FrenchFries 1,340 Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 I was just watching the Korean drama Who Are You - School 2015. The bully pissed me off so much. I hate bullies. Now my questions are: IF you were (being) bullied, would you get revenge? How would you get back at the bully? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WasteOfLife 600 Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 one of my bullies from high school (actually he bullied other people then turned on me when I stood up for them) died last year. Not "revenge" but... It was very surreal. But I had to pretend to be sad. I feel weird even admitting that. But he wasn't a nice person. I wouldn't try to get revenge. You end up spending all your time thinking about the bully and what you're going to do, and in that sense they kinda succeeded in getting to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sakurahanabira 6,634 Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 I had already gone through bullying when I was in elementary school, so it's not a case of "if you were bullied" for me. But since I was a very sensitive kid when I was young, all I did was cry when I was bullied lol. However, even if I were to defend myself against my bullies, I would've gotten in trouble, too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nowhere Boy 2,431 Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 Fuck bullies, but I wouldn't waste my time getting revenge. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taebb 1,624 Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 i stabbed a girl with a pen once. i got punished so bad, but of course she got away scot-free for all the shit she used to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
telekinesis 23 Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 I wouldn't get my revenge. I don't want to stoop down to their level. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YNRA 1,082 Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 nah id rather let karma deal with them anyways the best revenge is success Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jcey 7,752 Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 I would Deal with them on the Spot. When I was New A girl kept whispering bitch, get away,swears, etc to me while we were playing basketball match in Pe class. I Shouted 'Shut Up' then the game Stopped. Teacher took her away She was Crying Later on. Her 'Friends' consoled me saying that girl is Bitchy and back talked about her. Weird thing is I didn't even know her then. If I had let her Go On then, Probably I would have been really bullied later On. Then I would've had to beat her up then I would've gotten into trouble. Thankgod for her and myself it didn't came to that point. Few days Later..She was nice to me tho but her image is Forever ruined in my eyes cuz How can you do that to a New Person in School who doesn't even Know you or anyone? Should not People be nice and Welcoming? Only then I knew Real Bitches Exist. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
å…´'s 1,339 Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 I would do this... Kidding!!! Instead of wasting my time and efforts on taking revenge on them, I will just take all the time to improve myself more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaceyl 493 Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 i was bullied so many times back then & i didn't really do anything except tell the teachers. but now if anyone bullies me i would probably punch them in the face. well not really lol (unless they touch me) but i'll just tell them to fuck off. but i would not get revenge on any of them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady 623 Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 I fought my "bully" ended up getting suspended for a week Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maeum 269 Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 I believe in karma so I just endured all the bullying. I also knew I was never going to see them again after I graduated so they really weren't worth my time. One of them tried to add me as a friend on Facebook. Like, bitch, are you kidding me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FrenchFries 1,340 Posted June 4, 2015 Author Share Posted June 4, 2015 I was bullied in elementary and there were times I really wanted to kill him. Wanted to get revenge but later on I found out that he didn't have a good relationship with his parents. I remember punching him once in the face despite me being so petite and a crybaby. I recently bumped into him after so many years. I felt awkward because he smiled and greeted me nicely. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 No matter how many times I asked people in position of authority to help out, they didn't do shit. The moment I defended myself I got kicked out of my class. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dandelion Wine 1,540 Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 I don't think I would ever take revenge on a bully (I have been bullied) because I would feel guilty about hurting them (even if I had no reason too, especially even if they were truly awful bullies) but if I had to do anything... I'd take some chocolate milk from the school cafeteria, wait till the bully left their bag alone somewhere, and pour the whole thing inside the backpack, making sure to soil their schoolwork and books and whatever else may be in there (don't know if I would hesitate if they had a laptop or anything...) That is what real, sixth grader me imagined doing at the time, but I'm above that stuff now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taro 383 Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 I got bullied relentlessly in middle school, but I was too passive to do anything except look innocent and vulnerable lol I had to change my schedule once though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
invisiblecc 323 Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 I didn't do anything because I felt I deserved it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
plsdelete 1,338 Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 I wouldn't actively get revenge. Ignoring that kind of behavior is the best "revenge" for me, for bullies are not worth my time nor my thoughts. I just don't want to respond with equally despicable behavior because I might start disliking myself for it~ It can be a saddening and frustrating situation though. That's why I'm debating if I even want to watch that drama, lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xharuharux 2,487 Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 not revenge per say, but one of my bullies throughout elementary and hs, keeps trying to follow me on social media platforms and i keep denying his ass Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 I've never had a bully, I mean of course there going to be people who are going to try to bother you or be mean but in some cases it depends on how you react and how they perceive you. So if was being bullied I would definitely take my chance to get revenge whenever it presented. i stabbed a girl with a pen once. i got punished so bad, but of course she got away scot-free for all the shit she used to do. I know a classmate that did the same when he was younger lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eternal glow 6,196 Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 I would do nothing. I really do believe in karma tbh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ellectrified 3,571 Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 Revenge is a dish best served cold. Tempting like an ice cream, or ice cubes during hot summer days, but there's no warmth to it; besides, if we get revenge on bullies, wouldn't take make us as miserable and pathetic as they are? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShawolSONEexo 2,135 Posted June 5, 2015 Share Posted June 5, 2015 Fuck bullies, but I wouldn't waste my time getting revenge. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ñyan 1,712 Posted June 5, 2015 Share Posted June 5, 2015 Once I told a bully " At least I have a father" he never bother me again Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveusaitama 318 Posted June 5, 2015 Share Posted June 5, 2015 you can just use this but i recommend that you dont use it but hey its your choice ,you can do what ever you want Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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