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So i've found myself in a strange situation. I've somehow ended up with 3.5 girls in love with me and all trying to get my very scare free time and to be honest it's just a big mess. I'll briefly break down the relationships with those in question.

 

Girl A:

 

Met online around February, talked for like 2 months before meeting and got stupidly serious (L word thrown around very liberally) and ended up getting the booty a few times. Main issue here is that it's a 90 minute drive between us, so y'know, it's not exactly easy. She's pretty but also clingy and needy.

 

Girl B:

 

Met online like a month ago. Went on a few dates, originally it was kinda a pity date cause she's not that good looking and she's really socially awkward. She only lives about 5 minutes away in the car, so is pretty convenient. Anyway she said she doesn't sleep with people that she's not in a relationship with. I proved that wrong, but ever since then she keeps referring to herself as my girlfriend, which I swerve replying to every time. I'd tell her that I don't want to see her anymore, but she buys me Cheetos (which are hard af to find in the UK) so i'm kinda looking to keep the Cheetos but ditch the girl.

 

Girl C:

 

Met online like 2 months ago. She lives in Ireland right now, but at the time she was staying with family in the next town over from me. Anyway my charm struck again and basically she's talking about moving back here in September and is constantly saying she can't wait to be with me and all this heavy shit, and i'm just like, 'we've never even met'. She's not particularly hot or anything either. Need to cool that one quick.

 

Girl D:

 

Met online like 4 months ago. She's cool as fuff. Funny, cute, caring, beautiful. Like the dream girl. Only hitch with her is that she's already got a boyfriend - although its an open relationship and her boyfriend is fine with us seeing each other. She's the one i'd want, and to be honest with my job she's ideal.

 

The annoying thing is that I never tried to play any of them. I'm just super nice with everyone and people just fall in love with me and these all so happened to fall for me at the same time. I'm cursed.

 

Anyway, Girl A is getting sus about why I never see her (although distance is the saving grace there), so she's getting to be a pain in the ass. Girl B is starting to also wonder why I don't come to see her much, so I use the work excuse a lot (which is actually true 90% of the time). Girl C, well I just can't be bothered with and i'm tryna ween her off the daily snapchats and WhatsApp messages but she's still persisting. Girl D, well, she's the real MVP. She's just chill af and loves everything about me. She makes my days off worthwhile.

 

I'm not exactly sure why I wrote all this. Although having written it all out, I think it makes my options a little clearer. What do you think?

 

 

 

UPDATE:

 

Girl C is out of the equation. She took it quite well. Girl D will be helping me to deal with Girl B.

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are all guys nowadays like this? 

 

 

The annoying thing is that I never tried to play any of them. I'm just super nice with everyone and people just fall in love with me and these all so happened to fall for me at the same time. I'm cursed

lmao

 

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but she buys me Cheetos (which are hard af to find in the UK) so i'm kinda looking to keep the Cheetos but ditch the girl.

 

 

Anyway, Girl A is getting sus about why I never see her (although distance is the saving grace there), so she's getting to be a pain in the ass. Girl B is starting to also wonder why I don't come to see her much, so I use the work excuse a lot (which is actually true 90% of the time). Girl C, well I just can't be bothered with and i'm tryna ween her off the daily snapchats and WhatsApp messages but she's still persisting. Girl D, well, she's the real MVP. She's just chill af and loves everything about me. She makes my days off worthwhile.

LOL wtf im so done. 

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The annoying thing is that I never tried to play any of them. I'm just super nice with everyone and people just fall in love with me and these all so happened to fall for me at the same time. I'm cursed.

 

 

I laughed at this lol sorry  :lol:

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To be completely honest, you're mean for some of the things you did to these girls. They can do with someone that doesn't just view them as a person who buys them cheetos.

 

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I didn't lead her on for Cheetos. She just kept buying them and then I got hooked on them. If anything i'm the victim of over exposure to an addictive substance.

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U maybe "don't play them off", yet I aren't honest eighter since u don't tell them the true and that u have 3 other girls beside her. Its betray, let's call it with right names. U even slept with the one even if she told u that she don't do it w/o relationship, so u wonder y she call u her bf? And the other one u use directly. U use her for buy u things, take them even if u don't like her. So u use, u betray u lie and than u play nice guy?! How about no! 

Break up, and let them find someone who rlly care and deserve them. 

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I'm hearing lots of abuse, but not many solutions.

ok my bad

not an expert on this but i think that you should stop contacting all of them, break up with them and tell them the truth.

they deserve better guys than u  :omgwtf: 

 

edit: i guess i was too harsh

find a nice girl and treasure her  :meow:

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ok my bad

not an expert on this but i think that you should stop contacting all of them, break up with them and tell them the truth.

they deserve better guys than u  :omgwtf: 

 

edit: i guess i was too harsh

find a nice girl and treasure her  :meow:

I've just had 'the talk' with Girl C. She took it fairly well tbf. That's one down.

 

 

Just ask Girl B where she gets the Cheetos from.

This is the sort advice I need. Teach a man to fish, and all that.

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The annoying thing is that I never tried to play any of them. I'm just super nice with everyone and people just fall in love with me and these all so happened to fall for me at the same time. I'm cursed.

In all honesty your an asshole and no where near nice if you don't even have the decency to respect these women.   And well if you want to get rid of them, just tell them honestly that you are screwing around with other girls, that'd do the trick.

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