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Was there ever a time someone accused you of being gay/lesbian?


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There were a couple of times, i am straight

A friend of mine was sitting right there and she has a bit of a habit of staring

And this really mean/ showoffy girl was like 'why are you staring at me, are you in love with me or something?' It was pretty hurtful :( not that its wrong to be gay or anything

 

I donr know of it will sound offensive or anything, sorry; just curious

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a lot of family members think I am a lesbian because I have not been with a man in years. I also don't have children. To them, if you haven't had a child by 25 something is wrong LOL (Ah majority of Latino families are just out of touch with reality nowadays) 

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one time at the bus stop when i was 10 years old a bunch of other kids came up and asked me if i was a lesbian

 

to this day i have no idea why

 

anyway i'm sure it's going to happen again at some point since i often openly proclaim how much i love girls, even though i don't mean it in that way

 

i don't really care though

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my mom... when I was like 12/13 years old. I really liked to hang out with this one female friend of mine and one time she asked me if I was into girls... I was like wtf no! D: (mostly because it's weird to have your mother think that of you - and with your best friend)

 

and then in high school when I was 14/15 this one girl that everyone knew was a lesbian asked me in class if I liked her. I was like, yeah, I like you (but my daft self didn't understand the question then). Then another girl asked me again, "no, do you like her." and then I was like, "what...?" I guess it showed in my face because then the lesbian girl just shook her head and said something like, "no, she's not." Only then did I understand. I was Ohhh, my gosh. I wanted to hide under a rock. 

 

my current best friend is bi and she did things and asked me things that implied other stuff. Like, lean on me and ask me if she could be my first kiss just to get it over with (because I am 21 and still not there)... I'm thinking of flaking out on her just because I don't have a nice way of telling her to stop invading my personal space :/ 

 

Anyway. I don't know if I'm straight or bi or pan because I haven't had any relationships with anyone but I know I like boys so I'm not gay/lesbian, I know that for sure. Wow, this is long. 

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Yes when I was in 5th grade, it was bathroom break and I was sick, and feeling faint... So I rested my head in the little column between the two stalls. There is a gap but I wasn't looking, my eyes were closed... But my friend, who was in the stall, thought I was peeking at her. I didn't know til the next day until I went to go sit by my friend and she pushed me away and called me a lesbo. Then the whole class was chanting it at me.

 

At the time I found it upsetting because it made me an outcast, I lost all my friends that year and no one would go near me, unless to tease. But oh well. I made new friends the next year of school.

 

A few of my friends think I am by because I am rather candid in my appreciation for the female body and females I find pretty, but that's just them being closed minded. For awhile they almost had me convinced but since I have never been sexually attracted to the same gender...I know I am not. But if I was, I'd be okay with that

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When I was in high school, there was this chick who thought I was a lesbian just because I wasn't dating anyone at the time and I didn't show any interest for the guys at our school. There was literally only one guy I was attracted to but I kept him at bay because I didn't want to ruin our friendship. I don't regret that decision either. But then again she was one of those girls who hated being single and felt like she "needed" to be in a relationship all the time =/

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