KinkySanta 1,073 Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 A few weeks ago I was walking around the mall I work at and this guy approached me and talked to me. He told me he saw me in my store a month ago and thought I was really pretty. He asked if I was single and I told him I was taken (the truth actually). He seemed fine with it and continued to talk to me in a friendly way. He asked for my number after about 10 minutes of casual talking with no flirting, so I gave him my number. I only gave him my number because some of my best friendships start out with a guy having a crush on me and me rejecting them. I figured this would be like that. Well, he starts texting me and his texting skills were terribly boring and he texted far too often for being so boring (short replies and all that). Fast forward to today when I'm clocking out for the day. Me and the others leaving were waiting by the door for the manager (the manager has to check our bags before we leave) when the guy comes in. He comes in way too happy to see me and I kinda say hey in a very chill sort of way. He decides that's the perfect opportunity to grab me and hug me far too tight and I kinda squirm away. He stops to talk and I was feeling beyond uncomfortable, almost scared. I decide to awkwardly make my exit by leaving to the back to look for the manager to check our bags. Once I get her he's still there. As I left while with all my friends he invites me out to eat at the food court and I lie and say I have an appointment. I've dealt with much creepier before, but this dude gave me the fight or flight feeling today. How can I get this guy to never come into my store looking for me again? I'm afraid of being mean because I'm not sure if I want to get him angry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thotcahontas 5,149 Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 If you got that fight or flight feeling chances are he really is a creeper..im talking smile in your face while driving you to a cane field to hack you to pieces kind of creeper and if what I said is true.. then telling him to bug off isn't gonna work so.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
choijxxnnxl 351 Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 you have to be mean for once I mean if good way doesn't work. Or you should just keep avoiding him (telling him you can't go with him everytime he wants to ask you out) until he knows that You don't want him there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ripiaoppa 15,307 Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 Just don't reply he'll get the point, if not then sau stop bothering me in a text. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thotcahontas 5,149 Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 you have to be mean for once I mean if good way doesn't work. Or you should just keep avoiding him (telling him you can't go with him everytime he wants to ask you out) until he knows that You don't want him there. lmao I think lifetime is getting into me.im imaging a creeper lifetime scenario where he gets aggressive and kidnaps ha my imagination is going Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nancy mcflurry 2,385 Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 Just act disgusting in front of him. Fart, talk about gross shit, brag about the giant dump you took a few hours ago, etc. That's the kind of shit that scares guys away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
choijxxnnxl 351 Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 lmao I think lifetime is getting into me.im imaging a creeper lifetime scenario where he gets aggressive and kidnaps ha my imagination is going omooo ME TOO!!!! I was going to say only mean way part but I was afraid the worst will happen lol like kidnapping so I gave more LOOOOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GinInsideMyTonic 50 Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 Just act disgusting in front of him. Fart, talk about gross shit, brag about the giant dump you took a few hours ago, etc. That's the kind of shit that scares guys away. Just died reading this LOL Best suggestion ever! Anyway, I'd say that the first thing is to stop answering his texts. Just act like he doesn't exist. Maybe your boyfriend could come and pick you up when you clock out at work? So, if the creeper comes around, he'll have an undeniable proof that you're very, very taken already Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kxjay 3,543 Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 Kidnap him before he kidnaps you. Send a ransom video to his parents and you'll be rich amd he won't bother you anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ì •ì§„ì˜� 586 Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 I don't know. but I hope someone has the answer. Just died reading this LOL Best suggestion ever! Anyway, I'd say that the first thing is to stop answering his texts. Just act like he doesn't exist. Maybe your boyfriend could come and pick you up when you clock out at work? So, if the creeper comes around, he'll have an undeniable proof that you're very, very taken already Yeah have the boyfriend around GREAT IDEA Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dazed 1,471 Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 Just don't reply he'll get the point, if not then sau stop bothering me in a text. No sometimes that doesn't always work. I learned the hard way. Text could work or..... Just tell him straight forward. " I'm not interested in you, so please leave me alone". If you get kidnapped or killed.....hey. At least you tried. Life is full of surprises. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fatality 312 Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 act like a kinky santa and get him to move on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ogre Shrek 8,980 Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 Trust your instincts. If he seems bad news, is probably because he IS. And don't be too polite about these things if you want your message to get through to him. Sometimes, you have to be cruel to be kind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GinInsideMyTonic 50 Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 I don't know. but I hope someone has the answer. Yeah have the boyfriend around GREAT IDEA Is that sarcasm? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ì •ì§„ì˜� 586 Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 Is that sarcasm? No.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GinInsideMyTonic 50 Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 No.... Oh, ok good Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
victaorious 2,923 Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 You are gonna have to make it perfectly clear that you aren't interested in dating him and then go from there. Don't fuss too much over politeness either. Practice your bitchface in the mirror. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pollute 24 Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 Aggressive moves like that scare me off too Still don't know how to reject guys like that either, but the fart thing sounds like a good idea. Would be really convenient if you're lactose intolerant too, those gases are deadly... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krysbian 3,846 Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 Tell him you don't swing that way ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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