Insane 728 Posted June 5, 2015 Share Posted June 5, 2015 I never feel like doing anything. I never have any energy. I just feel like lying down and be on the computer. I wasn't like this but ever since I finished school I've been getting worst. I used to be happy and always with good humor. Now sometimes I have a good humor but other day I'm just irritated or just don't feel like talk or do anything. I've been trying to find a job, and now I'm waiting for a call, and I want a job because of the money and get out of home, but at the same time I don't. When I do anything I always have to sit or lay down because I feel tired and I don't feel like doing anything. When I'm invited for someting I want to be with people and have fun, like I used to, but at the same time I don't feel like going. Like my sister told me to go this weekend for a friends house on another city and at first I didn't answer because I wanted to go, I've been there and I like to go there, but also didn't felt like going... Besides my sister is out of work at midnight and it's 2hours travel and I'm the one driving and it's tiring. What's wrong? I wasn't like this but I don't know what to do and I honestly don't feel comfortable talking to the people I know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Serendipity 11,102 Posted June 5, 2015 Share Posted June 5, 2015 are you me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haunted 5,365 Posted June 5, 2015 Share Posted June 5, 2015 My life story Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rayy 3,021 Posted June 5, 2015 Share Posted June 5, 2015 Nothing's wrong about it. I've been like that my whole life. are you me Are u both me tho .. and OP as well Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insane 728 Posted June 5, 2015 Author Share Posted June 5, 2015 Nothing's wrong about it. I've been like that my whole life. are you me My life story But I feel sad. I wasn't like this, it's not my life's story. I want to go back to those happy days Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abra 40,910 Posted June 5, 2015 Share Posted June 5, 2015 get more physically active: run, play sports, go to the gym etc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SUGA FREE 2,103 Posted June 5, 2015 Share Posted June 5, 2015 Same happened to me after I graduated school, I can't even explain the reason why I became like that. Now I'm depressed angry bitch with an eating disorder Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HL&HZT 1,057 Posted June 5, 2015 Share Posted June 5, 2015 as long as you know/think its not right, or you were better i the past its ok. maybe you need better friends/people with same interst etc.fighting! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alexander Wang 591 Posted June 5, 2015 Share Posted June 5, 2015 It's just a phase. You should let yourself be this way for a little bit longer, and then your body will ask for some action. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insane 728 Posted June 5, 2015 Author Share Posted June 5, 2015 get more physically active: run, play sports, go to the gym etc Whenever I try to go back to running I give up after one or two weeks. It doens't help that I don't like to go alone. I even give the excuse that I don't have running shoes or money to buy them, which is true btw Same happened to me after I graduated school, I can't even explain the reason why I became like that. Now I'm depressed angry bitch with an eating disorder I've graduated from school 3 years ago, this needs to stop! as long as you know/think its not right, or you were better i the past its ok. maybe you need better friends/people with same interst etc. fighting! yeah it probably doesn't help that I don't have many friends and when I'm with them I don't have much to say. I lost a few friends and I spend too much time at home Thank you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jiyu 2,891 Posted June 5, 2015 Share Posted June 5, 2015 Hwaiting Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldenmellow 169 Posted June 5, 2015 Share Posted June 5, 2015 Take a multivitamin or some B12. You might be anemic or lacking in vitamins if you are always tired. That could make you irritable and make you feel like you don't want to do anything. You also might be depressed and should see a doctor. Read this http://studentsagainstdepression.org/understand-depression/what-is-depression/depression-warning-signs/ I hope you feel better whatever it is! Don't just think it's a phase or something that will go away. Be proactive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SUGA FREE 2,103 Posted June 5, 2015 Share Posted June 5, 2015 I've graduated from school 3 years ago, this needs to stop! I graduated from school 6 years ago, and trust me, this will be worse with every year Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
