Supremacy 181 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 I finished my relationship. What to do to forget her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Lipstick 510 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 The best way to deal with it is just to succumb to your stalking habits and soon enough you'll start getting bored of them and you won't even realise that you're over them because for a change life seems good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Just Choco 1,199 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 There's always porn and hot girls to look at. You can forget about her through that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Shadow 727 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 rebound sex Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
초췌 270 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 those are really shiny legs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScarletWhimsy 2,203 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 Don't tell yourself NOT to think about her. If you just broke up, allow your emotions to flow. The only thing that will gradually fade memories is time, so be patient. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
palechibi 2,748 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 remove things that remind you of said ex and you can slowly start from there Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CherryGoyangi 788 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 There's always porn and hot girls to look at. You can forget about her through that I'd sleep around with as many girls as possible and eventually I'll forget. That's the trashy asshole way of forgetting Find a new interest, go places, meet new friends (buy a reeaaaaaaaally long game to get addicted to, works everytime) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fatality 312 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 delete all her pics and the videos of you two in bed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supremacy 181 Posted August 13, 2015 Author Share Posted August 13, 2015 The best way to deal with it is just to succumb to your stalking habits and soon enough you'll start getting bored of them and you won't even realise that you're over them because for a change life seems good. There's always porn and hot girls to look at. You can forget about her through that I'd sleep around with as many girls as possible and eventually I'll forget. rebound sex those are really shiny legs Don't tell yourself NOT to think about her. If you just broke up, allow your emotions to flow. The only thing that will gradually fade memories is time, so be patient. Thanks!!! She is sendig messages because she still loves me but I'm angry with her and I don't want to see or talk to her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnonSone 30,138 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 There's always porn and hot girls to look at. You can forget about her through that Unfortunately it is not a best solution. I know because I have did it before. On topic, try to make your life busy. If you are a game-man, try to play as much game as you can. If you are a sport-man, try to involve in more sport as much as you can. In short, try to make yourself occupy with something. And yes, please decrease the amount of stalking her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supremacy 181 Posted August 13, 2015 Author Share Posted August 13, 2015 Unfortunately it is not a best solution. I know because I have did it before. On topic, try to make your life busy. If you are a game-man, try to play as much game as you can. If you are a sport-man, try to involve in more sport as much as you can. In short, try to make yourself occupy with something. And yes, please decrease the amount of stalking her. She send message yesterday but I didn't read and I don't want to talk to her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mgl 5,919 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 Find a new hobby, hit the gym/do some sports, go out with friends/family, pick up some books and read, binge on some TV shows/movies, etc... Basically do stuff that keep you busy, especially your mind. Avoid thinking about your ex, and when you do, focus on the reasons why it ended and why ending it might have been for the best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HANBIN 3,918 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 I spent the week after I broke up with my ex stalking his twitter and instagram.. And then I unfollowed him...out of sight, out of mind. I also tried to focus on his flaws and shit that he did that pissed me off because then I was happy that I wouldn't have to put up with his annoying habits anymore. ^.^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MidnightEXO 12,909 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 This may sound super basic but find a hobby. Something that you're interested and consumes your time. If school is starting for you thats even better on top of a hobby. Clean out your phone and any memory you have and throw it away or box it up and put away till you forget about it... So think of working out or even dancing... work on school and focus on a happiness you can see. Break up suck. They honestly do, but when you regain you mind and focus on something that makes you happy you sort of recalibrate yourself and you forget.. Memories will always be there if you loved them but the main focus is you and you will feel so much better I promise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MidnightEXO 12,909 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 I spent the week after I broke up with my ex stalking his twitter and instagram.. And then I unfollowed him...out of sight, out of mind. I also tried to focus on his flaws and shit that he did that pissed me off because then I was happy that I wouldn't have to put up with his annoying habits anymore. ^.^ That is key. Out of sight, out of mind Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mayxalka 444 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 remove any trace of her. off your phone, social media, etc. throw away any cards, letters, etc. if you have items like clothing that she gave you or things of value (like, ACTUAL $$$), put it in a box and come back to it later once you've lost romantic feelz for her. unless you don't mind wasting money... then i guess just go ahead and trash it/give it away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinnfb 10,968 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 Don't stalk social media accounts (and if you feel tempted, take a break from your own SNS accounts), distract yourself by doing things you enjoy (watch movies, series, read books etc) and hang out with your friends. Most importantly, take your own time to meet new people and be careful with wild night outs because it's possible they will only make you even more sad and remind you of your ex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnonSone 30,138 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 She send message yesterday but I didn't read and I don't want to talk to her How many time you have broke up with her before? Is this on-off relationship? If yes, it might be hard to forget her then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SOVEREIGN 539 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 She send message yesterday but I didn't read and I don't want to talk to her Block her. It's best that you don't have any contact with each other so she can't drag you back into a relationship and it makes it easier to not think about her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supremacy 181 Posted August 13, 2015 Author Share Posted August 13, 2015 How many time you have broke up with her before? Is this on-off relationship? If yes, it might be hard to forget her then. 8 times. I live alone and she has the keys of my apartment. I'm in my parents house for a moment Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScarletWhimsy 2,203 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 Thanks!!! She is sendig messages because she still loves me but I'm angry with her and I don't want to see or talk to her. Maybe be direct and tell her to please leave you in peace. Look up the no-contact method of dealing with break-up. It really helped me heal a lot faster than if I didn't use it Hope you feel better soon. Eat well, and get some sleep. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supremacy 181 Posted August 13, 2015 Author Share Posted August 13, 2015 Maybe be direct and tell her to please leave you in peace. Look up the no-contact method of dealing with break-up. It really helped me heal a lot faster than if I didn't use it Hope you feel better soon. Eat well, and get some sleep. I didn't send any message to her. I hope I can find a girlfriend soon, so she can stop to send messages Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Why Gee? 2,238 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 those are really shiny legs its cause they performed in the rain for this one Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MermaidPrincess 4,039 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 psychologists recommend to date someone else ASAP to start replacing memories Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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