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Why do women like to rip each other apart (sometimes)? Serious Discussion


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I'm sitting with my friend right now. We are out to lunch and she is really talking shit about this girls clothing. Saying she looks like ê±¸ë ˆ which really is the slang word for slut but its rag, and its nasty. I said the girl look pretty, because she does, but my friend keeps saying her top is small... she is ugly and she look like a ê±¸ë ˆ. So I mean... *sighs* 

​Why do women do this?

 

Like she always does this too. Why do we as women talk shit behind each other back? Why do we do that to each other?

 

My friend beat up a girl that was talking to her man instead of the male... like why do we do this? 

 

I don't see what most people see. I think a women is amazing no matter what, but this is one reason i hate hanging out with girls. They love to pull each other apart.

 

I remember a group of my friends said I was too skinny and I needed a body and made me feel like shit for it. I have a nice body now and when I wear nice clothes and I feel sexy I can feel girls giving me the WHO THE FUCK IS THIS bitch look. Like... yeah why do women do this. 

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we girls just project our insecurities a lot of the times

and thats really mostly what it is

 

we pick apart other flaws on other girls because we're insecure about them

 

for example sometimes i make fun of girls with big breasts because I'm flat

 

 

but we really need 2 end this, and go after the true enemy

which is men

 

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Make themselves feel better.

 

Edit:  Sometimes out of bad habit/lack of awareness.  Meaning, they spout off at the mouth (like verbal v*mit) without any idea how detrimental or toxic they are actually being. Environmentally - everyone around them may respond the same way. Some people do not recognize the power of words. 

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Society (yeah I know..) and Media have done a good job at pitting other women against each other. Bad Girls Club and The Bachelor and stuff like that kind of perpetuate that behavior.

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i think, they like to feel superior in some way or another, they might actually have their own insecurities ; that when women see someone doing well; they'd like to tear them apart to feel better about themselves...it's kind of ridiculous

but alot of people aren't like that

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we girls just project our insecurities a lot of the times

and thats really mostly what it is

 

we pick apart other flaws on other girls because we're insecure about them

 

for example sometimes i make fun of girls with big breasts because I'm flat

 

 

but we really need 2 end this, and go after the true enemy

which is men

 

xuUm4Gu.gif

Yeah. My friend rolls her eyes at women with big boobs and say I bet she got plastic surgery .. she always points out everyones PS and say ew she's plastic GROSS... she makes me want to slap her

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we girls just project our insecurities a lot of the times

and thats really mostly what it is

 

we pick apart other flaws on other girls because we're insecure about them

 

for example sometimes i make fun of girls with big breasts because I'm flat

 

 

but we really need 2 end this, and go after the true enemy

which is men

 

xuUm4Gu.gif

:imstupid:  you are a dude

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we girls just project our insecurities a lot of the times

and thats really mostly what it is

 

we pick apart other flaws on other girls because we're insecure about them

 

for example sometimes i make fun of girls with big breasts because I'm flat

 

 

but we really need 2 end this, and go after the true enemy

which is men

 

xuUm4Gu.gif

totally all men r evil #feminist

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Society (yeah I know..) and Media have done a good job at pitting other women against each other. Bad Girls Club and The Bachelor and stuff like that kind of perpetuate that behavior.

Ah yeah thats very true. I never thought of it that way. BGC is like throwing women in a house and saying fight each other over who better and not. They even e.g. on fight 

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Yeah. My friend rolls her eyes at women with big boobs and say I bet she got plastic surgery .. she always points out everyones PS and say ew she's plastic GROSS... she makes me want to slap her

why are you friends with her?

not that has to do with anything but is she good looking?

maybe she has a lot of insecurities.

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Some parts jealously, some parts insecurities, a lot of parts "society has taught women to be enemies and constantly compete for male approval". 

 

Mostly this stuff tbh, internalized misogyny is a bitch.

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i dunno.

some women just are really insecure. if they're out with their boyfriend and there's a really pretty girl nearby they feel so self-consciece that they feel they need to make the other feel the same way, i guess

for some reason some of them slut-shame a lot and i think thats just their way of making themselves feel better

i'm a female and i'm not even sure. maybe it's best not to question it before they go after you.

or stop producing the world's population.

whichever comes first idk

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i dunno.

some women just are really insecure. if they're out with their boyfriend and there's a really pretty girl nearby they feel so self-consciece that they feel they need to make the other feel the same way, i guess

for some reason some of them slut-shame a lot and i think thats just their way ofmaking themselves feel better

i'm a female and i'm not even sure. maybe it's best not to question it before they go after you.

or stop producing the world's population.

whichever comes first idk

I mean i've been slut shamed at my high school... a group of girls pretended to take photos of my naked body and send it throughout the school because a girl called me a slut for making out with my then bf (all girls liked him)

no offense but ur friend just sounds really mean lmfao

She is... She's a bitch. I told her she was one and she laughed it off.

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We are born into a society where we are taught that ripping each other apart is survival. We are taught that we have to be the best at everything and be the prettiest girl to get somewhere in life. Guys, on the other hand, are taught that the world is to their disposal. Guys aren't taught to survive because it is believed that they are born to survive. Girls are taught to survive because, according to society, we need to rip everyone apart to get to the top.

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We are born into a society where we are taught that ripping each other apart is survival. We are taught that we have to be the best at everything and be the prettiest girl to get somewhere in life. Guys, on the other hand, are taught that the world is to their disposal. Guys aren't taught to survive because it is believed that they are born to survive. Girls are taught to survive because, according to society, we need to rip everyone apart to get to the top.

That sounds like it and now that I think of it 90% of competition shows are women and 90% of the time they are fight and stabbing each other in the back

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