jungah 83 Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 We have been together since 2012. I always trusted him but i think he is cheating on me since last week . He was the one who gets mad when i spend too much time with my phone but he is always in his phone now. He was even in his phone when we had dinner at the restaurant with my family 4 days ago. Even my brother asked me why he is doing like that. I asked him why he is always in his phone and he said - Nothing important, i am just talking with my friends. I didn't believe that answer tbh. My head hurts I love him I really do If he is cheating on me I don't think i can be happy without him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deea 6,754 Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 lol he is 100% cheating on you,i know that cause my dad does the same to my mom and i know his fb password. Good luck to you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimchi-nyoen 11,038 Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 I don't think he's cheating on you.. Maybe he's just addicted to his phone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
�ю�ша - Hyunrena 256 Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 How old are you and how old is he? Age usually matters a lot when discussing relationship issues. Is it just the phone or are there other things he does that seem suspicious? For example, is he becoming less affectionate and more distant from you? Is he now a whole lot nicer to you than before - most people become more nicer to their significant others when they're cheating on them to 'make up' for it and/or to cover it. Is he always 'busy'? Things like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SONYEO 2,397 Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 Life sucks. Life must go on. Fuck that guy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daredevil 340 Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 At least you're in a relationship. I've been a virgin boy for 21 years Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sehunk 2,641 Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 Steal his phone. I don't care what anybody says. Steal your man's phone for like 5 minutes, check if he's cheating, put it back, and just confess your sins this Sunday to the Lord. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bitchcraft 1,377 Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 Guys who do that especially on such important settings, are always cheating. Confront him, or since this situation calls for it and it's not like you're a psycho, get his phone and check his last messages to see. If he's indeed cheating, just leave him. Cheaters and liars are the worst. If he's not, tell him you took his phone and checked it 'cause you thought something was up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shutupihateyou 21,439 Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 give it more time. it's only been a week anyway. activate your spying skills hun Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashelin 2,418 Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 We have been together since 2012. I always trusted him but i think he is cheating on me since last week . He was the one who gets mad when i spend too much time with my phone but he is always in his phone now. He was even in his phone when we had dinner at the restaurant with my family 4 days ago. Even my brother asked me why he is doing like that. I asked him why he is always in his phone and he said - Nothing important, i am just talking with my friends. I didn't believe that answer tbh. My head hurts I love him I really do If he is cheating on me I don't think i can be happy without him That feeling wouldn't last forever, trust me. You'd move on with your life, find somebody new, and after a while you wont care anymore. You'd be plenty happy without him if he really is cheating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jungah 83 Posted August 20, 2015 Author Share Posted August 20, 2015 lol he is 100% cheating on you,i know that cause my dad does the same to my mom and i know his fb password. Good luck to you hearing that hurts but thank you I don't think he's cheating on you.. Maybe he's just addicted to his phone but he was not in his phone this much before. He is always in his phone now How old are you and how old is he? Age usually matters a lot when discussing relationship issues. Is it just the phone or are there other things he does that seem suspicious? For example, is he becoming less affectionate and more distant from you? Is he now a whole lot nicer to you than before - most people become more nicer to their significant others when they're cheating on them to 'make up' for it and/or to cover it. Is he always 'busy'? Things like that. I am 20 and he is 21. I feel like he is more distant lately and yeah he is always 'busy'. He said he is busy when i wanted go to cinema 3 days ago Steal his phone. I don't care what anybody says. Steal your man's phone for like 5 minutes, check if he's cheating, put it back, and just confess your sins this Sunday to the Lord. Guys who do that are always cheating. Confront him, or since this situation calls for it and it's not like you're a psycho, get his phone and check his last messages to see. If he's indeed cheating, just leave him. Cheaters and liars are the worst. I am thinking about doing that tbh but i don't know how to do that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Timid Minhyuk 1,227 Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 Maybe hes uses oh to watch you. But it seems like ur bf is rlly cheating on you since That sign are on of the signs that your bf is cheating on u Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bob_brown 2,139 Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 Just being honest, but since you guys have been in a relationship as you said since 2012, then talk to him and tell him how you feel If you leave it at suspicion, nothing's gonna be solved instead things are gonna get messy from the point onwards Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jungah 83 Posted August 20, 2015 Author Share Posted August 20, 2015 give it more time. it's only been a week anyway. activate your spying skills hun I have no spying skills That feeling