Summer_Equinox 361 Posted July 30, 2015 Share Posted July 30, 2015 Have you ever been stalked? I have been stalked this month in summer school, it might sound like I'm overreacting but the thought of it's just so scary and you feel paranooid There was a guy who i met for the first time, somehow he found me on fb and he added me...it was weird because we had no mutual friends. Since i am not good at reading people,I thought hé wanted to be friends but rumours got around about how he was à creep and my friends told me to stop talking to him, maybe they knew something.i saw him stare from thé corner or his eyes and pass by 4 times, when i'm alone ...them hé triés to slow down and triés to walk alongside me and all thé boys in my class sneer everytime hé would talk to me My mom kept saying he wanted to be friends but everyone says otherwise...i am scared because hé knows my address, what should i do to avoid this uncomfortable feeling? How have you dealt with thèse kinds of situations? Has this happened to you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MidnightEXO 12,909 Posted July 30, 2015 Share Posted July 30, 2015 Yup. There was this kid at my school who really liked me, he stalked me a lot and even brought me things for Valentines day and came to my house. I was so scared but I'm very very nice to people and I think he took my niceness as if I liked him. He use to follow me a lot and bothered me. Eventually I just stopped talking to him but then he'd leave me letters... very creepy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Renos 2,479 Posted July 30, 2015 Share Posted July 30, 2015 i was having a walk in the street alone in the night and this creepy dude came out of nowhere and told :"get in the car" i freaked out and started walking fast as much as i can and it was so fucking hard and painful because i was wearing uncomfortable heels , he kept chasing me with his car until i made him lose my track and hid in a store , and when i was sure he's gone i ran home as fast as i can.... it was creepy as fuck i'm never going out alone in the night again Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
93605 1,232 Posted July 30, 2015 Share Posted July 30, 2015 I've known people who've been obsessed with me. like asking my friends for information about me (like my phone number, what I'm like, what my interests are, what suburb I live in etc), stalking my social media accounts, talking to others about me like we're friends and just generally being really creepy and weird but I've never been followed and it's never gotten serious. If I were in your situation I'd try and ignore them as much as I could but if I escalated I'd tell a teacher or principal at my school Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Summer_Equinox 361 Posted July 30, 2015 Author Share Posted July 30, 2015 Yup. There was this kid at my school who really liked me, he stalked me a lot and even brought me things for Valentines day and came to my house. I was so scared but I'm very very nice to people and I think he took my niceness as if I liked him. He use to follow me a lot and bothered me. Eventually I just stopped talking to him but then he'd leave me letters... very creepy. Yeah, people keep saying its better to not be nice to people like him, because then they take advantage of your kindness Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JayMaking Me Crazy 2,064 Posted July 30, 2015 Share Posted July 30, 2015 carry pepper spray Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delphine 20,871 Posted July 30, 2015 Share Posted July 30, 2015 Pretty sure I've been casually stalked (Who's that girl?) and regularly stalked (What she's up to these days?) but I dont think I've been obsessively stalked. I usually shut it down hard and fast. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MidnightEXO 12,909 Posted July 30, 2015 Share Posted July 30, 2015 Yeah, people keep saying its better to not be nice to people like him, because then they take advantage of your kindness Yeah. It's hard for me not to be nice, but after that incident I was told to not be that nice to people. He was a very unpopular kid. Was picked on and I felt bad for him. He wasn't the cleanest kid and he was very EMO. So I felt for him. He was also younger then me by a few years. I was so creeped out when he showed up at my house at 8pm with a bunch of valentines day gifts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HANBIN 3,918 Posted July 30, 2015 Share Posted July 30, 2015 Mino harasses me every single fucking day. Does that count? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arsene Lupin 3,500 Posted July 30, 2015 Share Posted July 30, 2015 Mino harasses me every single fucking day but my hubby arsene does it even more awww im flattered Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HANBIN 3,918 Posted July 30, 2015 Share Posted July 30, 2015 awww im flattered hush, hubs....I'm talking about Mr. Song now. no sweat though...you're always in the back of my mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Stupid Jellyfish 1,913 Posted July 31, 2015 Share Posted July 31, 2015 No. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peonie 1,248 Posted July 31, 2015 Share Posted July 31, 2015 I know a girl who knew the schedule of the guys she has crush on by heart Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dazzlingpaw 819 Posted July 31, 2015 Share Posted July 31, 2015 I don't think I've ever been stalked by someone, but harrassed yes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taro 383 Posted July 31, 2015 Share Posted July 31, 2015 Yes in high school Someone got my number and kept sending me dick pics and they used to call me at night and I answered one time ( it was someone breathing ) They kept using fake numbers so I found the app they were using and I reported them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
