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Can some fans stop shipping 'oppas' if you don't support LGBT at the first place?


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So I saw this.

 

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(If you know the one who posted this, PLEASE DO NOT MENTION, I don't want the person to get even more uncomfortable.)

 

Don't generalize this only for EXO Shippers because most of other groups' shippers are like this too. It's disgusting and keeps bothering me.

 

Like.. I know you ship 'oppas' together because they're goodlooking together blah blah, but this is just downright insulting. Why do you even bother thinking about two people in the same gender romantically if you don't even support it in the first place?

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strangely enough... there are people who support guy-guy relationship but not women-women relationships.

i don't understand where they see the difference...

poor girl. 

i feel so bad for her for having to get that type of treatment.

And it also goes likewise. >.> I don't get it. Like I have a female coworker who is straight, married and says she gets two women, but two guys? Nope. Like I wasn't shocked hearing that from my dad, but what??

 

Love is love. It shouldn't matter what gender you are. I don't understand people who ship same-sex couples and then deny same-sex couples irl their right to love each other.

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well in some cases male on male shipping is merely a sexual fantasy on which straight girls project their normal heterosexual relationships with idea 'i like 2 dicks why don't we have both' - and that has little to none links to LGBT reality. though one would think differently, me included lol i was so surprised when i encountered similiar case myself.

 

and no, they won't stop 

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But shipping does not necessarily carry a romantic element, innit?

Some shippers ship their oppars and be like 'LOL THEY'RE REAL AS FUCK!!!!!!1111!1!1' and give proofs that they're real romantically blah blah and when they see gay couples on the street they cringed and say it's wrong, I have encountered some like that.. Fucked up, really.

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strangely enough... there are people who support guy-guy relationship but not women-women relationships.

i don't understand where they see the difference...

poor girl. 

i feel so bad for her for having to get that type of treatment.

well statistically male homosexuality is more common than female, and % of lesbians who eventually end up in heterosexual relationship > % of gays. thus some ppl say female homosexuality ain't real or smth that is easily changed

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i don't get it either :-/

 

i like to read fanfics here and there, but to be honest, i don't like shipping generally, specially when is cases like this, do you like to ship two of your oppas, or ship two of your unnies together but don't agree when you see a same-sex couple irl?? love is love, and that's it.

 

i feel so bad for this girl, it must hurt when someone treats you like that.

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strangely enough... there are people who support guy-guy relationship but not women-women relationships.

i don't understand where they see the difference...

 

The same way homophobic guys love girl-girl porn.

They are not actually supporting.

It is either about simply sexual fantasies, or about oppa remaining safe, and not seduced by an evil vagina. Meaning "I rather oppa be gay than dating a woman".

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And it also goes likewise. >.> I don't get it. Like I have a female coworker who is straight, married and says she gets two women, but two guys? Nope. Like I wasn't shocked hearing that from my dad, but what??

 

Love is love. It shouldn't matter what gender you are. I don't understand people who ship same-sex couples and then deny same-sex couples irl their right to love each other.

well statistically male homosexuality is more common than female, and % of lesbians who eventually end up in heterosexual relationship > % of gays. thus some ppl say female homosexuality ain't real or smth that is easily changed

Interesting to know.

As a straight woman.. I have always found femalw-female relationships a bit boring on a sexual level especially since you'd need a toy to experience proper intercourse.

Could this be an explanation as to why?

But it still doesn't justify okaying one and not the other.

It would feel so illogical to tell my friend "it is okay that you are lesbian but if a male friend is gay.. ugh..." or the other way around.. it just doesn't make sense.

Lol

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The same way homophobic guys love girl-girl porn.

They are not actually supporting.

It is either about simply sexual fantasies, or about oppa remaining safe, and not seduced by an evil vagina. Meaning "I rather oppa be gay than dating a woman".

 

Ah.. now this would indeed make sense.

 

 

Sorry for the double post but i am on phone and well...

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Why do you even bother thinking about two people in the same gender romantically if you don't even support it in the first place?

 

The eternal question. Apparently, for some the gay is fine as long as it's just a fantasy, that is, explicitly not real. I don't understand how their skull doesn't split from the cognitive dissonance either.

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That is terrible what happened to that person.

I am honestly really shocked by her former friend's unbelieveable ignorance.

 

I can't get too deep in this problem, because I'm not really a fanfic shipper.

But I do get really offended when some guys are turned on by two girls kissing, but they don't actually in any way, respect homosexuality. I don't understand this at all and I think its very disrespectful.

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strangely enough... there are people who support guy-guy relationship but not women-women relationships.

i don't understand where they see the difference...

poor girl. 

i feel so bad for her for having to get that type of treatment.

The fucked up thing about this is the one who posted this is quite an avid shipper, I'm pretty sure she told her friends who are her fellow shippers because she believed they will accept her for who she is and she thought they think the same way as her (supporting two people in a same gender together) and turns out not.

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That's why I despise shippers. Shipping gay - especifically boyxboy - couples is their way to deny the reality that they still eat pussy when cameras are not on. They prefer see their oppas with another guy rather than a woman, even though they're still homophobic.  :>_>:

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