maidoan97 743 Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 I don't know if I'm just paranoid or whatever, but sometimes, especially when I'm on a train, I feel that somebody is staring at me. I really hate being stared at. I don't know why they're staring at me and that irritates me. Why don't people mind their own business and leave me alone?? Anyone is facing the same problem? How should I deal with this? I thought of wearing sunglasses but then I thought that might be weird P.S.: not only perverts though, I'm also uncomfortable with FEMALEs staring at me. Also, when I'm walking, I can feel people's eyes on me. I don't know if they're actually staring or it's just a casual glance xD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarleyQuinn's Wife 208 Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 Stare back Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cnude 1,928 Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 That's called social anxiety. Just entertain yourself with something while you're on the train. Listen to some music, look at your phone, read a book. Something like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapmon's Ahjussi Husband 2,299 Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 Probably creeps; if it's a public transport move or take a book with you so you won't have to look at them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
monochrome. 480 Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 idk but I always look away and ignore them or I'll just play around with my phone when that happens to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moana 99 Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 just ignore them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ErikaEGO 8,626 Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 If I see an old creep eyeing me down, I just stare at their crotch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abra 40,910 Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 read something Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Borafanboy 496 Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 Magnesium pills are good. I had the same problem at some point it help you to relax. And it's good for your health, and not that expensive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jcey 7,752 Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 I just look at my phone tbh. If i am not looking at any device, I just stare into space but in Trains there are people every where so they may think I am starting at Them. So some of the stares you feel may not be directed at You. So do nothing....unless they do more than just Stare. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BetweenYourThighs 2,958 Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 If I see an old creep eyeing me down, I just stare at their crotch. Works every time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Property of Goddess Irene 9,760 Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 This is a psychological issue. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
˹AS˼ 3,610 Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 If people are looking at me, it's because they're finding me attractive. So what I do, and what you should do, is ooze sexiness while you're on that train and feel CONFIDENT that people like looking at you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 On days I am feeling brave I will give them a stare down. I will widen my eyes and stare right back until I unnerve them and force them to look away. Most times, I look away and stare at my phone pretending to be occupied. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapmon's Ahjussi Husband 2,299 Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 This is a psychological issue. Not really, there may be perverts; god knows I faced my quote back in the days Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlaveMaster 1,018 Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 i have the same problem, solution : im seeing a doctor, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
breadstal 5,261 Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 stare back Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
24k 144 Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 stare them straight in the eye until they look away. i do this for fun quite often and only once did i encounter someone who literally had a stare down with me until my eyes watered and had to blink lmao my one superior... i miss that man Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ErikaEGO 8,626 Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 Works every time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbangjyjbapshineelove 356 Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 Maybe distract yourself (books, music, or play on your phone) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Just Choco 1,199 Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 I look down. Unless I'm walking when I need to be aware, I usually look down and never stare at people, anyways. I guess you should just try to occupy yourself. When I'm on the bus, I look down at my shoes or stare out the window Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sunny_ 1,308 Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 Try being a foreigner in Japan, they never stop staring You can't really do anything about that, just occupy yourself with something or stare back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mouse 530 Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 Deal with it Wear sunglasses :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skibop!! 8,585 Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 I hate that feeling too, especially when I'm minding my own business Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
all-them-pies 654 Posted June 22, 2015 Share Posted June 22, 2015 stare at them to make them turn away have a staring contest or something Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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