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Would you date someone of a different social stratum?


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Would you date someone from a lower social stratum than yours? someone like a security guard or even a homeless

 

Let's suppose that person is physically attractive and kind. Would you?

 

 

I always watch on dramas rich people falling in love with homeless people or people of lower stratum.... I don't know if that's possible

 

Edit: please post your answer and your age

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Interesting because this question has been on my mind recently. My answer is "most likely not".

Finally! me neither. there's are a lot of important things in a relationship aside of love. and why be conformist and date someone attractive and kind as a homeless when I can date an attractive and kind doctor or lawyer? never be conformist! Not even in love.

 

what are your reasons?

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I will date someone from a lower social stratum than me but to say homeless is a bit..;Unless I hopelessly fall in love with them, I don't see myself specially looking to date someone who is homeless or so poor that even my income will not be enough to support them. Why would I date some one knowing I would be unhappy?. 

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homeless? maybe not, but of a lower social status from mine, yes, like if he have a lower or less important job than mine, i don't see why i shouldn't date him (that's as an example tho, im not old enough to work lmao, im in high school rn)

I want the person im gonna date to be educated and has goals. IDC their social class

one isn't related to the other, not all the "uneducated" people are poor or don't have goals, i personally don't think that wether a person went to school or not is important, one have many sources to read and educate yourself from anyway.

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Tbh, no. *

 

I mean, how the future would be? Love can't pay bills, and money and other stuff are important in a serious relationship. If I'm by myself I can get a job, but if I'm with someone who can not get jobs or do not have the possibility to get one for his educational level o lack of one, it would be very hard. It will be hard to maintain me AND someone else, and don't even think of starting a family... 

 

Love isn't all flowers and unicorns. Love, fidelity, comunication and respect are fundamental in any relationship, but it is not all there is in a long-term relationship, there are other things to consider. Love isthe essential thing, but to maintain a relationship there are multiple factors (love, sex, money, comunication, fidelity, compatibility, commitment, etc.) that have an impact.

 

* but if it were millionaire and money was not a problem, I guess it would be a maybe/yes. Except in the case that he doesn't want to do anything about his life, in that case, its a no. I don't like people who don't anything with their lifes. Even if it is a hobby, do something. People who don't do anything, or people without any kind of ambition or passion in their life are a pet peeve for me.

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i would. my dad is a politician tho, so my family probably wouldn't let me  :rlytearpls:

 

politician is basically a public figure, my grandpa won't let me do anything that can cause an embarrassment towards the family, its sad tbh, bcs i believe every human is same in god's eyes.

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For the most part yes, but maybe not if they're homeless. Well, I think the first thing I'd need to know is why they're homeless... Like if they spent all of their money on drugs then that wouldn't be right. If they lost their home in an unfortunate event and were actually on the path to restoring their life then that would be okay though. I don't think I'd marry them until they were in a better place in their life though, because it wouldn't sense for me to make them have more things to help pay for, like a wedding, and put them deeper in debt.

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