h0neanias 13,516 Posted June 5, 2015 Share Posted June 5, 2015 But I feel sad. I wasn't like this, it's not my life's story. I want to go back to those happy days If you need a term, call it "post-school anxiety". Old life is out, but no new is in sight. It can last for a while, but getting a job should help curing it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hoplz 2,333 Posted June 5, 2015 Share Posted June 5, 2015 I think u just don't have energy and motivation Maybe exercising or eating healthier will make it better Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kirika0Loria 72 Posted June 5, 2015 Share Posted June 5, 2015 Quite the same case here, I just decide to continue my study in another country like 6 years ago. Now I still have my friends in my original country, and I'm happy tosee them like twice per year. But where I live now i don't really have friend and i finnish to study last year, i have to search a job but i have no motivation at all, my only social life is concerts lol. So you're not alone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insane 728 Posted June 5, 2015 Author Share Posted June 5, 2015 Take a multivitamin or some B12. You might be anemic or lacking in vitamins if you are always tired. That could make you irritable and make you feel like you don't want to do anything. You also might be depressed and should see a doctor. Read this http://studentsagainstdepression.org/understand-depression/what-is-depression/depression-warning-signs/ I hope you feel better whatever it is! Don't just think it's a phase or something that will go away. Be proactive. Yeah I did some blood analysis and I even lost my senses after, which never happened (and I was also really hungry), and it said I had a small anisocytosis but my doctor said it was nothing. I even had my cholesterol a little high and he didn't care. I really need to work out I graduated from school 6 years ago, and trust me, this will be worse with every year noooooooooooooooo I don't want to. Follow me and leave this sad life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveusaitama 318 Posted June 6, 2015 Share Posted June 6, 2015 I never feel like doing anything. I never have any energy. I just feel like lying down and be on the computer. I wasn't like this but ever since I finished school I've been getting worst. I used to be happy and always with good humor. Now sometimes I have a good humor but other day I'm just irritated or just don't feel like talk or do anything. I've been trying to find a job, and now I'm waiting for a call, and I want a job because of the money and get out of home, but at the same time I don't. When I do anything I always have to sit or lay down because I feel tired and I don't feel like doing anything. When I'm invited for someting I want to be with people and have fun, like I used to, but at the same time I don't feel like going. Like my sister told me to go this weekend for a friends house on another city and at first I didn't answer because I wanted to go, I've been there and I like to go there, but also didn't felt like going... Besides my sister is out of work at midnight and it's 2hours travel and I'm the one driving and it's tiring. What's wrong? I wasn't like this but I don't know what to do and I honestly don't feel comfortable talking to the people I know. ahhh....ehmm.... i dont want to use that (are we twin ??)line thing but.....we pretty much the same :wth:so that mean you are freaking awesome too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yagimi 116 Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 I'm guessing you had presented your symptoms to your doctor already (real doctor, not doctor Google).. I remember dreading going through this before graduating from school, so I scrambled to find a job before graduating just so I wouldn't be left empty-handed, watching my classmates make money and moving on in life. I'm thinking you're having some stress/anxiety, I think you will feel a bit better once you find work, any work. It should help you refocus on figuring out what you want to do in life while making some job experiences and how you want to make a living. .. This is just my impression from reading your post, of course I can be wrong and that you might have simply been deficient in a nutrient or something add oil (jiayou!!!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sapphicsunmi 2,713 Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 I feel like that almost everyday ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
all-them-pies 654 Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 its normal Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
still 353 Posted June 8, 2015 Share Posted June 8, 2015 You kinda sound like me lol. I have GAD though. My therapist suggested that I take up meditation and go for 10 minute walks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blinket 2,355 Posted June 8, 2015 Share Posted June 8, 2015 Go to the gym Go to a nightclub Go meet some people Go look for another job Force yourself to go places even if it sounds hard (like the thing ur sis asked u to) it'll be worth it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fanboi 607 Posted June 8, 2015 Share Posted June 8, 2015 this is me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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