____Vatouhâ„¢ 743 Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 have you ever had such conflicts with your close friends? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
natural 959 Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 I do my best friend is like my sister I've known her since I was 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ღChoco 2,864 Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 I've had fights with close friends before we usually get over it the next day There's only like 2 instances where I completely stopped talking to them and it's usually turned out for the better. Mostly bc they were both toxic people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NORIKIYO 5,087 Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 I do too, but you have to realize your 1 in over 7 billion people living on planet earth atm. Your persona is all up to how you express it and how you receive it from others so get out, make the time of your life and realize it means the most. Time runs out for everybody, and when it does we all regret what we didn't get to do. I think you should resort to making other friends who can accept you for who you are, ones you don't have to question if you trust them and ones who can genuinely care for you and make you feel better. Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ddudungie 3,543 Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 i don't have best friend Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unafraid 187 Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 I think its natural to fight with close friends, especially if you can make up easily, sometimes it can strengthen friendships. I trust a lot of my friends, my best friend not really but thats mostly cuz I feel like she's not paying attention to what I say Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
____Vatouhâ„¢ 743 Posted May 22, 2015 Author Share Posted May 22, 2015 I do too, but you have to realize your 1 in over 7 billion people living on planet earth atm. Your persona is all up to how you express it and how you receive it from others so get out, make the time of your life and realize it means the most. Time runs out for everybody, and when it does we all regret what we didn't get to do. I think you should resort to making other friends who can accept you for who you are, who can genuinely care for you and make you feel better. Good luck! I feel like i avoid many people myself.. i only stick to the people i know for along time or have trust somehow also i won't be able to go out yet.. cause became ill right after the incident with my friend happened ... (although not because of my friend... it all started when our class had a water fight and i standed wet for 3 hours in a windy weather) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kay268840 5,950 Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 i had a few very bad fights with my best friend then we always end up crying and hugging and everything gets back to normal again Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jcey 7,752 Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 We don't argue. We call it discussion. I trust her and we haven't argued for years. The last time we argued over small thing, I was angry but she called me back the next day saying How I am doing? What are you up to?. I was little angry but that was her way of awkwardly making up with me . Obviously she is my best friend and I want to be her friend for a lifetime So I spoke to her Right away. Lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NORIKIYO 5,087 Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 I feel like i avoid many people myself.. i only stick to the people i know for along time or have trust somehow also i won't be able to go out yet.. cause became ill right after the incident with my friend happened ... (although not because of my friend... it all started when our class had a water fight and i standed wet for 3 hours in a windy weather) We are all here for you, including me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BABOGIRL 5,414 Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 I have certain friends i trust with my everything and i feel grateful for having them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
____Vatouhâ„¢ 743 Posted May 22, 2015 Author Share Posted May 22, 2015 We are all here for you, including me thanks <3 hehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NORIKIYO 5,087 Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 For a good laugh! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
____Vatouhâ„¢ 743 Posted May 22, 2015 Author Share Posted May 22, 2015 We don't argue. We call it discussion. I trust her and we haven't argued for years. The last time we argued over small thing, I was angry but she called me back the next day saying How I am doing? What are you up to?. I was little angry but that was her way of awkwardly making up with me . Obviously she is my best friend and I want to be her friend for a lifetime So I spoke to her Right away. Lol. Same tbh.. its really rare for us to SERIOUSLY fight.... but this time.. i even apologized,but she still kept up bringing me down and insulting.. i couldn't hold it and fought her back and told her some things which are one of her complex's.. after that she got really mad.. and then we didn't contact for 2 days..(3rd day today) She knew i was ill.. (from my other friends/classmates) but she still didn't ask how i was... I think it's her fault.. and if she truly wants to be continue as close friends she should contact me... i won't be the one to contact her.. because it wasn't my fault. i'm that type of person... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
its Hq 563 Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 nope i never make my good good very good friend becme bestfriend.. bcz i never be a bestfriend of anyone.. for me, bestfriend is just a myth.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jcey 7,752 Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 Same tbh.. its really rare for us to SERIOUSLY fight.... but this time.. i even apologized,but she still kept up bringing me down and insulting.. i couldn't hold it and fought her back and told her some things which are one of her complex's.. after that she got really mad.. and then we didn't contact for 2 days..(3rd day today) She knew i was ill.. (from my other friends/classmates) but she still didn't ask how i was... I think it's her fault.. and if she truly wants to be continue as close friends she should contact me... i won't be the one to contact her.. because it wasn't my fault. i'm that type of person... In small arguments Best Friends>>>>>>>> Pride. So calling her and talking to her seriously might be a good idea but If you are always the first one to apologise and coax her then maybe she should call you this time. The longer you don't talk to eachother, the more awkward/hard it will be to makeup. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
____Vatouhâ„¢ 743 Posted May 22, 2015 Author Share Posted May 22, 2015 In small arguments Best Friends>>>>>>>> Pride. So calling her and talking to her seriously might be a good idea but If you are always the first one to apologise and coax her then maybe she should call you this time. The longer you don't talk to eachother, the more awkward/hard it will be to makeup. Right now i messaged her 1 letter.... "a" and she messaged me 3 sentences... something like telling me that i'm a bitch and she heard i was sick and how was i doing.. and she also told they had another water fight today lmao... i messaged her i was fine and that i hate water now well that was easy.. all it took was for me to message 1 letter.... wow :p i'll be using this much more in the future Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mxj 3,031 Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 The only conflict I recall was when one of my best friends made fun of my huge pimple and so I replied "But your vagina is ridiculously big". She got really mad and slapped me in the face so hard. We didn't talk to each other for weeks... The few friends that I have are my soul mates Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jcey 7,752 Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 Right now i messaged her 1 letter.... "a" and she messaged me 3 sentences... something like telling me that i'm a bitch and she heard i was sick and how was i doing.. and she also told they had another water fight today lmao... i messaged her i was fine and that i hate water now well that was easy.. all it took was for me to message 1 letter.... wow :p i'll be using this much more in the future Glad that went well..lol. Thats how friends are. She obviously wanted to talk to you and you gave her the way by just writing "a". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roly Poly 544 Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 one shouldn't trust even his/her own parents. one day you can be deceived even by them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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