Does heterophobia exist? And why do gay people hate/resent bisexual people so much

[Bitchcraft]

I see sometimes, very very strong disdain and dislike from gay people towards straight ones.

 

As for bi people, gay people say stuff like bisexuals are more likely to cheat than others and that it's just a phase and  "You'll go back to being straight when you're bored of it"

 

Some gay people will also refuse to date a bisexual person.

 

This is all pretty ignorant to me and idgi.

 

Any thoughts?

[strawberry bitch]

I dislike staight people who dislike gay people

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Stop pulling a Switzerland and pick a side 

[Joon]

LGBT can be awful people too, just like the rest of humanity. Sexism, racism, bigotry, etc isn't exclusive to any one group of people.

[aaaaaa]

I'm gay and would never date a bi girl because we would be too different and I like lesbian girls. I prefer lesbians (and gays) over other ppl but I think it only makes sense. Not any phobia here

[~Shining Diamond~]

All these labels... At the end of the day, who cares what people think? If there are gays who hate straight/bi people, then that is their problem. They're the ignorant ones, it's not like straight/bi people will cease to exist because of that. 

[xiaolulu]

It's called biphobia and it's disgusting but generally ignored...just like bisexuality is 

[Almondandlime]

I'm gay and would never date a bi girl because we would be too different and I like lesbian girls. I prefer lesbians (and gays) over other ppl but I think it only makes sense. Not any phobia here

In what way?

[Jinni]

I'm bi and I just never understood how some straight and gay people would automatically rule me out of their options without knowing anything else about me. It does make me sad at times. Why do these people think that I'd love them any less because of it? Why on earth would I be more prone to cheat on them? I just don't get it.

[Bitchcraft]

Stop pulling a Switzerland and pick a side 

 

What's wrong with you? Do you want people to suppress their urges and desires for one sex just because gay people dislike it?

How ignorant

[aaaaaa]

In what way?

They would say "omg that guy is hot" often, probably. And them liking guys would just be too much

[Little Eight]

I know plenty of gays who hate bisexuals, transexuals, etc. Gay =/= open mindedness.

[swiftswitchsurf]

It's called biphobia and it's disgusting but generally ignored...just like bisexuality is 

 

I try to find the lie every time

 

[Almondandlime]

They would say "omg that guy is hot" often, probably. And them liking guys would just be too much

Errr, every person is different.

 

 

Plus it's not all bisexuals like both genders 50/50. There's plenty of bi girls who mainly like girls but only rarely like guys.

[Jeelian]

I'm gay and I disdain a lot heterosexual people who does not question the society we live in just because they fit the norm. And it means I disdain a lot of people.

 

Homosexual people, considering what they have to deal with, tend to think more and question more the rules, what people expect from you etc...

But when being gay will be perfectly accepted this will  disappear but I don't think I will live enough years to see that happen even if i'm French.

[Jinni]

i don't want to date a girl who likes men

They would say "omg that guy is hot" often, probably. And them liking guys would just be too much

  So you're both saying that even if it would be the girl of your dreams who would love you from all her heart, you would not date them just because of that? And the fuck really, I would never say to my boyfriend/girlfriend that an other person is hot if I knew they didn't like it. I'm sorry girls, but I just don't understand your point on this.

[soap]

heterophobia doesn't exist

[♥SNS-Shinomiya♥]

Could it be synonomous to why some darker skin blacks dislike light skinned black, because the later group is more accepted in society?

[Selkie]

Ask that Wendy stan

[aaaaaa]

Errr, every person is different.

 

 

Plus it's not all bisexuals like both genders 50/50. There's plenty of bi girls who mainly like girls but only rarely like guys.

 It's too much if she identifies as bi, even if it's 20 % guys  

  So you're both saying that even if it would be the girl of your dreams who would love you from all her heart, you would not date them just because of that? And the fuck really, I would never say to my boyfriend/girlfriend that an other person is hot if I knew they didn't like it. I'm sorry girls, but I just don't understand your point on this.

It's enough that she thinks about guys being hot. And my dream girl would never like guys because being lesbian is one of my most important requirements

[1stminialbum]

are straight people killed for being straight in masses sweetie? no? then heterophobia doesnt exist and it never will 

[Almondandlime]

 It's too much if she identifies as bi, even if it's 20 % guys   It's enough that she thinks about guys being hot. And my dream girl would never like guys because being lesbian is one of my most important requirements

What does it matter as long as she loves you?

[Nancy_boy]

I have been told that I'm just gay but I don't want to be out of the closet or i'm in denial. I don't get it. But from what I have seen some people only see homosexual and heterosexual, at least in my country.

 

I don't think there is such a thing as heterophobia but do think sometimes gay people dislike or distrust heterosexual people because previous (unpleasant) experiences

[Jinni]

 It's too much if she identifies as bi, even if it's 20 % guys   It's enough that she thinks about guys being hot. And my dream girl would never like guys because being lesbian is one of my most important requirements

I hope that you'll one day realise that there are more important things in life and love than that. Loving somebody is something that should not be taken lightly or dismissed for shallow reasons like that. Non of us really ever date their dream girl or a boy. When reality hits, things like that usually have no meaning anymore. When you fall in love with someone it doesn't really matter what they look like or who else they might like, only the relationship with the two of you will matter at that point.

[Jinni]

I wouldn't love her anymore if she's bi because then I know that she thinks men are hot and sexually attractive and that will make me turned off by her.

Read my message for aaaaaa.