KinkySanta 1,073 Posted August 10, 2015 Share Posted August 10, 2015 So I broke up with my guy in June after a year and a half together because I didn't see how it could work out with him now that he has joined the military and will be potentially stationed in weird places. I rebounded pretty quickly (like a week after we split quickly). This new guy is pretty awesome he's fun and the sex is spectacular, but he's always been kinda bringing up being official. I've been kinda putting things off for a bit because I feel like I don't like him like that. I've been keeping in contact with my ex, but recently he's been trying to get back together. I told him I wasn't too sure about that because I'm dating someone else now. I really do want to get back together even though my time with him would be limited due to the military. The new guy wants to talk about being official again tomorrow and very soon we're about to go on a more pricey all day date. I'm not too sure what to do. Part of me wants to become official to help get over my ex, plus new guy is fun to be around. The other part of me doesn't want to lead this guy on because he clearly likes me a lot more than I like him and I still like my ex a lot who is trying to get back with me. Would it be a bad idea to make it official with new dude? Should I get back with my ex? What are some good ways to put off making things official? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HRH Ayyu 4,199 Posted August 10, 2015 Share Posted August 10, 2015 dont become offfical if you dont want to. be honest. if you become official when u dont want to it might bring about problems later. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapmon's Ahjussi Husband 2,299 Posted August 10, 2015 Share Posted August 10, 2015 You are an awfull person, you should buy a cat sis ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joji. 5,062 Posted August 10, 2015 Share Posted August 10, 2015 If you REALLY don't feel the same way about the new dude, then break it off. Nothing worse than forcing something that's not there. But then again, I'm not really sure you should reconcile with the old dude. What's the point if he's just gonna leave again soon? But you might as well have some fun while he's still around.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oye123 1,615 Posted August 10, 2015 Share Posted August 10, 2015 dont beat around the bushes with the guy who is trying to make it official tell him directly how you feel and getting back with your ex depends on how you feel after the above thing goes good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pessego 2,194 Posted August 10, 2015 Share Posted August 10, 2015 It depends who do u like more ur ex or the new dude ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted August 11, 2015 Share Posted August 11, 2015 Get a chastity belt Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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