wouldn't last forever, trust me. You'd move on with your life, find somebody new, and after a while you wont care anymore. You'd be plenty happy without him if he really is cheating. even thinking about it hurts but thank you I don't think he's cheating. Maybe he just dislikes you or is mad at you. If I'm around someone that I dislike I'll just look through my phone instead. but we have been together 3 years i don't think he dislikes me .. at least i hope he doesn't Maybe hes uses oh to watch you. But it seems like ur bf is rlly cheating on you since That sign are on of the signs that your bf is cheating on u I wish that but i don't think he knows i have account on kpop forum Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krystalized 1,843 Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 Try to watch his phone... Idk how to deal with password tho. But u should confront him with evidence... It may hurt but in the long time, is for the best, plus you're young! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jungah 83 Posted August 20, 2015 Author Share Posted August 20, 2015 Just being honest, but since you guys have been in a relationship as you said since 2012, then talk to him and tell him how you feel If you leave it at suspicion, nothing's gonna be solved instead things are gonna get messy from the point onwards I thought about talking to him but it would hurt him that i didn't trust him. But you are right, i need to talk or things are gonna get messy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NineBraveMuses 3,326 Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 If you are in your earlier 20's, I wouldn't take things too seriously. I'm 29, I remember I was with my first girlfriend at 21. We were together for 3 years, shit happened, on both sides. We broke up, I was pissed for like 4-5 months. But when I think about it, I was young, it was just a fun college relationship, we both ended up having...other interest. The relationship was never meant to last. If you end up breaking up, don't worry, it'll hurt, but you'll move on to bigger and better things and find another partner. You have to remember, things get more serious as you get older. In high school and college, boys usually are looking to play around, they try to tap everything they see. But once they get older they know when it's time to buckle down, usually. I'm definitely a lot more humble now, when I was 21 it was fun and games. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lassy 124 Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 I think you should confront him about the subject. I think anyone would understand how you feel because of the way he behaves since it is too different from his normal behavior. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jungah 83 Posted August 20, 2015 Author Share Posted August 20, 2015 Try to watch his phone... Idk how to deal with password tho. But u should confront him with evidence... It may hurt but in the long time, is for the best, plus you're young! He doesn't have a password but i don't know how to check his phone. but i will try it too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedCarpet 1,143 Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 That's definitely one of 100 cheatings signs. Start checking out other guys/girls, dear. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krystalized 1,843 Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 He doesn't have a password but i don't know how to check his phone. but i will try it tooIdk I would just wait him to fall sleep... Like drunk or tired :S Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
campfire 5,083 Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 Omg what kind of advice are you fucking dumbasses giving....Jesus. Don't listen to these people. That doesn't DEFINITELY mean he's cheating on you, wtf? Ask him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jungah 83 Posted August 20, 2015 Author Share Posted August 20, 2015 If you are in your earlier 20's, I wouldn't take things too seriously. I'm 29, I remember I was with my first girlfriend at 21. We were together for 3 years, shit happened, on both sides. We broke up, I was pissed for like 4-5 months. But when I think about it, I was young, it was just a fun college relationship, we both ended up having...other interest. The relationship was never meant to last. If you end up breaking up, don't worry, it'll hurt, but you'll move on to bigger and better things and find another partner. You have to remember, things get more serious as you get older. In high school and college, boys usually are looking to play around, they try to tap everything they see. But once they get older they know when it's time to buckle down, usually. I'm definitely a lot more humble now, when I was 21 it was fun and games. He is 21 too and we have been together for 3 years too.. Just like your ex relationship Thank you very much for your comment That's definitely one of 100 cheatings signs. Start checking out other guys/girls, dear. i can't think about doing that right now lol I think you should confront him about the subject. I think anyone would understand how you feel because of the way he behaves since it is too different from his normal behavior. Just talk to him about it then and ask him why he's always using his phone.... It's not even that hard I will do that at least i will to try do that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jungah 83 Posted August 20, 2015 Author Share Posted August 20, 2015 Omg what kind of advice are you fucking dumbasses giving....Jesus. Don't listen to these people. That doesn't DEFINITELY mean he's cheating on you, wtf? Ask him. I will talk to him. Idk I would just wait him to fall sleep... Like drunk or tired :S I really don't think i can do that. I will just talk to him. Thank you for your advice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OppawithaVengeance 3,454 Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 Steal his phone. I don't care what anybody says. Steal your man's phone for like 5 minutes, check if he's cheating, put it back, and just confess your sins this Sunday to the Lord. do this i would and people who have its easy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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