virus.exe 1,014 Posted July 31, 2015 Share Posted July 31, 2015 I had a guy stalk me for two years. He thought eveything I did was somehow a signal to him that I liked him...everything. Simply smiling or just walking in his direction had him convinced that I was so in laaaav with him. It was seriously such an annoying experience. If I ignored him, he simply escalated his behavior. He would text me/call me (no idea how he got my # btw) thousands of times and would wait outside my house. He was just so delulu and crazy to an extreme level. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Summer_Equinox 361 Posted July 31, 2015 Author Share Posted July 31, 2015 I had a guy stalk me for two years. He thought eveything I did was somehow a signal to him that I liked him...everything. Simply smiling or just walking in his direction had him convinced that I was so in laaaav with him. It was seriously such an annoying experience. If I ignored him, he simply escalated his behavior. He would text me/call me (no idea how he got my # btw) thousands of times and would wait outside my house. He was just so delulu and crazy to an extreme level. I feel sorry for you, some guys can't understand, no matter what! Have you atleast tried to tell him directly, some people are pretty dense Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mouse 530 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 Nope~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveusaitama 318 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 yes,,by a group of people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nowhere Boy 2,431 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 No Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vnvn 47 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 no Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yukihime 1,072 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 I wouldn't go as far as say it was stalking but there was a guy who made me uncomfortable. One day I was in my favourite bookstore where I go few times a week, he started hitting on me, I rejected him but because I'm too nice I guess he took it as him having a chance, he refused to give up and told me he wanted to go on a date (wtf I don't even know you ?) anyway he kept on following me in the whole store insisting on me giving him my number, I refused few times but I really love that bookstore and since I have anxiety I lost all my fighting power and I didn't want to cause a scene in front of the regulars or cause trouble to the workers because I knew I wouldn't be able to face them again. So I gave him my number thinking that it would be easier to f*cking tell him to f*ck off on the phone. But he texted me more than 10times a day, and when I wrote a REALLY long text telling him "give it up, there is no hope, you have no idea how much I regret giving you my number...." he told me "oh ok I'm sorry -_-" but ......... the next day he texted me like nothing happened "good morning princess ??" /yikes/ I managed to go to the bookstore again and ........... he was there waiting for me because "he felt I would come" but I snapped and made him delete my number. It finally ended and I felt free. The only problem is that every time I go to the bookstore I'm scared of meeting him again, but I refuse to lose the place I used to feel safe in for a guy like him, I felt like it would mean I lost Well I haven't seen him since february so I guess it's over Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nev Schulman 7,948 Posted August 29, 2015 Share Posted August 29, 2015 Yes a few years back I got strange calls from someone like everyday for a week... the person knew me but never revealed his identity... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbangjyjbapshineelove 356 Posted August 29, 2015 Share Posted August 29, 2015 yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaleidostar 2,539 Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 Yes. Someone kept on sending me messages and at first I just ignored it since his messages are harmless. But it got creepy when he asked me if I'm already feeling well after being absent in uni. He even said the reason why I was absent that day (my friends were the only ones who's supposed to know that!). And when I'm about to leave the university, he'd always text me to take care of myself... Turned out that the one who's sending those messages was my friend's boyfriend and she says everything about me to him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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