____shawnee 4,118 Posted August 10, 2015 Share Posted August 10, 2015 "Friends" as in friends that are of the sex that they are attracted to. Not just a random friend from class/work though, like a good long-time friend. For instance, a straight female in a relationship hanging out with another male friend. My best friend's new boyfriend (emphasis on "new") feels some type of way about her hanging out with me, and I definitely get that it's weird but like... we've been close since 4th grade. So at the same time I'm thinking "who iz u?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ANTI 7,017 Posted August 10, 2015 Share Posted August 10, 2015 yeah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haus of Tzu:Lai 5,450 Posted August 10, 2015 Share Posted August 10, 2015 I have more guy friends than girl friends, so yes, this has always caused a bit of an issue with my past exes. My current one however doesn't mind as much, though he is still inquisitive and prefers to join us, when me and my male friend(s) hang out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sasuke_uchiha 65 Posted August 10, 2015 Share Posted August 10, 2015 I personally find it creepy when someone feels butthurt for hanging out with your friends Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
obscurities 463 Posted August 10, 2015 Share Posted August 10, 2015 Yeah. I mean it's not like just because we're dating it means they have to have 0 friends of their own. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted August 10, 2015 Share Posted August 10, 2015 Yes lol. I have a shit load of guy friends plus I'm bi so it doesn't matter lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
90liner 1,904 Posted August 10, 2015 Share Posted August 10, 2015 I think it ridiculous to put parameters on people's friendships. Plus I'm bisexual so if I have a boyfriend or girlfriend do I just have to immediately stop talking to everyone I know since I could potentially be attracted to them? If you can't trust your bf or gf to have friends you probably shouldn't be together. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted August 10, 2015 Share Posted August 10, 2015 I don't go out with insecure people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dandelion Wine 1,540 Posted August 11, 2015 Share Posted August 11, 2015 If you're worried about your partner hanging out with friends of the sex you're attracted to, you either don't trust your partner or you're insecure, and definitely not emotionally ready to date. That kind of thinking is childish (That said sometimes jealousy can still happen if it feels like this friend is spending more time with or paying more attention to their friends than with you, which is a normal feeling. But to ban them from having friends like that at all is way too controlling) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gyujin 1,545 Posted August 15, 2015 Share Posted August 15, 2015 Yes. How are you going to have a relationship without trust? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mouse 530 Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 Yes Omg Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sylar 521 Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 its not weird you shouldn't feel guilty ever i get the guy , that it makes him uncomfortable somehow on some level, because you two are close but he should trust his girlfriend and just ask her questions if he is insecure about stuff he shouldn't like, demand from her she cant hangout with you anymore and stuff Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hanabi dream 395 Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geurimja 60 Posted August 23, 2015 Share Posted August 23, 2015 yeah bc i would trust them to not do anything that would make me kick them to curb so quick they go blind Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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