____Vatouhâ„¢ 743 Posted July 1, 2015 Share Posted July 1, 2015 my parents are divorcing.. and i fully support it cause it already has passed it's limited.. after all the mess i've been through because of those in house problems.. i just don't care anymore and i am rather glad... the atmosphere will be better and more good for all of us now.. is it bad that i think that way? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ICETERO 9,070 Posted July 1, 2015 Share Posted July 1, 2015 No I think that's fine Don't worry too much. If you feel better than that's good enough. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheKaiTales 3,483 Posted July 1, 2015 Share Posted July 1, 2015 No ofc not, it's good that you can see when people are better of separate than together, it suggest you have a more realistic attitude towards relationships, and it's always best to know when to quit, especially if there are kids involved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ErikaEGO 8,626 Posted July 1, 2015 Share Posted July 1, 2015 That's not bad at all lmao, it's good that you see this situation in a positive light. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScarletWhimsy 2,203 Posted July 1, 2015 Share Posted July 1, 2015 No. If it was for the better, than it's probably a healthier choice for all of you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baetics 888 Posted July 1, 2015 Share Posted July 1, 2015 No, I would be the happiest person in the world if my parents divorced tbh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abra 40,910 Posted July 1, 2015 Share Posted July 1, 2015 It's probably for the best but from my experience it'll be tough anyway Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
。Beach Angel 。 955 Posted July 1, 2015 Share Posted July 1, 2015 No, its the more responsible way to feel about it. I really hope you never thought it was your fault or etc. Just be sure to support your parents, you know... try to help them find new partners... or not. Its just important that you maintain a relationship with each one Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oh-gumdrop 348 Posted July 1, 2015 Share Posted July 1, 2015 not at all, its good that you can see and accept that theyre better off without each other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ImNumber9_9999 1,812 Posted July 1, 2015 Share Posted July 1, 2015 I dont think its bad since it looks like your happy about it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
____Vatouhâ„¢ 743 Posted July 1, 2015 Author Share Posted July 1, 2015 No I think that's fine Don't worry too much. If you feel better than that's good enough. thanks <3 No ofc not, it's good that you can see when people are better of separate than together, it suggest you have a more realistic attitude towards relationships, and it's always best to know when to quit, especially if there are kids involved. it is.. but my father is too much... i can't take his messed up logic anymore... i don't want him to harm my mother anymore with his crap talking... That's not bad at all lmao, it's good that you see this situation in a positive light. yeah.. :/ i feel depressed though No, I would be the happiest person in the world if my parents divorced tbh. why? is it that much bad? It's probably for the best but from my experience it'll be tough anyway yeah.. i feel depressed already.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abra 40,910 Posted July 1, 2015 Share Posted July 1, 2015 yeah.. i feel depressed already.. How old are you if you don't mind me asking? It'll most likely get better but the change could be tough at first Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ErikaEGO 8,626 Posted July 1, 2015 Share Posted July 1, 2015 thanks <3 it is.. but my father is too much... i can't take his messed up logic anymore... i don't want him to harm my mother anymore with his crap talking... yeah.. :/ i feel depressed though why? is it that much bad? yeah.. i feel depressed already.. Aww, I would say just do things that make you happy, because life is hard , but just live it to the best of your ability Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
____Vatouhâ„¢ 743 Posted July 1, 2015 Author Share Posted July 1, 2015 No, its the more responsible way to feel about it. I really hope you never thought it was your fault or etc. Just be sure to support your parents, you know... try to help them find new partners... or not. Its just important that you maintain a relationship with each one my father doesn't want to see me nor my mother again,but i hope he changes his mind after he calms down.. not at all, its good that you can see and accept that theyre better off without each other. i just hope my father doesn't try anything stupid... he is obsessed with the whole fake family thing I dont think its bad since it looks like your happy about it i am ,but also depressed... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nancy mcflurry 2,385 Posted July 1, 2015 Share Posted July 1, 2015 No, it would probably be much more peaceful after that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aripod 2,721 Posted July 1, 2015 Share Posted July 1, 2015 if it makes you feel any better, my parents were divorced since i was a baby so it was a norm to me to have been raised by my mother alone for so long. sometimes families that seem "broken" to some are perfectly okay for us. only you can assess the situation since it's all you knew. if you are happy and there to support your mother through a difficult thing for her, that is more than any parent can ever ask for. i wish you the best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baetics 888 Posted July 1, 2015 Share Posted July 1, 2015 why? is it that much bad? I don't want to live with one of them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
____Vatouhâ„¢ 743 Posted July 1, 2015 Author Share Posted July 1, 2015 How old are you if you don't mind me asking? It'll most likely get better but the change could be tough at first I am 15 if it makes you feel any better, my parents were divorced since i was a baby so it was a norm to me to have been raised by my mother alone for so long. sometimes families that seem "broken" to some are perfectly okay for us. only you can assess the situation since it's all you knew. if you are happy and there to support your mother through a difficult thing for her, that is more than any parent can ever ask for. i wish you the best. thanks <3 yeah i kinda feel my mom was suffering with living with a person she doesn't suit all this time.. i support her more than my father.. although i support both in general Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aripod 2,721 Posted July 1, 2015 Share Posted July 1, 2015 I am 15 thanks <3 yeah i kinda feel my mom was suffering with living with a person she doesn't suit all this time.. i support her more than my father.. although i support both in general mhm. your father included. left it out by default. good for you and for them and making the mature decision. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted July 1, 2015 Share Posted July 1, 2015 Just be supportive of both. At the end of the day, they're still your dad/mom, even if they're no longer husband/wife. Leave this to the adults to sort out. Stay out of it. I understand you must be having mixed emotions, but I hope it gets better with time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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