Okay guys... I really need relationship advice (am I living the dream?)

[tsaglaglal]

(First topic!)

 

Hello everyone... I'm a 19 year old spanish girl and I might start dating a cute, rich, famous-in-his-country Asian boy.

 

And I've never had a boyfriend before, so I'm freaking out. I'm going to see my best friend later to talk about this but tonight I barely slept 4 hours and I will explode if I don't explain this to someone. I won't say names or which country because maybe you'd find out who he is... I don't really know how known he is.

 

Last night I went out with one of my best friends, whose mother is Asian. Apparently her mother is in the "ambassy" of this Asian country in Spain, and she gets to meet a lot of this country's visitors, and she guides them around. Sometimes they even stay in their house, which is the case of this boy I was talking about.

 

He liked me a lot and he went straight to the point. We exchanged numbers, danced together (I mean grinding), we even had a couple pecks. He spent quite a bit of money in the fair we were in and then he drove us home in his beautiful Mercedez.

 

He's ~25, so that's a ~6 years difference. He's a racing driver (that was a big clue, so I edited it out. It's not F1 though) , that's why he's "famous". He's a 6-7/10 face and 9/10 body in my opinion. If you didn't see his face you'd say he's a Korean idol, by the way he dresses and his body shape. But he's not Korean obviously xD

 

So... Please help me. We're meeting tomorrow, and I have no idea what to do. These are my problems basically:

1. I'm still fresh in college and he already has a career and a life, the age difference is not that big but still.

 

2. If I went out with him, my life would change a lot. I had always imagined dating a guy from here, because I really value sharing a popular culture and being able to have deep conversations about things that happen here. But not only is he from another country, but because of the motorcycle races he's always travelling, this Friday he's going to Italy.

 

3. He's rich and I'm from a almost low-middle class family. It feels like everything I've worked for is useless with his money.

 

4. And finally communicating... he can speak English at a very basic level, he's better at writing it.

 

And well... the sexual tension is there and he treats me very well. So what do you think I should do? I already feel better after writing this, but I still don't know what to do. Everytime I get close to a boy I end up pushing them away, and I'm feeling tempted to do so. I'm fine single.

 

(Sorry for the long text...)

 

TL;DR: should I date this rich, "famous", Asian, always travelling and 6 years older than me guy?

[Pink Lipstick]

date him and steal his money and become a millionaire then you can date an infinite amount of cute boys

[Haruwu]

if he's legit? do you know him from online or rl

[♢ A ♢]

date him and steal his money and become a millionaire then you can date an infinite amount of cute boys

[Sehunk]

3. He's rich and I'm from a almost low-middle class family. It feels like everything I've worked for is useless with his money.

 

 

Girl, don't quit your day job yet if you're just "dating". Work hard, make money, so if you ever get a divorce down the line. You'd still have some cash.

[oppaarrr]

Go for him. It's not like you two would married the next day 

[tsaglaglal]

if he's legit? do you know him from online or rl

Yes he is, I met him last night in real life. And I've looked him up online and it is the same that my friend's family told me about him.

[ToujoursSistar]

Date him but just because he's rich you shouldn't depend on him for everything .

[Haruwu]

girl get them dollars

[tsaglaglal]

date him and steal his money and become a millionaire then you can date an infinite amount of cute boys

Hahahah actually I always said money didn't matter for me but when I saw that car... damn

[Delphine]

Well, you're not living "the dream" at all by my standarts. But good luck with that.

[Pink Lipstick]

Hahahah actually I always said money didn't matter for me but when I saw that car... damn

 

girl make the most of this opportunity, it's not like you're going to marry him

[Witch Nose]

Yes date him if you like the whole package, not just because he's rich.

 

Plus I think its perfectly ok to date someone like that when you're young, might be a good experience!

[tsaglaglal]

Well, you're not living "the dream" at all by my standarts. But good luck with that.

Yes that's why I'm doubting... It's just so unexpected, I've always fancied another kind of relationship. But I haven't had a boyfriend yet, so maybe this is my chance.

[Serenee]

I don't think it's a good idea to start a relationship with someone that travels a lot. It can turn out quite unstable and burdensome.

But if you like him, then date him. 

[oppaarrr]

Gurl now I'm really curious about him *brb googling*   

[Delphine]

Yes that's why I'm doubting... It's just so unexpected, I've always fancied another kind of relationship. But I haven't had a boyfriend yet, so maybe this is my chance.

 

Experience is always good to take whenever the opportunity arises! But keep in mind that what you want and value in a relationship matters as well. But so far, it's just a beginning, so no need to stress much over it, and just give it a try.

[tsaglaglal]

Gurl now I'm really curious about him *brb googling*

Hahahaha send me a pm if you find him! I'm curious to see if you can.

[tsaglaglal]

I don't think it's a good idea to start a relationship with someone that travels a lot. It can turn out quite unstable and burdensome.

But if you like him, then date him. 

Hmm maybe it's because I'm young but I don't really want a very serious relationship, and I get tired if I see someone everyday... I don't know what he wants though

[oppaarrr]

Hahahaha send me a pm if you find him! I'm curious to see if you can.

 

okay   

[iamayam]

Keep digging

[Is there a problem?]

are you talking about Elly Idzlianizar? the Malaysian rider?

 

 

maybe one of the japs but dunno which is 25 lol

[sasuke_uchiha]

Gold digger opportunity, don't fuck it up!

[Immafan / ImmafanofU / MeU]

Go for it but not Go through it. Okay?

[bluesclues]

If you're not looking for something serious then I don't see the problem. However keep in mind that since this is your first "relationship" it's highly likely you'll get very attached. But if you feel attracted and are willing then go for it. You're young, you like him, he likes you, why not?

 

Gurl now I'm really curious about him *brb googling*   

 

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