maidoan97 743 Posted May 30, 2015 Share Posted May 30, 2015 This is a question that I always ask myself. I think that I'm bad at everything. I never talked to anyone about this. I secretly think that anyone on this planet is better than I am. I am: -shy -awkward -clumsy -lazy -lies a lot -not particular good at any subject, maybe English but there are a lot of people who are better than me -terrible at sports, I practically fail at anything that has to do with sports -selfish -envious -overweight -bad-tempered -always take a longgg time to make decisions -get bored easily -give up easily; never challenge myself The only think people ever complimented me about is my face and my singing, but I'm sure millions of people are better than I am. I do like to help others if they need me, but any human being would be like that. This is one of the reasons why I'm afraid to let people know me better. I'm scared to let them see my flaws. I don't think anyone would find me likable once they see the "real" me. This is also a problem for me being a K-Pop fan. Like, no matter what they do, they are way more perfect than I am. Good at dancing, singing, good personalities, and good-looking of course. Sometimes I want to criticize them but I know I have no right to do so when I'm no better Do you think I have a problem? Should I start to wonder about my existence? So sorry if I ruined your mood with this post xD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveusaitama 318 Posted May 30, 2015 Share Posted May 30, 2015 hey we practically a twin im pretty much like you except much worse,im not good in English Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
closed 1,186 Posted May 30, 2015 Share Posted May 30, 2015 you are good at not been good at anything, but seriously some of your traits are problematic. esp the selfish,bad tempered, envious. if i knew you i don't think i would have liked you. I hope i wasn't harsh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xingsass 1,356 Posted May 30, 2015 Share Posted May 30, 2015 omfg twinsiessssss hey we practically a twin im pretty much like you except much worse,im not good in English I mean tripliessssss Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NORIKIYO 5,087 Posted May 30, 2015 Share Posted May 30, 2015 You are good, you simply aren't trying. I was terrible at basketball but with two months of self practice I could dribble, cross, make easy layups and improve my dunking (even though i'm small). You have to try. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
____Vatouhâ„¢ 743 Posted May 30, 2015 Share Posted May 30, 2015 YOLO. That's all i got to say ^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
milkybar 869 Posted May 30, 2015 Share Posted May 30, 2015 you need to stop comparing urself with other ppl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pimo 4,045 Posted May 30, 2015 Share Posted May 30, 2015 Its good that you can point out your bad traits, like selfishness, envious etc now try and change that, It doesnt have to be who you are Also fake it till you make it. If you pretend to be confident, after a while it will work out Dont give up or sulk because you arent what you want to be, get up and change it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
512955124 1,748 Posted May 30, 2015 Share Posted May 30, 2015 You don't look chubby in ur profile pic which i assumed it's u? I am the same as you. I lack confidence and I know so many people that dislike me. I am very awkward too.(Basically everything in your post.) There's no free lunch in the world, you have to take initiative if you want it. You have to try. Be confident in yourself, you are smarter than you think you are. If you get to be in a different environment, try to change. not necessary in a completely new place, can be in a situation where you happen to start hanging out with a person you did not know much about. Think of the reasons why you may not get along with others, and try to not do it/do it the right way when you get to try. Cause this is what I am doing right now, still making a lot of the same mistakes, but I think I am making some positive changes, though still a tiny bit. Recently I found out that I do have strengths but I need confidence to try and people to believe in me. But I have to believe in myself before others can believe in me. In my case, I am graduating from something like a technical high school next year and I will most likely start working next year. But I am worried about my low eq(my results are shit too) and a lot people don't seems to be satisfied with my work as I am not the detailed type and I am slowww. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
limbo 350 Posted May 30, 2015 Share Posted May 30, 2015 Well, NOBODY'S PERFECT~ so.... CHEER UP MY DEAR <3 *insertjessiej'snobodysperfecthere* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maidoan97 743 Posted May 30, 2015 Author Share Posted May 30, 2015 You don't look chubby in ur profile pic which i assumed it's u? I am the same as you. I lack confidence and I know so many people that dislike me. I am very awkward too. There's no free lunch in the world, you have to take initiative if you want it. You have to try. Be confident in yourself, you are smarter than you think you are. If you get to be in a different environment, try to change. not necessary in a completely new place, can be in a situation where you happen to start hanging out with a person you did not know much about. Think of the reasons why you may not get along with others, and try to not do it/do it the right way when you get to try. Cause this is what I am doing right now, still making a lot of the same mistakes, but I think I am making some positive changes, though still a tiny bit. Recently I found out that I do have strengths but I need confidence to try and people to believe in me. But I have to believe in myself before others can believe in me. In my case, I am graduating from something like a technical high school next year and I will most likely start working next year. But I am worried about my low eq(my results are shit too) and a lot people don't seems to be satisfied with my work as I am not the detailed type and I am slowww. I actually used 360 for that one haha once u meet me in real life u'll see lolThank you so much for your advice! I'll try to improve myself And I'm graduating from high school next year too haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sane 16,342 Posted May 30, 2015 Share Posted May 30, 2015 Sounds pretty average to me. Potential for success isn't something most people are born with. That's why it's called "hard work" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NARA. 1,708 Posted May 30, 2015 Share Posted May 30, 2015 let's highfive Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*lesigh* 6,759 Posted May 30, 2015 Share Posted May 30, 2015 -give up easily; never challenge myself This is your problem. You never try to find something you're good at or build any of your skills, thus you're not good at anything. The reason why I'm OK at singing, and good at dancing and drawing is because I do it all the time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haunted 5,365 Posted May 30, 2015 Share Posted May 30, 2015 You need to calm down and realize there is always going to be someone in the world better than you, so just do you and live your own life. Comparing everything about yourself will just result in negative thoughts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Property of Goddess Irene 9,760 Posted May 30, 2015 Share Posted May 30, 2015 This is a question that I always ask myself. I think that I'm bad at everything. I never talked to anyone about this. I secretly think that anyone on this planet is better than I am. I am: -shy -awkward -clumsy -lazy -lies a lot -not particular good at any subject, maybe English but there are a lot of people who are better than me -terrible at sports, I practically fail at anything that has to do with sports -selfish -envious -overweight -bad-tempered -always take a longgg time to make decisions -get bored easily -give up easily; never challenge myself The only think people ever complimented me about is my face and my singing, but I'm sure millions of people are better than I am. I do like to help others if they need me, but any human being would be like that. This is one of the reasons why I'm afraid to let people know me better. I'm scared to let them see my flaws. I don't think anyone would find me likable once they see the "real" me. This is also a problem for me being a K-Pop fan. Like, no matter what they do, they are way more perfect than I am. Good at dancing, singing, good personalities, and good-looking of course. Sometimes I want to criticize them but I know I have no right to do so when I'm no better Do you think I have a problem? Should I start to wonder about my existence? So sorry if I ruined your mood with this post xD You are good at seeing reality. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
victaorious 2,923 Posted May 30, 2015 Share Posted May 30, 2015 Try to get good at something? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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