The Official YunJae Thread

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I dedicate my first post to Yunjae ^^

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Waiting for Changmin oppars analysis

/goes to fond Hina

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Is Jaejoong being too obvious with his sexuality lately (more than usual) or is it just an act? 

 

discuss

Well the thing is I have always been on the fence when it comes to Jaejoong's sexuality.

I do think that he is very attracted to men but what I can't decide if he is also attracted to women. I do believe that he has lots of abondonment issues which results in him loving having people constantly around him, seeking people's approval and loving to please everyone so that he has constant acceptance. The reason I mention this is because I have this perception of him it confuses me to make a decision as to whether he is actually attracted to women or does he feel like having relationships with them is filling a void to gain acceptance...?

I dunno if any of this makes sense OTZ

 

EDIT: but I do believe that he is starting to become more comfortable with who he is as a person.

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Have anyone read lightlee's analysis? :D

I might have.... but share it again anyway.

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Considering his history, I dont blame him for having abandonment issues. Its quiet obviously possible.

 

I used to think that Jae is the flexible kind. Gender doesnt matter to him. I dont know whether he is gay, bi, straight... I just assumed he was just sexual XD  

Yeah... what I was trying to say is that it at the end of if it he just wants to be loved.

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yes, but why who 

That's the thing... I don't think he cares who.

As long as he gets the correct kind of attention he is seeking for.

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I think I should say this so that people can understand where I am coming from a bit more...

I like Yunjae... I believe in the possibility of Yunjae but I am not a firm believer in this ship or any other ship actually.

I guess you can say I find their relationship interesting.

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um my yunjae analyses are:

 

 

i wrote this a year ago don't judge me?????

 

http://mylittlehatter.tumblr.com/post/34428409108/part-1-jaejoong

 

http://mylittlehatter.tumblr.com/post/34428472892/part-2-yunho

 

http://mylittlehatter.tumblr.com/post/34428502112/part-3-yunjae

I wanna hug you for your analysis on Jaejoong.

Same wavelength~

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Oh Jae 

I pray he will find that someone 

 

 

 

 

 

How is Yunho? I have not been keeping up with his updates....

Me too.. he is the one person I hope so much will find happiness because I sense that he is so tortured.

I guess the reason I am so "attracted" to him is because of the "I wish I could help/fix" him ideal.

 

I dont ship usually. 

 

Its just when it comes to Yunjae... to me... it is something obviously there so I dont really identify myself as a shipper lol 

I am more of a silent observer lol

There are couples that I like and think have chemistry but I don't have the dedication it takes to be a shipper...

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Meanwhile... Homin has been fucking

 

 

*the plot thickens*

That is one couple I will never understand...

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to me this always ties in to the manipulative nature people associate him with. Jaejoong will do anything to gain fans along with keep his fans, i think simply because he needs them. He is the type of person that needs attention and needs to be cooed upon and without that he goes into self resignation. If he's not doted, thats when his self image issues always kick in. Yes jaejoong needs to be loved and frankly no he doesn't care about where it comes from but if it's relationship wise i think he's more selective that that. As bullshitty as it might sound, jaejoong has the personality of a girl. He needs the attention that girls do and when he gets a girlfriend it would become more like a tug of war of who can receive the most attention. I think i'm not explaining well, but if you think about jaejoong's personality you might understand. He's like the type of person that needs to be told he's handsome, he's a good singer, blah blah blah, he lives on good praise and he'll do anything to get that praise (hence the manipulation). Girls are also like that. Girls will go out of their way to get compliments and to get re-assurance about themselves, so now if jaejoong was to be in a relationship with a girl what would happen ? It just wouldn't match well.

This is why i would think jaejoong is bi but leaning towards men. He hasn't sworn off the idea of girls, but he's not exactly out there trying to reach out to them~

 

 

 

 

homin is a whole other issue on it's own,

i'll never understand it,

i tried, 

but i always end up at square 1

 

i think the poblem is that once you've seen yunjae you just HAVE to compare. Even ifyou try to not compare it ends up happening anywyas, then you end up finding things which are lacking.

