campfire 5,083 Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 I have this friend and we've been friends for 7 years. She can be really negative and extra sometimes. So anyways I got my exam results and I did really well but I got an email from my teacher that I could get my paper remarked because I was only a few marks from the top grade. She was like 'oh don't do it it's worthless now ur already in college' and then she was like 'forget about it and focus on me'. Keep in mind if I get this grade I can transfer to a better school next year. It was a joke but STILL. And my other friend was also being really discouraging and I felt so down about it b/c I had some tough times and I expected them to be supportive and happy for me. So i stopped talking to her and I blocked her on iMessage because I didn't need it at the time. Then my birthday was yesterday and she commented on my Instagram post so I unblocked her and messaged her like hey and we were talking and then she tells me I'm petty for not talking to her and I was like you were being really annoying and she sad 'you only like people when it's convenient for you'. WHAT kind of bullshit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ToujoursSistar 7,681 Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 Lol your friend seems pressed . Why can't she be happy for you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PussySlayedByTzuyu 7,430 Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 that’s how jealous people are hon Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Helga 288 Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 she was wrong but you were too. what kind of attitude is it to block of friend when he's being annoying? you should have just talked to her and made her understand your view on things Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vnvn 47 Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 hmmmm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aiyuu 1,417 Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 "pay attention to those who don't clap when you win" tbh ppl will probably tell u u shouldnt have just blocked her off but ive lived my life by cutting off toxic, negative ppl immediately and it's always worked, you don't need that kind of shit imo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
campfire 5,083 Posted August 31, 2015 Author Share Posted August 31, 2015 she was wrong but you were too. what kind of attitude is it to block of friend when he's being annoying? you should have just talked to her and made her understand your view on things I did! I was like you're all being really unsupportive and it's upsetting and she was like 'it's worthless stop trying to replace me with a grade it won't listen to your problems' and then she sent me a picture of my ex to piss me off Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
campfire 5,083 Posted August 31, 2015 Author Share Posted August 31, 2015 that’s how jealous people are hon Lol your friend seems pressed . Why can't she be happy for you idk why she's like that especially when it's not like she's a flop. My other friend failed her exams and isn't going to uni and having other kinds of problems so I understand kind of why de was like that (it's still not right tho) but this one idek Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ToujoursSistar 7,681 Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 idk why she's like that especially when it's not like she's a flop. My other friend failed her exams and isn't going to uni and having other kinds of problems so I understand kind of why de was like that (it's still not right tho) but this one idek I.think she's jealous Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PussySlayedByTzuyu 7,430 Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 idk why she's like that especially when it's not like she's a flop. My other friend failed her exams and isn't going to uni and having other kinds of problems so I understand kind of why de was like that (it's still not right tho) but this one idek it’s about your feeling. Sometimes you feel that it’s not right. But you are also wrong too. Blocking is just *childish version of avoiding*. Talk it and discussed it out! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
L'enfant terrible 674 Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 if you talked with her, and she's still keeping her shitty attitude. then 'bye bye' (?) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gamguu 374 Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 tbh ppl will probably tell u u shouldnt have just blocked her off but ive lived my life by cutting off toxic, negative ppl immediately and it's always worked, you don't need that kind of shit imo basically this. i don't think you're wrong for blocking also lmao @ "forget about it and focus on me" what a joke Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jcey 7,752 Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 she was wrong but you were too. what kind of attitude is it to block of friend when he's being annoying? you should have just talked to her and made her understand your view on things ^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
campfire 5,083 Posted August 31, 2015 Author Share Posted August 31, 2015 it’s about your feeling. Sometimes you feel that it’s not right. But you are also wrong too. Blocking is just *childish version of avoiding*. Talk it and discussed it out!I did explain to her then she kept on messaging me like arguing so I blocked her. She doesn't listen. basically this. i don't think you're wrong for blocking also lmao @ "forget about it and focus on me" what a joke lol ikr she's so....I don't even know. sigh she needs help. She was like stop trying to replace me with a grade!!! I was like '....ok' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PussySlayedByTzuyu 7,430 Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 I did explain to her then she kept on messaging me like arguing so I blocked her. She doesn't listen. then she deserve it then Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
campfire 5,083 Posted August 31, 2015 Author Share Posted August 31, 2015 ^ She really doesn't listen. I was like I don't want to talk about this anymore and she kept messaging so I just blocked her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Helga 288 Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 I did! I was like you're all being really unsupportive and it's upsetting and she was like 'it's worthless stop trying to replace me with a grade it won't listen to your problems' and then she sent me a picture of my ex to piss me off looks like your friend is really childish so maybe you should talk to her seriously and tell her you won't keep being her friend if she's always behaving like that, if she can't understand then she's not really your friend Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seulo 4,828 Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 tbh ppl will probably tell u u shouldnt have just blocked her off but ive lived my life by cutting off toxic, negative ppl immediately and it's always worked, you don't need that kind of shit imo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clay 11,273 Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 looks like your friend is really childish so maybe you should talk to her seriously and tell her you won't keep being her friend if she's always behaving like that, if she can't understand then she's not really your friend Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heolol 3 Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 looks like your friend is really childish so maybe you should talk to her seriously and tell her you won't keep being her friend if she's always behaving like that, if she can't understand then she's not really your friend Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Park Hyoshin's vocal coach 4,019 Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 Idk if it's because I am able to cut ties with people easily but I'd just cut it off with her! I am not here for people who annoy me like that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lynnie 1,207 Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 Drop her tbh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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