sometimes, and found out that he was accepted into a uni in the US. He just went there a few weeks ago. I most likely will stay in Japan until I graduate from uni (which means in 4 or 5 years). I never told him that I liked him, and we will never meet each other again for 4 years at least. So, should I move on? This is my first and only crush (sorry for this long post xD) The thing is, I've been single for 18 years so the only "romantic " experiences I have are novels and K-drama, so I kinda believe in fate and shit lol "I've been single for 18 years"=You are me. But seriously, move on. You deserve someone better than a guy who unfriended you in Facebook. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riri 4,384 Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 Move on. You surely deserve better and i'm sure you'll find the right person for you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovingu2 1,959 Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 i'm sorry but he sounds like a jerk i mean.... he has been your friend for three years and suddenly he's not? and he unfriended you?! gurrrl move on you can do better Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
palechibi 2,748 Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 Sorry to say but move on. People will come and go....best wishes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovingu2 1,959 Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 i fEEL YOU TBFH https://vine.co/v/evWWpja5gLp LMAO Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auji121 33 Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 sometimes people unfriend someone without any intention but just trying to clear some acquaintance so just move on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sylar 521 Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 sounds like he is not interested move on ♥ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil 139 Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 I think you should move on, especially because in the past there wasn't an effort with interactions so sorry to say but he probably forgot who you were and deleted you, since there was little interaction in later life. You'll find someone don't worry but make sure next time you will put an effort towards it. I get it that you are probably shy and such but you shouldn't let that keep getting away for your happiness. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarieToilette 85 Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 yes, it will make you feel much better and liberated. I don't think that this attachment has to do much with your feelings anymore, but more because it has become part of your daily life. Maybe if you picked up a new hobby or make a few small changes to change somehow your daily routine, it would be easier to forget about him too. (Sorry if i sound intrusive or if it's not the case though) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
metoome 223 Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 move on dear Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gyujin 1,545 Posted October 3, 2015 Share Posted October 3, 2015 I think you should. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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