Have you ever felt unappreciated by your friends/people around you?

[Bitchcraft]

Like, they take you for granted? And they never think about how many compromises you make for them/ to make them at ease/happy etc?

 

 

I'm literally so tired of people taking me for granted. I swear, i'm so nice to my friends, i lend money, I lend them my ears (i'm a good listener) , i lend a shoulder to cry on and many other things.

But I feel like they never pause and think, 'oh what would we do without Rikku around'  or give back ? Do you get what I mean?

Sometimes i feel like everyone is just leeching off of me, and i keep giving but receive nothing lol

Only my best friend is an exception to this, but due to circumstances, we don't see each other as often as we'd like. (lives in a diff city T^T)

 

Do you sometimes feel like there is no point in caring anymore? or helping? And just be an indifferent asshole? Since people dgaf anyways lol 

[cornangel]

i completely understand

[Big Stupid Jellyfish]

ALL. THE. TIME

 

I can't really say much more than that but I definitely know what you're feeling.

[Infinitea]

all the time, yes 

[baetich]

Yea, I feel you. I'm always the good listener who gives advices and actually cares, but no one does the same for me lol 

[iluvuhater]

It happens all the time.

[Nev Schulman]

Yes so one girl I always felt was always taking me for granted I dropped her like a hot potato and ignored her messages

these days I don't even talk to people anymore because I feel they all do to an extent, I'm all for a new start now

trust nohoes

[LeeTaeyong]

I totally feel you. One of the worst feelings in the world. I haven't had friends like that in a while, but I can still remember how horrible it was. I just stopped talking to them.

[monochrome.]

Yeah, this is why I'm an indifferent bitch. Even if you're being nice, it's not like people are going to treat you the same. 

[Suzy Quatro]

I think it's normal to feel this way every now and then but if its something constant then I guess you should stop being so nice to them if you don't feel like it.

[Dandelion Wine]

Yeah, in the past. Now I'm more of the one underappreciating...

[fiestargossip]

Yes, especially when I am chilling with my girls from Girls' Generation. I mean, Tiffany and Hyoyeon are always asking me to be their designated driver. What do I get in return? NOTHING.

[Bitchcraft]

Yes, especially when I am chilling with my girls from Girls' Generation. I mean, Tiffany and Hyoyeon are always asking me to be their designated driver. What do I get in return? NOTHING.

 

I ain't talking about imaginary friends

Sorry if you got no real ones, man

we can cri together

[stab]

Certain friends.  Whom i've dropped.

[Junkrat]

 

[indiechingu]

In the past yeah,but I stopped talking to 98% of people I used to know

but now I'm only really friends with like one or two people, and I'm thankful for them

[bobacool15]

When they only comes to you when they have no one else? yes

[lolnoo]

all the time. 

[modella]

A lot of the time, yes. I didn't even realize it until I went to college. My two "best-friends" showed their true colors. I remember telling one of them I'd been awarded a scholarship and she didn't even congratulate me, all she said was, "give me it". Like, really? All of this was while I was letting her know about the scholarships she could apply to and trying to help. My other friend completely ditched me after she got her first boyfriend and only comes around when she wants something, aka, wants to use my pool key, wants me to help her with college, etc. But hey, when it was my 21st birthday, she didn't even bother to call. But you know who did call, my roommate from Freshman year that I've only known now for about three years. She went out of her way to take me out on my birthday, but my supposed best-friends of 10+ years didn't do jack.

 

Honey, for all of those friends who treat you like this and make you feel like nothing, there will be friends who will treat you so much better and validate the fact that they respect you as a person and are truly happy to be your friend. Those are the people you want to stick around.

[Bitchcraft]

A lot of the time, yes. I didn't even realize it until I went to college. My two "best-friends" showed their true colors. I remember telling one of them I'd been awarded a scholarship and she didn't even congratulate me, all she said was, "give me it". Like, really? All of this was while I was letting her know about the scholarships she could apply to and trying to help. My other friend completely ditched me after she got her first boyfriend and only comes around when she wants something, aka, wants to use my pool key, wants me to help her with college, etc. But hey, when it was my 21st birthday, she didn't even bother to call. But you know who did call, my roommate from Freshman year that I've only known now for about three years. She went out of her way to take me out on my birthday, but my supposed best-friends of 10+ years didn't do jack.

 

Honey, for all of those friends who treat you like this and make you feel like nothing, there will be friends who will treat you so much better and validate the fact that they respect you as a person and are truly happy to be your friend. Those are the people you want to stick around.

 

I should just drop everyone out of my life tbh

All the excess baggage who make me feel like unneeded trash tbh

 

 

Sorry for your best friends, i've had friends like those before. Glad you found other, better people ^*^

[Mao]

i'm sorry :'( i used to feel this way a lot but lately i've been without a job and my friends have really been looking out for me

 

u should honestly just tell them straight up how you feel bc u friends should never treat other friends like that

 

 

[Alexander Wang]

I used to feel that way years ago with my best friend cause she also had another best friend. The two of us were closer than both of them, but once I moved a little farther away, they became closer and they stopped acknowledging me, and my bff would only really pay attention to me when the other hoe was busy.

 

I dropped her and everything got better. I got better friends and I became happier. Now it's starting to happen again, but with my boyfriend and our best friend.

[taro]

Yeah I have a crappy friend who I'm always there for but on Friday I was crying and this asshole ignored me and walked ahead

 

What kind of friend does a shitty thing like that

And later she expected me to give her advice

[xharuharux]

i usually feel like this during birthdays. i don't know why ._. 

 

some weird psychological thing 

[bluesargent]

I know how you feel. I feel like I make other people a priority and then they just don't appreciate me being there for them.