Summer_Equinox 361 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 Always wondered this, i've watched à few youtubers reveal they are gay/lesbian and their expérience of coming out to their friends and parents. I've never experienced this, because i think i am straight, but not 100% sure, though it would probably be nerve wrecking to come out. How was you expérience? if you want to share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YNRA 1,082 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 no, i dont think so lol. my mom would be really irritated but my dad wouldnt care Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
í—�! 8,234 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 Yes. My parents believes that you're mentally ill if you're homosexual. I have tried coming out to them before, but they either ignored it completely or tried to convince them and me otherwise. So I've stopped trying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
milkybar 869 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 i asked my mother what she'd do if i was lesbian cuz i was curious and she said "I'll still love you, but your dad will most likely kick you out of the house and disown you" so yeah.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hot toe picker 2,061 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 I'm bisexual. Yes it would be hard. I'm never coming out to my parents, even if my parents are on their death bed or I'm on mine before them. My dad's super homophobic and would more than likely put me through that gay therapy shit. My mother's not homophobic but she can't keep secrets; she always feels the need to share everything with my dad and her friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hypertonic 1,961 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 Always wondered this, i've watched à few youtubers reveal they are gay/lesbian and their expérience of coming out to their friends and parents. I've never experienced this, because i think i am straight, but not 100% sure, though it would probably be nerve wrecking to come out. How was you expérience? if you want to share I haven't came out yet, but I think my parents know already. Especially my mom . The only person I'll have trouble coming out to is my Dad though, he gives dat cash each week cause I do such a good job at school . He probably wouldn't like me being gay, but the only types of gays he despises are the ones who are really flamboyant and feminine. (I'm kind of like that but w/e.) I'll come out to my family senior year of HS or when I get a boyfriend IDK. I still need to plan this out . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
monochrome. 480 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 I never told them. I know they'll be EXTREMELY disappointed :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*lesigh* 6,759 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 No. At least my mom wouldn't care. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueVapor 1,515 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 Well in an interesting twist, my sister already came out to them, so I feel like if I ever came out as well, they'd be even more disappointed that both of their kids were gay :/ It's a weird situation, so I'm probably never gonna tell them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Summer_Equinox 361 Posted August 9, 2015 Author Share Posted August 9, 2015 i asked my mother what she'd do if i was lesbian cuz i was curious and she said "I'll still love you, but your dad will most likely kick you out of the house and disown you" so yeah.. So Sorry to hear ;'( its always thé hardest to hear that (though i wont know or probably never know how you must have felt) Hopefully when you're ready and think its time to be honest and move out (when older)?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deâ„“phina 14,904 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 I'm not homosexual but it would be pretty much impossible. If I happened to date openly another woman, blood will be spilled. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reckoner 6,692 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 yes and i am glad i don't have to go through that i thought my dad was accepting until he said that sam smith didn't really need to kind of tell people that he was gay at the grammys and my mom has always been incredibly homophobic but of course she denies that she is every time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nancy mcflurry 2,385 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 No. At least my mom wouldn't care. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
milkybar 869 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 So Sorry to hear ;'( its always thé hardest to hear that (though i wont know or probably never know how you must have felt) Hopefully when you're ready and think its time to be honest and move out (when older)?? i'm not lesbian ^^' i was just curious to see if my mum would be okay with it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sakurahanabira 6,634 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 My family is LGBT-phobic, so yes. Hell, they're still in the dark about me being asexual (and I'm still questioning my romantic orientation) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taehyungasf 495 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 I'm bisexual and I came out to my family. My parents didn't care. And my sister was kind of happy. I guess I'm lucky? I will never come out to my other relatives tho cuz I know they will judge me super hard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moonsus 2,143 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 It wasn't for me, thankfully, I came out to them two years ago and they are completely fine with it, they even are friends with some of the people I dated Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
borahoney 10 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 Yes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Enlightened One 83 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 They wouldn't really give a shit they'd just kinda be like "k" and most likely forget about it LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A Boy Like Troy 3,333 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 Hell yes. Planning on telling them on my birthday this year. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starlight 1,108 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 My mom was talking to one of her friends on the phone once and pretty much said that if one of her kids was dating someone of the same gender then she'd disown them, so... I don't think I'll be telling either of my parents that I'm bi unless I meet a girl I love who loves me in return and it becomes necessary. The rest of my relatives are no better for the most part, although I think my brother wouldn't be bothered for some reason. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soleria 166 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 Um... I'm still trying to figure out if I'm asexual or not, sexuality as a whole can be very confusing or difficult for some people. And I'm very shy and private so even when I figure myself out, I don't know if I would ever formally come out to my mom.My sister is openly bisexual and the only thing awkward is that we dont really talk about sex in my family, but my mom is still very accepting. Occasionally my mom says something that sounds a bit biphobic, but I honestly think it's because she doesn't really know she is. So since she doesn't really understand when she says something biphobic, I don't think she'd understand asexuality. And I can't tell how accepting my sister is because every time we talk about dating, or the word asexual is even mentioned, she always mentions how weird it is. The only real worries I've ever had was a friend that said bisexual people are just greedy and need to choose. That was pretty awkward and scary to know someone close to me could think like that when I'm trying to figure out who I am. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Souloist 3,634 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 YES. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamyoursenpie 0 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 I'm bi, I love watching lesbian videos, they made me wet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thot 1,829 Posted August 9, 2015 Share Posted August 9, 2015 No Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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