If you like someone, do you make a move or sit back and wait for something to happen?

[tevnn]

Just wondering because my whole life i just observe and have never really gained the courage to do something. I basically rely on false hope 

[Ahjussi Trash]

if he likes me too, i have to make a move asap before it's too late. you know, confess your feeling

[Krystal Meth]

I make sure the person is aware that I like them and I let everyone close to me know so no one goes near her  -_- then make the move.

[darkishreality]

Most of the times the guys whom I have a crush on wouldn't like me back

 

so I'm the 'sit-back-and-wait-for-something-to-happen' type of person

[The Jany]

Try to talk to thatperson

What do you choose:

• to get hurt for a moment (if the person don't love you)?
• to never know if you had a chance with that person and regret to never tried something?

[Dorky]

Make a move~! That what I'll do ~! If she rejects me so be it   I'll take the reject/friendzone with a smile .... waiting for things to happen doesn't actually work for me   Can't read minds  So I'll have to approach them to know

[Nev Schulman]

I never make the first move in case of rejection. I usually just do nothing because the chances that someone likes me back is small, until recently.

[Fire Ice]

I always let them know in the end. Even when I realised I don't like them anymore and I'm moving on, lol. But yeah, I'm the active kind of type. I mean, why would you feel offended if someone says they like you? Shouldn't you feel flattered? I would. If he doesn't like me back, well his loss, lol. 

[Jack Dawson]

 

 

   

[mglsts]

I always make a move.

[Little Red]

I'm not the confessing type of person, so I always wait for something to happen even though I know it never will....

[tevnn]

Hmm reading some of these responses has motivated me to actually confess to the next person i have a crush on 

[Chunface]

make a move

[Dandelion Wine]

Haha I've never made a move on someone I like before, no idea how I would do that

 

(But this time around I'm going to try making some moves because the guy I like is a really good guy.)

[Girls'Generation]

Hmm reading some of these responses has motivated me to actually confess to the next person i have a crush on 

 

confess!! but make sure they like you too though lol or confessing will be kinda silly...cause you know they will say no...

 

anyway but what i usually do is kinda go for it. i don't go full force, i just kinda plant seeds here and there and flirt a little and make them come to me.

[tevnn]

confess!! but make sure they like you too though lol or confessing will be kinda silly...cause you know they will say no...

 

anyway but what i usually do is kinda go for it. i don't go full force, i just kinda plant seeds here and there and flirt a little and make them come to me.

how do you do that  sorry im a bit of a derp 

[winxred12]

Once upon a time I confessed my feelings but it was to my best friend and he looked really upset about it because iwas stupid in the way I did it after that I haven't done it again.

[abra]

how do you do that  sorry im a bit of a derp 

You ask them if they like you and if they say no you say "good because I don't like you either"

 

Or you try to give hints or look for hints, spend time with that person

[♡SEOLO♡]

lol i'm the same

 

 

 

 

hi fellow Seomate 

 

 

[montchery]

Too shy to make a move.. plus my flirting abilities as a total fail.

But if he shows his interest and I'm interested as well.. I try to be friendlier (?)

[TaeYuSu]

if its in real life i sit back and wait for something to happen.. so nothing happens.

if its on internet i make a move.

[SuJuforever15]

I never make a move which is why I always fail and will be forever alone.

 

I'd like to try harder in the future though~~

[Girls'Generation]

how do you do that  sorry im a bit of a derp 

 

asking is the #1 sure way lol but what i do sometimes is

1. ask your friends to ask their friends

2. just go with the natural vibe...what you personally think. i can tell when a guy likes me and when something isn't gonna go anywhere

[Ulmicola]

If I know that person well, I usually make a move. Otherwise, I don't. XD

[theonlyexception]

i believe that the one who likes first, despite their gender, must do the first move