I understand you point of view and agree on some parts...

That is why I also mentioned "the correct kind of attention" bit because I agree he wouldn't just choose anybody and I think he is one to be more focussed on personality. I mean in a way I could picture him being with someone just as insecure as him because he knows that they wouldn't leave him easily and they need each other. About the personality of a girl I feel that you are generalising women a bit too much... as much as though are qualities associated with women not all are like that.

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so i was sitting here minding my own businesss

and then suddenly BOOM

heavy rain and thuder start; like waddafuq, i have to walk to work q_q

oh canada. you stress me too much. it was very sunny this morning. 

 

 

@zee - most women are like that ;

i know that what i said was very degrading but when you look at it a large percentage of women are like that. I"m not saying it like those girls that go around on facebook fishing for compliments, but seriously girls fricken love attention. Especially girls in relationships. I've witnessed people that would be the most level headed but as soon as they get into relationships it's like oh . . . 

the extremity of it might not be high, but  that need is stil definitley there 

 

 

LOOOL i always used to look at the numbers beside the posts to see who would be the next top and i would always try to time it so i could do the top spam   

 

/top/

 

 

 

 

 

 

this photo is so presh

Again personal experiences does not always mimic reality completely.

Maybe I have just been surrounded by strong headed women that are very reassured about themselves my whole life whisch is something different to what you... and I also think that the type of behaviour depends on the maturity and acceptance one as a person.. I am not trying to say he is straight but I believe that there are women out there that would beable to balance his personality and inturn have a stable relationship.

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when did you guys start believing in yunjae/ what sold it for you ? 

Dangerous Love made me interested... and when I started really looking at their interactions I started to really notice their chemistry.

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Am I the only one who doesn't see the manipulative aspect? O___O

 

He has abandonment issues, true but I don't see the manipulative thing...though I do agree he carves attention but he isn't afraid to lose his fans. He has done things that have made him lose his fans and even then he continues with them. And honestly, I have never seen his personality as that of a girl...well in reality there is nothing as a girl or boy personality. They are just stereotypes of the society of what a girl is like and what a guy is like. Still, I never looked at him and thought he is such a girl.

 

I am gonna get out of this thread now before everyone kills me.

Yeah I was trying to point out the sterotype about feminine and masculine personality traits that i don't agree with.

I do see him as manipulative because with his attention seeking behaviour and it goes hand in hand. I could be wrong... we all could be wrong.

He manipulates us to evoke certain emotions to satisfy him.... Like all the half naked selcas.

 

 

i don't know, i still kinda see it the way i do, with him being bi but leaning towards men

the day he gets married, the world's problem will be solved

 

 

lol for me it was actually the who's gay thread back when 6theory was actually a pretty good forum, with decent discussions and all that jazz

every other page had yunjae in it and i was like wtf

i started watching yunjae videos

was laughing at all the yunjae fans cause i thought they were crazy till one day i just realized that i'm one of the crazies because yunjae just seemed so flawfree

We all have certain ideas and beliefs because of what we are exposed to... It is okay to agree to disagree on that matter.

More like the day he finally finds a person that can make him happy... Marriage might not be the answer because if it is a guy he would be ostricized.

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main point is.... Jaejoong obviously knows what he is doing. 

 

 

It takes skills to be manipulative. He is one smart cookie

 

 

 

somebody send me to bed please

/calls Changmin to take Maxi to bed

That sounds so wrong.... I take it back.. haul your own ass to bed

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If its a guy, there's always Canada eh ;D

 

 

I'm on my phone right now and it my quotes come out fucked dont blame me ;_;

I'm always too lazy to fully fix quotes on my phone

I hope everything works out for each of them in the end.

