♥SNS-Shinomiya♥ 420 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 So about a year ago, I had a friend and they were really nice and I like being around them. He were a bit reserved so I had to be the one to initiate the friendship, but afterwards I started hanging out with him at school. Maybe I hung around him to much (we never dated) so he told me I couldn't hang out with him so much. After we had a date, he told me that he had a gf and that we couldn't talk or hand out like we used to, but he told me we could still be friends. The problem. We haven't talked in a year, he won't text or answer my calls...normally being who I am I let people know when I am hurt or don't understand situation. I am the type that will get in contact just to tell you that you hurt my feelings...but I am not sure if I should or can. I don't know if he changed his number (which would be embarrassing). I think I would rather he tell me to not care, call, or be friends with then to not know...so what should I do. Should I call until he picks up then tell him how hurt I have been or just feel so unsatisfied and regretful he never knew how much it hurts to care and be friends with someone who does not reciprocate it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deâ„“phina 14,904 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 And show up at his door. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CareBear08 7,527 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 Why would you wait on someone who clearly wants nothing to do with you? Move on and leave him behind. Delete his number and enjoy the people who do want to be around you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bakingapie 138 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 uh uh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♥SNS-Shinomiya♥ 420 Posted August 13, 2015 Author Share Posted August 13, 2015 Why would you wait on someone who clearly wants nothing to do with you? Move on and leave him behind. I like things plain and simple, if you don't like me tell me....I naturally put up with people I care and if a relationship ends there is always a conversation on why so that I avoided looking back Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shugwi 12,550 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 Why would you wait on someone who clearly wants nothing to do with you? Move on and leave him behind. Delete his number and enjoy the people who do want to be around you. basically Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CareBear08 7,527 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 I like things plain and simple, if you don't like me tell me....I naturally put up with people I care and if a relationship ends there is always a conversation on why so that I avoided looking back You're wasting your time by waiting on him. Sometimes you can care about people who don't care about you. Why hold on if it looks like nothing is there? If you don't want to give up on him then call him and see what's up so you know where you stand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♥SNS-Shinomiya♥ 420 Posted August 13, 2015 Author Share Posted August 13, 2015 You're wasting your time by waiting on him. Sometimes you can care about people who don't care about you. Why hold on if it looks like nothing is there? If you don't want to give up on him then call him and see what's up so you know where you stand. that is where I am at Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lynnie 1,207 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 This is going to sound harsh but don't go after him. I'm assuming you were getting too close for his comfort? That and also he didn't know how to put it nicely. It does sound like he's ignoring you on purpose and why chase after him like that? I think you should move on and learn to let go. It'll be hard but he's not worth it. But if you really insist on finding out why, see him face to face. Best wishes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CareBear08 7,527 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 that is where I am at the quicker you do it, the better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♥SNS-Shinomiya♥ 420 Posted August 13, 2015 Author Share Posted August 13, 2015 This is going to sound harsh but don't go after him. I'm assuming you were getting too close for his comfort? That and also he didn't know how to put it nicely. It does sound like he's ignoring you on purpose and why chase after him like that? I think you should move on and learn to let go. It'll be hard but he's not worth it. But if you really insist on finding out why, see him face to face. Best wishes. the quicker you do it, the better. I am at the point that I don't even know if the number I have for him is still his number, and we have no mutual friends Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CareBear08 7,527 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 I am at the point that I don't even know if the number I have for him is still his number, and we have no mutual friends all you can do is call and if it's the wrong number then say sorry my bad and hang up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lynnie 1,207 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 I am at the point that I don't even know if the number I have for him is still his number, and we have no mutual friends Well try that number. If it doesn't work, oh well. If there's nothing else you can contact him with, then you lost him. Sorry but hope it works out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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