maidoan97 743 Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 I don't know if I'm paranoid or not, but I always feel that people are staring at me when I walk outside or when I'm on the train. Whether they only glance at me or they are really staring at me, I really really hate being stared at because it makes me feel that they are judging me. I tried wearing a cap but i guess that didn't really work cuz I still feel people's eyes on me. What should I do??? Sometimes I envy Muslim (I mixed up, sorry guys!!) women xD Seriously though, why can't people mind their own business?? I thought it's well-known that "staring is impolite"? I don't give a fuck about other people (you know what I mean) so can't they do the same for me?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Night 10,627 Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gamguu 374 Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 you're not paranoid because you probably do get stared at a lot maybe everyone who stares at you is judging you too, but knowing people, they're usually thinking something for a few seconds or not judging you at all there's no way to make them stop staring Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cornangel 5,295 Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 same sunglasses really help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mini_ 276 Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 I think you're just a bit paranoid, people always stare at people, you can't stop it lol Maybe if you think people are staring at you, you should try to think at something else and ignore them idk what else you can do ^^" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shutupihateyou 21,439 Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 stare at them too. somehow they'll get intimidated and look away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zenny 2,917 Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 I always think people are staring at me because I'm fat, and I live in Japan where almost everyone is thin. It makes me annoyed. I want to know the answer to this. lol. I used to wear a face mask but it's too hot to wear one now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SamuhaMe 5,391 Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 Thats Happens to me a alot & im an arab LOL , but if you stare at them , they will look away LOL You must be sooo Beautiful lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
�ю�ша - Hyunrena 256 Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 Based on your location set as Tokyo, I'm not surprised. It is normal to stare without hiding it in many Asian countries. Especially if you're not Asian. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maidoan97 743 Posted July 29, 2015 Author Share Posted July 29, 2015 I always think people are staring at me because I'm fat, and I live in Japan where almost everyone is thin. It makes me annoyed. I want to know the answer to this. lol. I used to wear a face mask but it's too hot to wear one now Lmao I have the exact same problem Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maidoan97 743 Posted July 29, 2015 Author Share Posted July 29, 2015 Based on your location set as Tokyo, I'm not surprised. It is normal to stare without hiding it in many Asian countries. Especially if you're not Asian. I'm Vietnamese (Asian) but some Japanese people say I look like Japanese haha Do Japanese people like staring that much? xD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zenny 2,917 Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 Lmao I have the exact same problem lmao I didn't look at your location xD I live near Tokyo I've had people talk about me but it might be because I wear short shorts and NO ONE wears them here. But it's too fking hot! How do these people survive! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maidoan97 743 Posted July 29, 2015 Author Share Posted July 29, 2015 lmao I didn't look at your location xD I live near Tokyo I've had people talk about me but it might be because I wear short shorts and NO ONE wears them here. But it's too fking hot! How do these people survive! Ikr it's fucking hot in Japan right now and some people even wear sweater wtfAre u Japanese? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SAUCY 44,499 Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 ya know speaking of japan when i first moved there I felt super conscious of myself i was paranoid that people were staring at me all the time cause im a different race but eventually you just get used to it a friend once told me that if I felt really self conscious, then i could dye my hair or wear really funky clothing. Ofc people will stare at you more if you've got pink hair, but that way it's like you're controlling how people perceive you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zenny 2,917 Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 Ikr it's fucking hot in Japan right now and some people even wear sweater wtf Are u Japanese? No I'm American Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hqnnik 1,528 Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 I'm conscious like all the time and I keep feeling that people pity me or are talking behind my back. But you should ignore the staring or do something to distract yourself instead. A distraction always helps. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Witch Nose 6,905 Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 If you have long hair, fix it up Samara style. Might help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 I don't know if I'm paranoid or not, but I always feel that people are staring at me when I walk outside or when I'm on the train. Whether they only glance at me or they are really staring at me, I really really hate being stared at because it makes me feel that they are judging me. I tried wearing a cap but i guess that didn't really work cuz I still feel people's eyes on me. What should I do??? Sometimes I envy Arab women xD Seriously though, why can't people mind their own business?? I thought it's well-known that "staring is impolite"? I don't give a fuck about other people (you know what I mean) so can't they do the same for me?? ?? what do you mean by that??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RE! 338 Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 Maybe they found you interesting, just ignore it. Or if you're willing to engage, try to stare and smiling at them People staring at me too when I was in Japan, but that's because I'm clearly a (confused) foreigner Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamayam 1,081 Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 Maybe because you're pretty. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Night 10,627 Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 ?? what do you mean by that??? That's what I was curious about but then I realized it has to be another ignorant/clueless comment Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MySeaYeon 3,004 Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 That's what I was curious about but then I realized it has to be another ignorant/clueless comment me too lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sakurahanabira 6,634 Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 are you sure they're staring at you and not behind you or in your general direction? Just because they're looking your way doesn't necessarily mean they're staring at you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HOMEWRECKER 1,944 Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 lmao I have the same exact problem and everytime I go outside I'm thinking like 'maybe I have something on my face' or 'maybe there's sonething wrong with my clothes/hair' etc. It gets very annoying at times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bishu 1,695 Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 when ppl stared at me, i'm always like 'i must be so handsome' tbh my appearance is a mess (styling wise) but who cares just imagine what makes you happy i'm quite handsome according to my friends Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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