Whiteknight 142 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 Just from posting here on this forum, I noticed some women here like Shy guys. I was made aware from one of my other threads and was wondering on this phenomenon. Most girls want a guy to ask them out, but I was surprised to find out that there are some girls here that prefer to do it the other way. It is an interesting! I mean I am sure it is only a minority of women that like shy guys, but it is still interesting none the less. Some guys just can't or have a really hard time engaging and prefer if the girl would do it. Do you like or prefer shy guys? From a user: some women, like myself, like shy men. i do not like the sort of men PUA "creates." but snake oil salesman keep teaching men who are shy and reserved that they're somehow "broken" and need "fixing" and they're not "good enough" so they can panhandle their useless goods, when at the end of the day, PUA is just a numbers game, and it's followers exhibit very cult-like behavior. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nev Schulman 7,960 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 nah I am already shy, I don't need double shyness that would make it awkward imo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlaveMaster 1,018 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 Do you like or prefer shy guys? lmao,no. lmao,what if u r asking this for another reason. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BadBadNotGood 11,616 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 I don't mind a shy guy as long as he opens up when we get to know eachother. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MermaidPrincess 4,039 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 we don't like them shy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dazzlingpaw 819 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 I don't mind a shy guy as long as he opens up when we get to know eachother. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dandelion Wine 1,540 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 I love shy guys, if only I wasn't so shy myself (and didn't already have a bf) I'd totally ask one out Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caridee 5,322 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 i'm a really shy girl. im so shy that i only talk when im spoken to. my boyfriend is the opposite of me and im glad he's like that. i dont think i'd like to date someone like me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
monochrome. 480 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 I'm more attracted to girls, but if I really have to, I prefer shy guys. From my experience, most confident guys are just so douchey and @$$holes. I absolutely hate those type of guys the most!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dante. 7,795 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 Shy guys are cute. Shy people typically open up after getting to know someone so it's no big deal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Kaity 5,777 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 shy guys are adorable. most of the cute ones never have the guts to come up to me and talk to me while the ugly ones think being loud and too talkative is cute. but its not. besides anyone can open up after they get to know a person, its not taboo or anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whiteknight 142 Posted July 6, 2015 Author Share Posted July 6, 2015 I'm more attracted to girls, but if I really have to, I prefer shy guys. From my experience, most confident guys are just so douchey and @$$holes. I absolutely hate those type of guys the most!!! Shy guys are cute. Shy people typically open up after getting to know someone so it's no big deal. shy guys are adorable. most of the cute ones never have the guts to come up to me and talk to me while the ugly ones think being loud and too talkative is cute. but its not. besides anyone can open up after they get to know a person, its not taboo or anything. Anyone can open up, but what about asking someone out. Shy guys usually do not have the courage to ask a girl out. THey want the girl to ask them out. Even if they do have the courage it would take a lot of time for them to gain that courage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hallah 8,441 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 from english-speaking, western perspective, most women prefer outgoing men because most people, in general, are outgoing. shy women and shy men are severely outnumbered, esp. if you're from a nation like the U.S. or australia. i think we make up only some 10% of the population. i've also never met a guy who wanted to be asked out, regardless of whether he was shy or outgoing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaity 5,777 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 Anyone can open up, but what about asking someone out. Shy guys usually do not have the courage to ask a girl out. THey want the girl to ask them out. Even if they do have the courage it would take a lot of time for them to gain that courage. true, its a real shame because theyre usually the good looking ones, from my experience. its a real pity. i still find it charming honestly. frustrating, but charming. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveusaitama 318 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 Shy guys are cute. Shy people typically open up after getting to know someone so it's no big deal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julien6672 69 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 Aren't shy guys seen as creepy ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
monochrome. 480 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 Anyone can open up, but what about asking someone out. Shy guys usually do not have the courage to ask a girl out. THey want the girl to ask them out. Even if they do have the courage it would take a lot of time for them to gain that courage. I'm not really interested in going out with guys lately, so it doesn't matter whether they ask me out or not. If they ask me, then I might consider. If not, then i don't really care. But yeah, I can totally see that this is a huge problem for them. Especially that it's really out of the ordinary for a girl to ask a guy out (at least it is from where I live)... and by the time they might gain that courage, everything is probably too late... idk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
macchatea 1,039 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 im pretty shy when it comes to guys so no... i need someone who'd take the initiative Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
haru ☽ 1,299 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 Despite the fact that I'm not outgoing, asking someone out is not a problem for me. I can do that, I've done that. I think that shy guys are better at understanding me than the "confident guys", and our idea of "a nice place to go" is usually the same, so we get along well~ I like them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whiteknight 142 Posted July 6, 2015 Author Share Posted July 6, 2015 Despite the fact that I'm not outgoing, asking someone out is not a problem for me. I can do that, I've done that. I think that shy guys are better at understanding me than the "confident guys", and our idea of "a nice place to go" is usually the same, so we get along well~ I like them. Well the major problem with Shy guys is that they have trouble engaging. If the girl is able to ask them out then it helps alleviate the problem a lot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chuuu 239 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 It's always better to be friends with the person first. It's ok to be shy, but you need to go and talk with the person you want eventually. You need to try. Most girls are shy and even intimidated by guys, because girls are supposed to be coy, cute, difficult, passive... I have never hear a girl saying "I hate shy guys" But I do hear a lot guys saying "I hate easy girls" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldmine 2,849 Posted July 7, 2015 Share Posted July 7, 2015 they're adorable af the loud confident dudes are so fucking annoying tbh, like, calm down bruh we don't like them shy you're a dude... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dante. 7,795 Posted July 7, 2015 Share Posted July 7, 2015 Anyone can open up, but what about asking someone out. Shy guys usually do not have the courage to ask a girl out. THey want the girl to ask them out. Even if they do have the courage it would take a lot of time for them to gain that courage. it's the 21st century and i don't mind asking a shy boy out. it's endearing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sully 4,318 Posted July 7, 2015 Share Posted July 7, 2015 Nope. I'm shy enough for the both of us. I need a more outgoing and talkative guy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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