If Canada is the only option... at least he likes it there lol

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It's okay, cause hong Seok chun was here last week for pride week so he saw how cute and rainbow fied Toronto was ;D

 

We're very gay friendly okay ~ everything in Toronto was literally a rainbow , they were giving out rainbow flags , rainbow beeds, tons of free condoms ~;) yunjae will fit right in,

 

It'll be the home they never had :33

LOL sounds like fun~

Same sex marriage is legal here but there is still little acceptance within the all different cultural groups...

But at least my generation is way more open minded.

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zee where are you from ?

South Africa~

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ohmaigahd, 

thats where i'm from ;D

but i live in canada now ~ lol woot woot

 

 

 

@mbug yunho's streit guise ~

like uhgh.

oppars not ghei 

OMG really?

Following the thread~

 

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I want that Chimp shirt

 

 

 

New discussion topic: What about Yunho?

 

Discuss

Yunho... I don't think I have given much thought about Yunho as I have about Jae.

I find him more difficult to read because he isn't as open with regards to hisas Jaejoong. Even though I get a certain "vibe" from him that actually means jack shit at the end of the day -_-  I suppose the most concrete thing I can say is that he has little to no chemistry with women from what I have seen. As for if he is being more blatant... I think his attitude when giving responses has changed but he keeps his private life private.

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Do you think he is more 'open' or 'less controlled' (sorry I couldnt find the right words to describe it -_-) after the split?

 

I kinda have this feeling that when he is around Jae, I always sense that he is trying hard to show that he is the manly one...but nowadays you see less of that. He is more idk...

I think he is more relaxed... he is more comfortable with showing off his more clumsy side. Or this is becoming more apparent because there is less distractions...?

He used to be seen as such a perfect leader figure but now he seems more ordinary, but in a good way.

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On the split personality thing I think most idols have a dual personality because of the persona they portray almost 24/7 in front of the public eye. Unlike most American or whatever entertainment industry we normally follow, idols are not in the music industry because of the art of creating music... they are somewhere between reality show personality and pop star. The members of DBSK probably grew a liking to the more production aspect but that isn't what attracted them in the first place. I think that in many ways the image they portray becomes engraned into them and has affected the personality... there is no way it hasn't. Also part of their job is to seem perfect at all times... they are role models. 

 

When looking at Jae and Yunho I do that this has affected them in many ways. I mean we know that Jae says he had to keep quiet for the first couple of years in DBSK as part of his image. And I think even though he is more free to be himself, he still isn't allowed to completely do so. He is not allowed to have a proper relationship, he has to second guess his every move... same applies to Yunho. There is no way that they will ever be free to be who they really are... so in some way to varying degrees all celebraties have a dual personality and I guess depending on how strong they are as people and it could affect their metal stability.

 

I am looking at split personality as being a disorder whereas dual personality is pretending to be different people depending on the situation.

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I am so glad he has Changmin. my god these two can make me T___T just by thinking about their relationship. So precious

 

I had this idea that Yunho is more relaxed now and not afraid to show his silly side because he has no one to impress around him...like a lover?  you get what i'm trying to say? 

That is one way to look at it

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no no, i wasn't talking about the idol image. even if yunho wasn't an idol, he'd probably still have that same kind of perfect image. even if yunho wasn't an idol, he'd still have that split persona.

 

no, disorder isn't the right word... just persona. 

Oh well I still don't see it as a split personality as what I defined my understanding of it. Cause I see most idols and celebraties as having personas.

I do get what you are saying about if you took away his celebrity status he would still have one but I think it more because of his outlook on life. Koreans have a very strict upbringing when it comes to respect for elders. I think that what you are seeing as potential warning signs is more of a cultural difference. I can identify with actions like that coming from a strict upbringing where you put your own ideals on the back burner and rather create this perfect image of what your parents would like you to be.

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^ lol and this is what our serious discussion has come to...

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Hello I am Youngwoong Jaejoong. I am mysterious charisma 

Youngwoong Oppar

Wae you getting so thin lately... has Yunho oppar been eating up all your food